We all love our men and cherish them.We look for unusual culinary recipes, knit warm socks, share his sorrows and joys. But there are times when we ourselves ruin our happiness by throwing a careless word after him. Men, although the stronger sex, sometimes react very sharply to some things that we say to them. So, what should you never say to a man, under any circumstances?
1. Stop whining, be a man!
Even the strongest and most confident manafter these words he will feel disgusting. His pride and male dignity will be trampled into the dirt. To tell him this is the same as calling him a wimp and a henpecked husband all rolled into one. Since ancient times, the leader among men was the one who would be the first to kill the largest mammoth, drag it to the cave and lay it at the feet of his woman. By calling him a whiner, you inflict enormous damage on his "ego", proving that he is not capable of real male goals. Think how you would feel if he called you not a woman, but an "old stupid galosh". Surely the effect would be the same.
2. Oh, you! But my ex ...
This is exactly what you should not say to a man.Never compare him with your ex-men, especially in their favor. It is not pleasant to realize that you are not only not your first love, but also worse than the one who came before you. With such words, you will only awaken the spirit of male rivalry, and you will lose more than you gain. Any man needs confidence that for you he is the only one, the best and the most unique. By admiring former admirers and humiliating his dignity, you are tearing the thread that binds your relationship with your own hands. And if yours is also jealous, then trouble is definitely unavoidable. Such husbands do not tolerate rivalry, even imaginary. You expose yourself to the danger of becoming an object of constant control and suspicion.
3. Yes, your hands do not grow from that place!
Your husband might not have been accepted into the club."Handy hands", but this is not a reason to insult him. All people are different, one is great at fixing a faucet, and another writes wonderful stories. And these two sides do not always intersect. It is already good that your husband undertakes to do something with his own hands. Even if it does not turn out very well, you must definitely praise him and rejoice at his success. Men, like children, expect our praise for any action, and take silence for criticism. If you yourself nip in the bud all his attempts to manage the house, then be prepared: soon you will have to do everything yourself!
4. Who did you call?
It is these words that evoke the strongest emotion in a manirritation. It seems that he is obliged to report on every little thing - who called, who he spoke to, etc. No matter how jealous a man himself is, he will not tolerate totalitarian control over himself. Such behavior on the part of women keeps husbands in great tension, as if they are constantly expecting untidiness. Moreover, undeserved. Before demanding an answer about a call, imagine the opposite situation. The husband asks every day: who called, where were you, who were you walking with, why, for what purpose, at what time, etc., etc. Do you understand now?
5. Your mother got me!
Mom is the most sacred and most precious thinga person has. If you are unlucky with your mother-in-law, it does not mean that she is a bad mother for your son. Nature has it that men are psychologically connected to their mothers for life. Even if in the heat of anger the husband says something bad about her, an hour later he will regret it and suffer from remorse. Even if you manage to set your husband against his mother-in-law, later he will blame you for it. Do you need extra tragedies and wouldn't it be easier to become friends with his mother? By the way, in relation to your mother, that is, to your mother-in-law, the husband will copy your behavior. Perhaps one day you will hear: "Your mother has gotten on my nerves!"
6. Yes, I always pretended to be in bed with you!
Touché. Curtain. Bullet in the temple.It doesn’t matter who your man is – be he the owner of oil refineries, the ruler of the universe or a mere mortal, you have just completely trampled his pride. You have spat in his soul. The stronger sex is very sensitive to their masculinity. Especially to the part where it manifests itself physically. Telling him that he is no good in bed is the same as accusing him of being asexual. What man doesn’t dream of being the most passionate, the most tireless and inventive lover? The glory of Don Juan haunts them, mentally they want to surpass him in the ability to shock a woman with their love art. With your words, you will not only give rise to complexes in him, but also discourage him from sharing your bed. Think about how well this will affect your family life?
7. Tell me, do you love me?
It is not surprising that womenconstantly need confirmation of the partner's love. After all, we love with our ears and want to constantly hear about the feelings of our chosen one. And if he is silent about them, then we often ask this question ourselves. In such a tender, touching voice. Believe me, these words irritate men terribly. Especially if you say them five times a day. In their opinion, the fact that they live with us is already proof of love, and there is no point in talking about it. You know, like in the joke: "Darling, do you love me?" "And what do you think I'm doing?!"
8. Why would I need this gift?
Whatever you dream about on March 8th or on the daybirthday, hold your tongue when receiving a gift. No negativity, irritation or indifferent looks - try to sincerely enjoy the present. Even if you received something completely different from what you wanted, respect your man's choice. He probably spent a long time wondering what to give you and ran around a lot of stores. Remember your last gift for February 23 and think about what reaction you expected from your husband to the present? Try to meet your own requirements and thank him for his attention. You know, some women don't get gifts at all. You don't want to be one of them, do you?
9. Am I fat?
Oh, this sounds like irritant number seven, butmultiplied by several hundred times! Men are simply killed by these daily stupid questions that have no answer. If he says "yes", you will be mortally offended and will torment him with critical remarks. If he says "no", you still will not believe him and will ask this question a hundred more times. Of course, you need to watch your figure, but the sullen words "honey, you are not fat" will not reduce you a single kilogram. This question serves as a pretext for jokes about women's logic. So why should you fall into the category of silly girls and irritate your loved one? All nine points are phrases that should never be said to any man. No matter how confident you are in his love - do not make him suffer and worry. There is great power in the word, it is capable of destroying any, even the most sensitive relationship. We recommend reading:
