You have already come to the conclusion that meeting a manthe dream of your whole life has finally happened - you have met a guy whose personality fits perfectly into your ideas about what your chosen one should be like. Everything is working out so wonderfully that even the fact that his car number ends in five, you guess fateful signs. After all, one of the digits of your date of birth is also five - it can't be just a coincidence? At this very moment, when you are mentally ready to soar to the very heights of bliss from the feeling of closeness to complete and unclouded happiness, something unexpected happens. The person who occupies so many of your thoughts disappears from your horizon completely or simply stops noticing you point-blank. You do not understand what is happening. A woman, as an emotional being, is immediately surrounded by a swarm of thoughts, the main one of which is: what is happening? Indeed, what to do if a guy ignores a girl? Before doing and undertaking anything, you should make an effort to pull yourself together and calm down. After all, panic hardly helps anyone to think sensibly, and in the heat of the moment you can do such a terrible thing that it will be embarrassing to remember later. Of course, like any interested person, you cannot remain completely indifferent to what is happening. But calmness will quickly help you understand the reasons why the guy began to ignore you and began to behave in such a mysterious way; it will be easier for you to draw the appropriate conclusions and only then proceed to action. Most of the supposed and possible reasons why a man ignores a girl will be discussed in our article. We will skip only the most unusual and rare of them: premature death (everyone knows that this can also happen, sad as it is), abduction by aliens from an unfriendly galaxy, or the man's work in top-secret agencies, which made him disappear from your life due to his official duties. Of course, you should not completely deny the potential possibility of such a development of events, but you should pay attention to things that happen much more often in our lives.
Why a man ignores: causes and scenarios
What are the real reasons that can make a man forget - temporarily or forever - about your existence?
- His heart is already taken up
Despite the prevailing opinion among the majorityThe opinion of the female sex that "every man has only one thing on his mind" and they all cheat on their partners is not entirely true. There are rare specimens who want and know how to remain faithful to their lady love. Perhaps you took his quite ordinary signs of attention for a manifestation of more tender feelings? As a decent person, he decided to change his behavior and began to act in such a way that you had no illusions that there was nothing between you except an ordinary acquaintance. Do not be upset. First, find out his marital status, and act based on the information received. If this assumption turns out to be correct, well ... The world is full of single men, and you should pay attention to them this very minute. Be glad for yourself that you were lucky enough to avoid a relationship with an unfree man, and thank him (mentally will be quite enough) for not using your interest for bad purposes.
- A lone wolf or a free wanderer
You are a wonderful creature and you can make everyone happy with yourpresence of any Prince, but the thing is that his happiness is freedom, including from relationships. He understands perfectly well, looking into your eyes, that non-committal relationships are not for you, but it is not possible for him to offer more. He did not fool you, preferring to simply ignore you, not particularly burdening himself with any explanations about this. Another reason to say "thank you" to your lucky star, which saved you from the torment of unrequited love. Isn't that wonderful? You should not rush to conclusions, just observe his further behavior, listen to what reputation he has in his circle, and then you can sum it up. If the reason for his behavior is explained precisely by the fact that the status of a single guy suits him much more than the happiness of mutual love, then there is no point in getting upset about such a loss. You are simply not on the same path with this man: you have different goals and life values.
- Little Gray Rabbit Trouser ...
He is afraid and too insecure.Men, despite their status as strong and decisive individuals, can also experience fear. In relationships, this concerns the fear of being turned down by a girl who interests him. Agree, few people will maintain peace of mind if the situation develops in this way. Such behavior can be justified if the guy has already been rejected by the fair sex, if he has had an unsuccessful experience of love relationships; in fact, anything could have caused his insecurity. After all, we cannot look into his past to find out exactly why he began to behave this way with you. You should figure out what exactly made him give in without a fight. If this is a past unsuccessful experience or a rejection from another girl - this is one thing, it is quite curable, the main thing is to show understanding and make the guy understand that you are a different girl, and your relationship will be completely different, there is no point in even comparing with the past. A person for whom insecurity is the norm of life is a completely different matter. Think about whether it is worth trying to win his interest again, if even at the very beginning of your acquaintance, when overwhelming feelings make people lose their heads and do bold things, he gave in and disappeared from your life?
- The less a girl we love, the ... less we love her, everything is simple
It would be hard for any girl to accept such a reason.It's very nice, but it also happens. Unfortunately, no scientist has yet managed to decipher the formula of love, and it is quite possible that no one will ever be able to do so. He was not attracted to you on that magical level. It's not about you, not about your charm and attractiveness or lack thereof, character or sense of humor. It's nature, pure nature and instincts. Well, it didn't happen, that magical spark didn't fly! You can only be good friends, and that's it. You can sprinkle ashes on your head, accusing fate of cruelty and injustice, immerse yourself in sad thoughts and sorrowful thoughts. Believe me, you can spend your time more wisely if you remain positive and content with life. A man will definitely appear in your life who will lose his head over you - from the smell of your hair, voice, laughter, movements. Should you risk the chance to meet this very guy, grieving over something that didn't happen? It would probably be better to radiate good mood and goodwill again!
- The catch itself catches up with the hunter
In the case when the initiative in the relationshippasses from the guy's hands to the girl's, be prepared for him to lose interest in you. When a guy pays attention to you and you feel that you have hooked him, do not start to rush things. Let him know that you have noticed his interest, flirt, but do not deprive him of the pleasure of winning you over further, because this is so appreciated by men. Even if you have made such a mistake, thanks to which the man now ignores you, it is too early to worry, because not all is lost. Join this game! You should not demonstratively pretend that you are indifferent to him, or walk around with an expression on your face like "Well, I didn't really want it!" or "You're a fool yourself." Try to return the distance that was between you before you got closer, maintain a neutral-friendly manner of communication and behave the way you behave with absolutely all your friends or acquaintances. There's no point in pinning him down to try to figure out what's going on if his interest in you has suddenly started to wane; however, you should definitely say hello, smile, and saunter past him. If the reason for his distant behavior falls into this category, then this kind of respite will give you both time to think about what to do next - whether to develop the relationship or not.
- So do not behave!
I don't want to think about it, but it's quite possibleit turns out that the reason for his unwillingness to communicate with you was something in your manners, behavior or character. Guessing what exactly could have pushed him away can be quite problematic, especially at the beginning of your acquaintance. For example, a non-smoker may be intolerant of a girl with such a habit, although he may be quite loyal to her. First, answer yourself the question of whether you are ready to give up something for the sake of another person. Changing and improving for the better for yourself, for the joy and benefit of your loved one - this is one thing. Such behavior is justified and is considered the norm. But becoming someone else who you really are not, breaking yourself and your character, radically changing something in your appearance just because of the whim of another person - will this be right in relation to yourself?
- Tactics and strategy for the conquest of women
Men find us women mysterious, but inin our eyes, they themselves are a very difficult object to understand. Perhaps the idea has occurred to him that you will fall in love with him even more if he distances himself from you after getting closer? He began to act based on this strange idea, but will soon again make every effort to regain your attention. Perhaps he thinks that such maneuvers will make him more attractive in your eyes? This person clearly strives to be mysterious to you! Here you should gather your will into a fist and call on all your endurance. If his tactics and strategy in relation to the weaker sex resemble a pendulum, it means that the opposite action will soon begin, which, after an apparent cooling, will return the object of your desires to your arms. Be patient, do not commit any rash actions, just wait, and that's all. The main thing is not to follow his example, because you yourself understand how painful it can be to be ignored, especially without any apparent reason.
Life goes on
Whatever the reason ultimately turns out to bemost suitable for your situation, dear ladies, remember one simple thing: life is beautiful and amazing. Beautiful in its unpredictability, diversity and the always available alternative that it provides us. We can be sad about the fact that the man we like has started to ignore us, we can remain calm and take a philosophical attitude to this, we can try to find out from him what the matter is. The choice is always ours. Learn to use it correctly, and then the situations in which you will be sad will become fewer, and the moments when you are happy and calm will increase. As you know, happy women have a very special aura that attracts the opposite sex. Therefore, even in a situation where one of the guys has decided that your company is superfluous for him, you can always attract the attention of another admirer - with your positive attitude to life and the people around you. We wish you that this time it will be a person who will be able to appreciate all the delights of your feminine charm. Believe in yourself, in your attractiveness (which is not always only external), and be happy!
