Girls often wonder how to behave withguys, how to make it so that they like, and what actions it is better not to commit, not to cause laughter or irritation. Relations, as well as sympathy in general, can arise from nothing if two people are destined to be together; And if not? How to fall in love with the coveted guy, attract his attention, "lure into their networks"? How to behave with a guy who likes to not seem ridiculous?
Mistakes in behavior
Of course, looks are not the least, butStill, it's not about the hairstyle or the outfit. You probably have not once thought about why some women have such a huge success among the representatives of the opposite sex, what they like and attract them so much? And the secret is that there is a certain type of behavior that men notice and can no longer pass by. No, it's not the cheeky actions of a frivolous lady, it's not the actions of an unhappy, offended woman, it's something else. And then the question arises: how should a girl and a guy behave? How to become this most attractive magnet? What exactly should I do? First of all, remember that you need to make sure that the guys themselves are trying to be interesting for you. This behavior can be called "the behavior of the prize." That is, you are a welcome prize, and he is trying hard to win you. At the first acquaintance with a person, we begin to talk with him, to communicate, there comes a time when we understand that he likes us. Then there is a desire to please the guy. Now the girl wants him to pay more attention to her, and tries to please him in everything. And this is where the first mistake is allowed! The man quickly realizes that he is an interesting lady, and already ceases to appreciate her attention. That is, you are no longer a "prize" for him. He does not have to try to win your sympathy. Now the man starts to accept only what you are doing for him. Anyway, his interest is slowly cooling down, and in such relations "winter" begins. Is this correct? Is this a tactic to attract the attention of men? Of course not! Many times you have heard that a man is a conqueror, and not a trophy, so behavior like "servility" or "hunting" does not help you to "frown" the guy at all. Here it is necessary to act very correctly, to think over each step, so that he does not realize that you have "laid eyes on him." Then how to behave with the guy that you like? The answer is simple: you need to draw attention not to him, but to yourself. There are several "magic" tips that will help you easily achieve the desired result. We'll talk about them today.
Correct line of conduct
A competent installation you should always think thatyou do in order to please the guy to attract his attention. Ask yourself sometimes the question: "What can I do to please a man, that he wants to fight for me?". Perhaps you do not know the answer to it, but you have to think so. This is already a correct subconscious installation, which eventually begins to influence your real actions. And very soon you will notice that the guys began to pay more attention to you. Communication should be earned. Turning to the practical part of deciding how to behave with a guy in order to please him, I would like to remind you that self-esteem and superiority over others can give completely opposite results, and you can simply be called an idle one. Therefore, everything should be in moderation. You have to show him that communicating with you is a gift, that deserving your attention and location is not so simple that you are for men a "tough nut". But it must be done very tactfully and carefully. You should not be rude to a man, as you should not agree with everything he says to you: be a little mysterious and a little inaccessible. If a guy invites you to take a walk, you can smile with a smile: "Maybe. We'll see how you behave". It is important to "sparkle" with your eyes and seductively smile. If you say these words to yourself with the tone of "leave", then it is unlikely that a man will ever seek you again. Create a competition As banal as it sounds, but still for some reason the phrases such as "I love when they give me flowers ..." are excellent for men. This phrase does not hint at all that he should immediately bring you a huge bouquet of flowers (although you will agree, it would be nice). From these words one can understand that many men give you flowers, that is, they will have competition if he decides to join the fight for your heart. You can tell a man by chance that you came to work earlier today than the rest of the staff, because a friend drove you. Then add that with him you do not really like driving. Perhaps the guy then wants to prove that he drives better than others. The spirit of rivalry among men has been present since birth. Therefore, to cause him the necessary emotions, you can take advantage of this trick. Throw a man a challenge Men like brave girls, they like to conquer those who are not easy to conquer, almost equal to their rivals. Those guys who like weak women, often have a lot of complexes, they are not sure of themselves, so this man is unlikely you need. Be strong - and you will be strong. But you should not go too far, because you can just frighten a man; or he will conclude that you are a fanatical feminist-muzhinenavistnitsa. You can make a call, saying in his presence that in men you never fall in love. As you know, the forbidden fruit is sweet. You will necessarily want to convince yourself that you are wrong. But only before this, be sure to be ready for a discussion in order to properly argue your words. Feminine weaknesses To approach the solution of the mystery, how to behave with the guy you like, how to build relationships with him, you do not always have to be just strong. Learn to become weak sometimes, but all the faults a woman should show correctly and rarely. Sometimes it will not hurt to show weakness, especially before the "fight". There's nothing to be done - men like to notice female misses in order to feel themselves defenders and saviors. But they would never have imagined that these "weaknesses" could be created artificially. So sometimes clever ladies let their gentlemen be stronger. But any praise or criticism should be taken equally (remember the behavior of the prize). Emotion to show better already in a relationship. Do not admit your sympathy. You probably noticed that until you yourself admitted to sympathy for a man, your behavior was much more adequate, and then you stopped controlling your feelings and your heart? So it is: the longer you drive this thought away from yourself, the longer you feel calm and peaceful, you have time to do yourself and your life. After you cross this line, you start spending the night with a cell phone in an embrace, waiting for a call, worrying when you meet, and you start to create an insane amount of stupidity in his presence. All this from what you do not know how to behave with a guy who likes. The main thing here is not to start to perceive it as your property, and still mentally make plans in which dress you will appear in front of the altar. This is a big mistake, and if he feels it, he will surely slip away from you. Do not be afraid to say "no" When a girl feels great sympathy or falls in love, then it is very difficult for her to refuse a beloved. She begins to agree to any meeting, putting off all her affairs for later, to devote herself to the coveted man. This is another mistake: if it does, then even having won it, you will adjust your personal time under his whims. If the guy did not think in advance about inviting you on a date, then you better refuse him. Moreover, having received an invitation for a couple of hours goodbye, you probably turned out to be just a reserve option: the restaurant was ordered, and another lady refused to come. In any case, no matter how much you like the guy, it's better to let him know that a meeting needs to be earned, and you are not a "stopper" for free space in the schedule. Stop smiling constantly. Probably, each of us noticed that in the presence of a guy who likes or whom you love, it is very difficult to erase the smile from your face. And it does not depend on what he says or does. He can even talk about his problems at work or about the death of relatives last year, and this smile in this situation is completely useless. Try to drop your warm thoughts and "emotions," then focus on the conversation, ask meaningful questions, discuss, but do not argue.
Why is it so?
You noticed that sometimes women attract oneand the same type of men? To one ladies always "glue" ladies, to others - strong and courageous persons, to the third - those who need to cry, and so on. There are many types of men. It's all about behavior: how a woman behaves, she attracts such a man. It seems, and not at all beautiful and not clever, but all gentlemen, as for selection - smart, strong, "gifted" and most importantly - their own. Yes, with such not simply, here it is necessary to be able to submit itself. Hence, some young ladies know how to behave with a guy, how to win his sympathy? So, it should be remembered that such men will "sweep" only for a woman who values herself and respects, who knows not only love, but also in properly built relationships. They do not choose their beloved ones, it is true; but much is possible for a woman who believes in herself and knows which arrow to choose in order to injure a man in the heart. A universal way to win the love of men is not, but if you follow certain recommendations, then the sympathy of the stronger sex you are assured. We advise you to read: