Where to find the man of your dreams?

The man of dreams... Well, which girl doesn't dream abouthim, imagining their chosen one as a handsome prince, then as a courageous knight, then as a handsome young oligarch! They suffer, rush about and torment themselves with the question: "How to find the man of your dreams and make him fall in love with you forever?" Meanwhile, the relationship between a man and a woman is a mysterious thing. And a girl, passionately dreaming of a fairy-tale prince, suddenly falls in love with an unremarkable guy from the neighboring yard. And suddenly it turns out that she does not need anyone except him, and she wants to live her life hand in hand only with him. Because, it turns out, this guy is the man of her dreams. And not some prince, knight or oligarch. Strange, isn't it? After all, it is more romantic with a prince, more reliable with a knight, and more comfortable with an oligarch. Of course, there are not enough for all these special men. But now you can't lose your head because of an ordinary guy! And she, that is, the head, for some reason is lost. It turns out that we dreamed of someone completely different from the one we needed. And it’s scary to even imagine what would have happened if some prince, knight or oligarch had turned up instead of this guy! Even drowning in luxury, we would hardly be able to feel happy. Often, a girl imagines the man of her dreams based on a stereotype imposed by society. In fact, each of us is an individual, therefore, each of us should have her own dream man. How can we determine what he should really be like without being cruelly deceived? And where can we look for him, this man next to whom it will be warm and comfortable to live? Let’s try to figure this out.

Where to look for a man of dreams?

Of course, we all want our chosen onewas, well, if not a millionaire, then at least a wealthy person. People don't live in a hut these days. And I don't want to count pennies all my life. However, unfortunately, there are not so many truly wealthy young men, and there are many candidates to become their wives. In addition, you can't command your heart, and it often happens that a nice, wealthy young man is of no interest to us at all. Reason insists that he has everything. But for some reason it's boring, sad with a handsome man, and you don't want him to be around all the time. What is the reason? It's hard to answer this question. One thing is clear - we don't always have a clear idea of who we ultimately need. And it's unlikely that anyone will argue that marrying a person you don't need means dooming yourself, if not to torment, then certainly to tossing and turning. It's unlikely that such a marriage can be happy. So what to do? Where to find the man of your dreams and not make a mistake? To begin with, let's remember all the young men we know and even those we don't know very well. Let's select from them a circle of those who belong to the same social group as we do. People who belong to the same social group often have close interests, similar views on life and almost identical needs. Therefore, they understand each other quite well, which often contributes to the rapid emergence of sympathy. Then, from the intended circle of men, we will choose those who most closely match us in external qualities. Why? Because if a man is excessively handsome, we will feel constrained next to him. Unless, of course, we ourselves are like Catherine Deneuve. Are we not? Well, then we choose a nice and charming guy who will not have complexes when communicating with us and will behave as naturally as possible. Such behavior usually evokes sympathy. And now, after we have determined the group of young men in which our dream man should be, let's trust our heart and intuition. Let them tell us which of the guys suits us best, both in terms of our inner state and character. Perhaps we are already interested in one of these men, and some of them are starting to develop feelings of love for us. Sometimes it happens that such a guy is our complete opposite. So what? There are many happy couples in which the husband and wife act as a wonderful complement to each other. Well, we have finally chosen a candidate for the man of our dreams. Now let's fantasize, imagining what our romance with him will be like. And we fantasize until we understand that we no longer want to change the chosen one. That's it. The first stage of searching for the man of our dreams is over. However, this is not enough. Now we also need to attract him.

How to fall in love with a man of his dreams?

So, we already know where to find a mandreams, but we still have a poor idea of how to attract his attention. To do this, of course, you need to show your best qualities. All women, to one degree or another, tend to be frank. In this case, it is to our advantage. We will show ourselves as a sincere and frank person, and the man next to us will feel free. And this will create the prerequisites for a trusting, warm relationship. If a young man opens up and trusts us, some intimacy will already appear in the relationship. At the same time, of course, you should not tell him everything about yourself, without a trace. There should always be some mystery in a woman, which any man really wants to solve. The main thing is that our chosen one understands that we have trusted him with something that we do not trust everyone. And that this is evidence of our special attitude towards him. It is not worth talking about our problems at the first stages of rapprochement. It is better for our chosen one to see us as a successful and optimistic woman. Men are not really drawn to sullen, unsolved problems-laden individuals. Therefore, we tell the young man mainly those stories about ourselves in which we were lucky. But we do not go overboard, so that we are not perceived as an excessively boastful young lady. A sense of proportion is important in everything. So, is the man of our choice almost conquered? Then we turn on our feminine charm. Let him not think that in us he has only found a friend. Let us behave as befits a woman. Let her help carry heavy bags, open doors for us, wrap us up when it is cold, and, in the end, take care of us! After all, the more a person worries about someone, the closer and dearer this “someone” becomes to him. Well, and when we finally become dear to our chosen one, we can consider that the deed is done. The man of your dreams has been found. Perhaps, to someone this advice on how to find the man of your dreams will seem too pragmatic. Perhaps... However, our dreams are often unrealizable, and we can spend our whole life searching for a fairy-tale prince or knight. The man of our dreams must be created, not invented. Our own happiness must be built in reality, not in an imaginary world. So let's act. And we will succeed! We recommend reading: