And young ladies, and women well over fifty alwayswere interested in the question: how to become beautiful and attractive? After all, who among us has not dreamed of becoming the sexiest, smartest, most charming and attractive, able to conquer hearts at first sight? Perhaps, any representative of the fair sex at least once in her life fantasized about how she would go out in a chic dress with a magnificent hairstyle, and even from a car (let's say, a convertible or a limousine), while attracting all eyes to herself. Remember how the heroine of the good old film "Girls" Tosya Kislitsina reasoned at one time? I will become a beautiful, simply stunning girl, I will walk down the street, and all the men I meet will fall, fall, fall, and automatically stack up in piles! Oh! A wonderful thing - the power of attraction! If only all girls were born with the ability to be charming, it would be great, wouldn't it? But no, you still have to learn this! And don't rely on external data, because appearance can be bought these days. People have been warning for a long time: don't be born beautiful. It's true, because it's not for nothing that the beautiful Anfisa from the aforementioned film couldn't keep a single man near her, and the best guy, the hero of labor and the dream of many girls fell in love with the skinny, scruffy Tosya. So what should you do so that the eyes of all the guys are steadily directed at you, like the compass needle constantly turns to the north? How to become attractive to men, how to develop charm in yourself?

We remain always ourselves: say "no" to imitation

Who told you that you have to be there?a spitting image of Marilyn Monroe to please all men? How many of them were there, similar blondes with the same hairdo, beauty spot on their cheeks and the same dress! This is probably where the similarities end. No matter how hard they tried, no one managed to become as attractive as the world-famous Marilyn. A logical question arises: why is this happening? Because it was not the appearance that played an important role here, but the inner component. As people say - the soul of a woman. Try to remember: when you were in companies, you undoubtedly saw that most of the guys paid attention to some specific representatives of the fair sex. What was special about these girls? That's right, each of them was unique in her own way (as a person), and this is what attracted others to her. Agree: there are many pretty, but such identical, faceless beauties, but there are practically no unique ones. So first of all, ask yourself what you could improve in yourself, in your personal qualities, to become an interesting and attractive woman?

Learn to love and believe in yourself

You certainly want to be liked by others, butwhy doesn't it work? But in fact, you don't allow them to do it. And don't be surprised. A short skirt, a deep neckline - this is not what should arouse sympathy. The whole problem lies in the character and behavior of the lady. So, the first thing you need to learn is not to whine with or without reason. Doesn't this apply to you? And who was whining in a circle of friends yesterday that they can't lose weight, and their waist is already starting to spread? Didn't you notice the way that guy, whose brown eyes you so often dream about, looked at your lush, shiny, luxurious curls? He had just started admiring you when you started talking about the extra volume of your hips. He looked at your problematic, as it seems to you, butt, and then thought: "It's true - it's a bit fat!" And he immediately forgot about your wonderful hair. And after that, you wonder how to become the most charming and attractive to him? Why look for flaws in yourself, and even drag them out, trying to absolve yourself of guilt. Look, they are my problem areas, I know about them, I am trying to cope, but somehow nothing works. You would do better to flaunt your virtues like that! Therefore, stop immediately engaging in self-flagellation, and learn to be confident in yourself and your attractiveness. Large hips are an advantage these days, not a disadvantage. Present everything exactly like that.

Do not listen to counselors and "knowing" girlfriends

The only opinion that is trueIt matters – it’s your own. If you listen to everyone, your head may spin. One will tell you that blue and a short skirt suit you. Another will say that blue makes you look like a semi-finished product, and your legs should be hidden in tight or flared trousers. And Baba Manya will even say that you need to braid your hair, brightly blush your cheeks and tie a scarf. After all, this is the only way you can seem like an interesting person to a man. And what, in her youth it was sexy! So what should you do? Don’t rely on others, it’s not always clearer from the outside. You should have your own idea of ​​what women should be like. And if you follow Baba Manya’s advice, then where is the guarantee that you won’t become an object of admiration only for Grandpa Sanya?! Those girls who don’t know how to dress and put on makeup will be helped either by glossy magazines or by specialists who teach how to choose a wardrobe and apply makeup. By the way, remember one thing: sexy does not mean vulgar and provocative. Stylists have been talking about this for years.

Be stylish, but do not chase fashion

Make it a firm rule for yourself - never andDon't change anything about your appearance just to please someone. No haircuts on the advice of a friend, tattoos influenced by your crowd, or short skirts because your boyfriend likes them that way! For some, red hair looks sexy, while others prefer blondes. You won't constantly change your color to follow the whims of a new boyfriend. Change your appearance only to please yourself. And in general, don't worry too much about makeup, fashionable clothes, or spectacular hairstyles. When you're looking for a guy for a really serious relationship, you probably want to find one who will value you primarily not for your beauty, but for completely different qualities! Believe it or not, this is really not the most important thing for guys. At least for those men who are worth much more than ten minutes of your time. You shouldn't even waste ten minutes on the latter! And another very important thing: don't overdo it in emphasizing your figure. You understand correctly what can tease guys: short skirts, sexy tight pants, tight blouses, bare bellies, deep cleavage. Of course, they like to look at all this. No man will refuse the most revealing sight. But if you overdo it, you will look too accessible. It is unlikely that they will perceive you as a girl worthy of respect. And it is better to dress sexy only for your boyfriend.

Learn to care for yourself

That what is important is not what is given by natureappearance, and individuality, you have already learned. Now you should remember about your appearance. Unlike beauty, it should always be at the highest level. Don't you agree? And how can a girl become beautiful and attractive if she does not understand, for example, that her hair should always be clean, her blouse should be neat, her body should be toned, and her breath should be fresh? Just imagine the situation: you managed to charm a guy with your perfect sense of humor, your ability to stay in a company, your sexily styled hair, and your beautiful short dress. He dreams of meeting you, as they say, under the moon, already imagining how he will take your hand, lean towards your face, and come closer to your lips. And now he meets you, takes your hand, leans towards you... and you went to the dentist about five years ago, still under your mother's "escort", plus, your jaw has just started to hurt a little, apparently, it is already rotting in places. By the way, you don't really like brushing your teeth. A layer of fat shines on your face under the moon, and a pimple just popped up on your nose today. And your deodorant is gone, and there hasn't been hot water in your house for several days. They say a pipe has burst somewhere. Now imagine what that poor guy will feel and think about you? Yes, it's better to take proper care of your health, and carefully observe hygiene, and take care of your skin, and bathe in a timely manner. In extreme cases, there are special wipes, chewing gum, foundation powder, etc. Otherwise, you won't be able to walk under the moon anymore!

Sociability and friendliness are the best assistants

Do you know how to become beautiful andattractive in a new company, when meeting a future boyfriend, etc.? You won’t believe it – all you need to do is express your willingness to keep up the conversation and smile sweetly and sexy. Really! Some girls are proud of their ability to give a guy who comes up to them such an arrogant look that his legs buckle! But why? Such a proud girl would want to talk to someone else, but he won’t come up to her. But who likes to experience such humiliation? And most importantly – for what? For paying attention and making it clear that he likes you? Representatives of the fair sex do not necessarily have to have common interests to talk to a young man who wants to chat. If you don’t understand what he’s telling you, don’t remain silent. Ask questions, show your interest, keep up the conversation. If you just look sullenly away, he will go off to find a more interesting interlocutor, and you will be left alone. Don't sit in the corner looking bored What kind of person is always on everyone's radar? Active! So, if you want to be attractive to guys, always be more active, especially when you're in a group. Be ready to take part in dancing, discussions, scuba diving or eating cake for speed. What's there to be shy about, the main thing is to have fun! And above the shy girl sitting on the sidelines and watching everyone, a neon sign seems to be burning and blinking with the inscription: "I'm boring, I don't like fun!" Who will look at her, who will admire her? No one, everyone is busy having fun. Hollywood smile and good mood Forget about a frowning expression! Not only does it not look sexy, it also looks repulsive. And not because wrinkles between the eyebrows appear much faster than rays around the eyes. An angry or even just a neutral expression on the face is not able to add attractiveness to you. By the way, a girl's smile says a lot. Slightly raised corners of the lips seem to invite acquaintance, and if you wink sexually at the same time, the guy is unlikely to remain indifferent. And vice versa. It must be said that guys often feel insecure next to a woman, in whose frowning face they see a threat of humiliation for themselves.

Find a zest in yourself, but do not be a cupcake

Now we can talk about what alwayswill be able to really excite and intrigue a guy, attract all his attention to you. The highlight is your ability to be slightly mysterious, interesting and sexy. This is the most important female trick, and if you master this art - consider that you will be able to twist ropes out of guys! And you don't need that much:

• Create an aura of uncertainty

For example, a young man asks you about howyour weekend is over. And you tell him so vaguely: "Oh, just like that... I did something with my friends...". Of course, he'll ask what you mean by "something"? And you don't answer anything else, just smile so mysteriously, smiling sexy at the same time.

• Master the "pensive look into the distance"

Use it only occasionally, otherwisethere will be no benefit. Do you know how this is perceived from the outside? "Oh, she is such an interesting and mysterious person! Her brain is constantly occupied with some problems that are inaccessible to us, mere mortals!" Seriously speaking, slight thoughtfulness and some silence always create the impression of great intelligence.

• Bewitch him with a smile

Another good trick is to silently look atthe guy you like, smiling mysteriously. Let him lose himself in guesswork, what kind of thoughts are wandering in your head! He starts asking questions - you quickly remember trick #1: "Oh, nothing special..." And again silently give him your sexy smile. But not for long, because in our time, male heart attacks have become much younger! Plus, a constantly laughing representative of the fair sex causes mistrust and thoughts that something is wrong with her.

• Dress properly

Don't overuse too much openness andsexy clothes, because they completely deprive you of mystery. Moreover, hardly anyone will want to build a serious relationship with a vulgarly dressed person. Such representatives of the fair sex do not evoke pleasant associations in men. This rather suggests the idea that they are unlikely to be good wives and mothers. By the way, mastering the main female art, do not forget that there is always a sense of proportion. Do not overdo it and do not overdo it with mystery, otherwise it may seem that you are a little out of yourself. Being a mysterious and very strange lady are two completely different things. So you know how to become a charming and attractive girl. Now you will never forget that men are attracted to the soul more than the body. And let us always be greeted by clothes, but we are seen off precisely by the mind. And do not forget such a simple truth: in the world around you there are millions of men, so you should not limit yourself to one who is not able to love you as you are. Even if you became much more beautiful and attractive, his sympathy would be based only on this very appearance. Would you really want to be with someone who loves you only because you look good? We recommend reading:

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