What girl doesn't dream ofthe guy you liked was the first to confess his love? But it also happens that a guy does not notice the tender feelings towards him from a girl and does not reciprocate. But it turns out that sitting with your hands folded and sighing about a sad fate is not worth it at all. You just need to take the initiative into your own hands. First of all, to understand how to make a guy fall in love with you, you need to understand a little about male psychology.

A little psychology

First of all, if you are asking this question,This means that on a subconscious level you already believe that it is quite possible to make a guy fall in love with you. And this is absolutely true! After all, in any business (including love) the mood plays a very important role. The main thing here is to believe in yourself and your own strengths, plus knowing some tricks. As a result, you will achieve your goal. The most important thing is to understand what the young man you like wants. Having answered the questions of what his ideal of a beloved girl is, what traits she should have, you will have already done half the job. Psychologists have long known the answers to these questions. The results of numerous studies and sociological surveys give girls a powerful tool for attracting the attention of the man of their heart. So, what kind of girl do most men dream of? Firstly, the girl should be feminine. If you are naturally feminine, then all the cards are in your hands. But if you lack this quality, you will have to work on yourself and form it yourself. Femininity is associated with weakness, vulnerability, fragility in men. Next to such a girl, any man automatically becomes a strong, courageous protector. Is it worth mentioning how much this flatters a man's pride and raises his self-esteem? The second quality that attracts men in girls is sexuality. Just do not confuse it with vulgarity: these are completely different things, between which many girls put an equal sign. This is a huge and irreparable mistake. Sexuality should be in everything: in clothes, gait, manner of speaking and behavior. Therefore, if your style of clothing is far from sexy, if you prefer baggy pants and T-shirts two sizes too big, then to attract the attention of a young man it is better to change your image. This also applies to everything else: do not allow rudeness in manners, foul language, etc. The third quality that men value in the weaker sex is wit. And although more and more men note that it is important for them that a girl is smart, in this case we are not talking about intelligence, but about wit - these are slightly different things. You can show wit in communication with a young man when you understand him at a half-word, finish his sentences for him, laugh at his jokes. All this will tell the guy that you are very suitable for each other, since there is mutual understanding between you. But you do not need to go overboard: when finishing a guy's sentences, try not to look like you are constantly interrupting him, and if you really do not like his jokes (for example, they are flat or have a touch of vulgarity), then you should not pretend that you find it funny and really like it - do not indulge the guy. And fourth - ease. Men like cheerful girls with whom it is easy, who are always in a good mood. A beautiful but sullen girl who doesn't smile and is always dissatisfied with something is unlikely to interest a guy. Therefore, try to always be in a good mood: smile more often, be open to communication.

How to fall in love with a guy: practical advice

First, let's figure out what it meansto make a man fall in love with you? It means to make him think about you, dream, desire. In fact, you can make a guy fall in love with you in just 1 day. To do this, you just need to try. Let's try to make a specific plan of action to win a guy over. All of them will be aimed at one thing: to create the best first impression and thus be remembered by the young man for a long time.

• Include all of your femininity and sexuality,on which only ways. Just do not forget: no vulgarity, rudeness, etc. Put on a beautiful dress, high heels, make-up, hairstyle, select the appropriate perfume. In this, follow your own style and taste, place and time of the meeting, but remember that your entire image should not be defiant.
• Let the guy know that he likes you. But it must be done, though confidently, but not intrusively and not too aggressively. It would be appropriate to begin the conversation first, but remain a mystery to him, which he will want to solve. Do not open to him on the first evening. Of course, there can be no question of any intimacy: it will spoil everything. you do not want to earn the reputation of an easily accessible girl in the eyes of a guy? Then keep him in the distance.
• But you can give a phone number! On the one hand, once again let the guy know that he is interesting to you. On the other hand, make sure that he is interested in you and is waiting for a new meeting. You can write a phone number on a napkin in advance, and when the guy asks you to dictate the number, give him a note. It will pleasantly surprise him.

How correctly to behave with the guy, that he fell in love with you?

It is known that male and female psychologydiffer. If you know the basics of male psychology and the tactics of correct behavior with a man, you can quickly and for a long time become the one and only for him.

• Do not rush things.

This is the first and most important rule.Soon you will have the tools to help you make a guy fall in love with you, so do everything slowly, step by step and calmly. Don't rush yourself and don't rush things. Otherwise, you may get the opposite result.

• Be an attentive listener.

Often women make the mistake of chatting incessantlyand forgetting that a man also wants to speak out. In conversations with a young man, try to have more of a monologue on his part: listen to him attentively, show that you are interested and understand what he is talking about (nod your head). But remember: if you agree with a man in everything, he may get bored. If you disagree with something, express your point of view, justify it. This will warm up the interest and respect of the young man.

• Be cheerful and cheerful.

Everyone, regardless of gender, loves people who are easy andcheerful. Be like this: smile, laugh, joke - a young man will not leave such a girl without attention. Of course, everything is good in moderation and you also need to be able to laugh at the right time. But a kind, open, bright girl who always has a smile on her lips and joy in her eyes will appeal to any guy.

• Be interested in a young man.

Ask the guy what his hobbies are, what he likeshe is engaged. On the one hand, you will learn more about the person you like. On the other hand, you will have topics for conversation. People who are passionate about something love to talk about their hobby. Rest assured, the guy will appreciate your interest in his hobby and the opportunity to tell you about it. If the young man does not have any specific hobbies, just ask him how he spends his free time, what he likes to do. This information will help you in the future: for example, if the guy likes active recreation, you can suggest going out of town or going for a bike ride.

• Let the guy feel like a hero.

We have already talked about the fact that men love fragile womenand gentle girls. And such girls, as a rule, really need the help of a strong guy. Ask the young man for help, show that you need him and you can’t do without him! And don’t forget to thank him, because men adore compliments no less than girls. In addition, every person deep down wants to be needed and useful. And to be needed by a gentle girl - what could be more wonderful for a man?

• Show the guy how you fit each other.

Focus on your positive qualities.The simplest and most important thing is to show that you are suitable for the guy as a partner. For example, you like the same things (it doesn't matter what: Asian cuisine, fishing, extreme sports), you have the same hobbies, views on life, etc. And here the information you received about the young man's interests will help you a lot. The more interests, views, etc. you share, the easier it will be for you to make the guy fall in love with you.

• Become a friend

Become a good friend to the young man,who is always there in difficult times, ready to help, support, listen. Men also need understanding and empathy no less than girls. If you are afraid that you will remain a friend for a guy, do not worry: no guy wants to have a feminine, gentle, sexy girl as a friend. But in this matter it is very important not to overdo it: do not become an errand girl who runs to help at the first call. Maintain a balance between the readiness to always be there in difficult times and your own dignity: a guy should in no way use you.

When the relationship began

Once a relationship has started, it is important to continue moving in the right direction. And the advice that psychologists give will help you with this.

• Trust and let go.

Don't tie the guy to yourself in any way.It is understandable that you want to spend more time together, but your relationship should not in any way curtail the personal freedom of each of you. The young man will still want to meet with friends, as he did before. Never be against this! Let him go, and you can meet with your girlfriends - what's not to like? In addition, it is better to trust the guy from the first day, otherwise the relationship will not bring joy to either of you. Relationships built on mutual trust are strong and reliable. If you suspect and are jealous of the guy in everything, you will simply wear yourself out.

• Do not give yourself cause for jealousy.

The same applies to you:In some ways it's nice when a guy is jealous. For many girls, this is an indicator that he's in love. But in reality, it also means that the person doesn't fully trust you. Don't give reasons for mistrust and jealousy: this will wear both the guy and you out. Constant control, demanding a report on "where you were and with whom" - can this really bring happiness to a relationship? Hardly.

• Change!

Remember, we already talked about the girlshould remain a mystery to a man? External transformations will also help in this matter: for example, dye your hair a new color or do new makeup, dress in an unusual style. But change within reason and at your own discretion: wanting to surprise a guy and make him feel good is commendable, but not to the detriment of your own desires either. Your essence, your zest should always remain with you.

• Develop.

Many young people point out that the girlshould be not only beautiful, but also smart. Men value intelligence and erudition in their chosen ones. Therefore, develop yourself, read more, learn something new. Even if you are not interested, for example, in world news, still watch it: a cultured person is always aware of events happening in the world. Even if you are only interested in the latest collections of clothing designers, pay attention to the guy's interests: if he likes cars, sometimes read magazines on the auto theme. And when you have the opportunity to show off your knowledge, the guy and his friends will be simply shocked.

• Be yourself.

Ultimately, what you're looking for isthe young man fell in love with you, with your inner world, and not with your makeup, heels and dresses, didn't he? So show him your inner world, introduce him to it, because in the end people love each other not for their appearance or intelligence, but for their soul.

How to fall in love with a guy, correspond with him?

In the age of the Internet, this question is becoming more and moremore relevant. But since virtual communication is different from real communication, the actions to win a guy will be different. If in real life a girl can attract a guy's attention, first of all, through external data (makeup, clothes, manners, etc.), and then "turn on" the mind, then communicating with him virtually, such tactics are impossible. But it is in virtual communication that a girl can conquer a young man with her mind, intellect, and communication culture. In addition, when corresponding, you should show attentiveness to the guy, empathy for his problems, a willingness to support, help, and listen. All this is extremely valuable in online communication. And, of course, you can show the guy that you like him. Be attentive to the young man, his hobbies, life and what is happening in it. For example, if he told you that his dog is sick and he is taking it to the vet, be sure to ask him later how the visit went. The guy will highly appreciate such care, rest assured. So, there are no special secrets on how to make a guy fall in love with you.

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