At a certain stage in a relationship, every womanreally wants to know whether her chosen one has fallen into the "net", or it is not yet time for a more confident attack. But to do this, alas, is not so easy. Every representative of the fair sex sooner or later wonders how a man in love behaves, what signs of love exist and in general - is it possible to somehow understand this? If you are very attentive, you can read in his eyes, evaluate by actions or words spoken. Although a loving man can behave very unconventionally, because after all, he is an individual person, with his own feelings and views on relationships. In any case, all men in love can be divided into those who love, and those who try to hide their feelings for a woman.
Signs of love in men
Pay attention to his behavior and youyou will definitely notice some awkwardness and confusion. Of course, the man has not yet had time to get used to the first manifestations of raging feelings inside him, so he is confused. All men are proud that they can cope with themselves and hide their emotions, but here everything turns out the other way around. Only a strong man is able to admit his feelings. Over time, he will definitely do this, but at first he will begin to justify himself, saying that he is blinded by your charm and elegance, the sparkle in your eyes, and it is even difficult for him to think when he is next to such a beauty. One way or another, his behavior will still give him away, and you will not be able to miss it if you are really interested in him.
Sometimes your chosen one may seem quiteimpudent and even narcissistic, and his behavior will be similar to the behavior of a thick-skinned rhinoceros. But rest assured, such behavior is quite logical, because in your presence he does not leave insecurity and bouts of shyness. And such a "mask" is just an attempt to hide his true feelings from you. A man tries to behave as brazenly as possible to show that he is supposedly completely free and self-confident. He can't do anything with himself, such is male nature.
Another important sign of falling in lovemen can be considered excessive persistence. He begins to pay a lot of attention to you. And this happens because he instinctively has a desire to conquer you. Persistence can be expressed in different ways: it can be an invitation to a restaurant or cafe, for a walk or to the cinema, with friends to a party. You can be sure that behind each such surprise there is a subtle strategy and deep planning, and most importantly - the fear of being rejected. If you really want to be with this man and try to build a real relationship with him, then you can safely accept his persistence.
Men who are used to hiding their feelings,persistence can be shown in the form of aggression, that is, his behavior will sometimes have an aggressive tone. The reason for this is the inability to cope with his emotions, so he will try with all his might to show you that you are not worthy of what he is experiencing. Sometimes there are cases when caustic jokes and "jibes" can be "poured" at his beloved. But you should not react to them in any angrily - you have interested him very deeply and seriously.
Why is he always there and you feel him?look at yourself? He accompanies you everywhere, asks when and where you went, is interested in your plans? Yes, yes, you are on the way to completely conquering his heart! And do not pay attention to the fact that he always repeats that he is not at all interested in you - this is just a way of protecting himself.
To the signs of male love can be attributed andself-presentation. He always talks a lot about himself, talks about "exploits" committed in his professional and personal life, his achievements in sports, work and so on. For him plays an essential role, what exactly will you think about him. And he wants this to be the best opinion. He dreams in your eyes of being a "cool hero" and "superman".
A very pleasant manifestation of love withOn the part of a man there is concern, a desire to help you. This says a lot about him as a person, about his values and concepts in life. He will try to be useful, will make a lot of effort just to please, will “get into” any of your difficulties and solve them. For him, this is a matter of honor. And even if he is the type of man who tries to hide his emotions, he will still be there and will help you, only with a share of irony in his actions.
To understand how a loving man behaves,it is enough to pay attention to his indifference to you, that is, jealousy begins to appear. Where would a man in love be without jealousy?! He will not tolerate rivals who circle around the lady of his heart. And jealousy will manifest itself in assertiveness and aggression. The feeling of jealousy is destructive, it seems to eat away at the soul from the inside, so the guy may even avoid you for some time. He does this in order to reduce his worries and experiences. There are men who skillfully hide jealousy when they are around, but behind your back, rivals are in for a collapse. And the most interesting thing is that you will not even notice it. Remember that jealousy in men is a reflection of his weakness and vulnerability, so a smart man will not demonstrate it.
It is also important that the guy in loveis always interested in you and your thoughts, so he carefully catches every word you say, even the ones you didn't attach much importance to. He tries to get to know you better, to determine what makes you happy and what makes you sad. He can sometimes ask really stupid questions, but in his head he already has a whole structure of how to win you over and what exactly to do.
A man in love, no matter how the lady behaved himselfheart, always looks at her actions with admiration, he accepts her shortcomings, touched by missteps and awkwardness. This means that he appreciates all the aspects of his chosen one.
If a man really likes you, he will trytake the first steps towards closeness, namely intimate closeness. These will not be any vulgar hints - under no circumstances. He will try to touch you discreetly, feel your scent. And if you give him a kiss, it will become a true pleasure for him. The guy himself initiates this kind of tenderness.
And finally, to answer the question of how it behavesa guy in love with himself, just listen to him, the words he says, pay attention to the intonation, voice. And sooner or later you will definitely hear a declaration of love. It can sound even in the most unusual form, be a little shocking, but always take it calmly, because it is so nice to be loved, desired. In addition, this step is not easy for a guy. A sincere declaration of love is a big step for a man, because male love is somewhat different from female love. Let him express it as best he can, and if you felt the same, then you will understand a man in love without problems. Never break him or laugh, just be yourself and then he will carry you in his arms.
How to recognize a cold heart?
How many beautiful feelings we can seeEvery day, people fall in love and enjoy emotions, feelings, but there are also people with different views on life. A man can doubt his feelings, but it is worse if there are no feelings, and he knows about it. Here a woman should be extremely careful, she needs to recognize falsehood in time.
There should be no secrets between lovers orsecrets, and if a person is trying to hide something, then you should think twice about what the problem is. Not without exceptions, of course, but in most cases this is the case. After all, secrets are based on old sins that a man can hide for years. Of course, there are secretive people, but if they love, then sooner or later everything should be known to both. This advice should always be used carefully, do not pounce and interrogate your loved one immediately after confessions.
Love “walks alongside” not only with trust andcare, but also with jealousy, if there is no pure relationship with the manifestation of jealousy at least sometimes, then we can say that there is no love. This is explained simply: if all the women who surround a man are indifferent to him, then he does not care about them and is not jealous.
Harsh criticism of his chosen one, and sometimestyranny, give away a cold, indifferent person. Of course, there are no feelings here. A man may even be indifferent to a lady, to her desires. All the main decisions are his alone, and her word will mean nothing. A girl may act as a convenient toy, but not a loved one. And besides, it should be remembered that criticism, witty and sharp as a wasp's sting, is a sign not only of a cold heart, but also of a lying actor.
An excessive amount of compliments, whichhave nothing to do with the truth - it's just "fooling" the ears. An experienced seducer knows that ladies love with their ears, so his weapon is his flattering word. You have to be very careful with such people who, already on the first date, shower you with compliments and shout that they fell in love like a boy. Sincere feelings are not spoken about right away, but only when there is no longer any strength to keep silent about them!
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