Those spoiled by attention are won over with patienceHave you ever looked at a cute young man and not known how to approach him? How to interest a guy you like madly without seeming intrusive or available? Women have been playing this game since the beginning of time, and, as we know, every game has its own rules. As they say, there are periods when a man is unavailable to you - this is the first, second and third period of hockey. The rest of the time, you can win him over! Well, let's start mastering the ancient hunting instinct and not let cute guys slip away from us.
Beauty will save the world
There are many proven ways to attractthe attention of guys to their person. And before we talk about them, let's dispel one myth: you often hear that beauty is not the most important thing for a woman. That men are much more interested in a rich inner world and high intelligence. Perhaps this is true - but later, much later than the first date. Any man, looking closely at a girl, first of all evaluates her appearance. He decides whether he will be embarrassed to introduce her to his friends and how cool he will look with her. If nature did not give you excellent data - no problem, everything can be fixed. A well-groomed and stylish girl will attract much more attention than an unkempt beauty with unwashed hair and dirty clothes. So, if you have problems, immediately take care of your appearance - this is the first step on the way to attracting the attention of guys to yourself. Well-groomed and radiant appearance, a sparkle in the eyes and seductive manners will not go unnoticed at any party, meeting with friends or even during an ordinary trip to the store for groceries. Remember that you should not ask a friend or acquaintance for advice on style and makeup. Even if you are very close to her, natural instinct will still tell her not to give the best recommendations; and perhaps she has her own view of beauty and her own concept of style, which will not suit you. After all, nothing decorates a girl more than the modesty and unattractiveness of her friend. So friends in this matter are not advisers, and it is always better to be original and spontaneous, because individuality is what makes us stand out from the crowd. The best option would be to contact a professional stylist who can make you beautiful, because this is his job. It would not hurt to get advice from a cosmetologist, especially if you have skin problems, you may also need to visit a dermatologist, dentist. Be sure to go to a salon, make a beautiful hairstyle that suits you, consult with a makeup artist what makeup is best for you. They will not answer the question of how to attract a guy's attention to yourself, and the attention of the guy you really like; but they will always help you decide on an image that will become a powerful weapon in the fight for popularity among the opposite sex. Remember, it is very important to devote time to yourself, many girls love it, but due to the constant lack of time, you have to do everything "on the fly". Make a rough schedule for yourself, what and when you should visit, how often you need to do it, then you will have time for everything, and your appearance will become the envy of all your girlfriends and the admiration of men. Be beautiful if you want to, because beauty is a very elastic and individual concept; everyone has their own tastes, but a well-groomed and stylish girl cannot help but please, she always enjoys the attention of guys and receives a lot of compliments.
Ask for help
So, having brought you into a state of combat readinessreadiness, let's move on directly to the techniques that will help attract the object of your affection, because there is no such thing as too much attention from guys. In fact, there are a great many techniques - it all depends on your imagination and ability to act correctly in a given situation. Here you will see several "templates" that you can change, focusing on your situation. In order to understand how to attract the attention of a guy you like, you need to collect more information about him. Find out about his habits, hobbies, special talents and interests - everything goes. Men are mostly quite vain, it is quite easy to play on their little weaknesses, the main thing is to think everything through carefully. Let's say you found out that your boyfriend plays the guitar well. Well, this is an interesting hobby, and you can easily use it. Just go up to him and say that you have a problem - your parents gave you money for guitar courses, and you spent it on something else. And now, if in a week you don’t play something intelligible at home, you’ll get into serious trouble. Any man in such circumstances will not refuse a beautiful lady. Protection and assistance to the weaker sex is one of the oldest male instincts. In addition, he will also feel like your savior and already to some extent responsible for your “musical success”. This option is great for a girl who wants to attract a guy’s interest at school. If you have already outgrown the age when you need to report to your parents, then you can come up with another option. For example, you made a bet with a friend that you will learn to play the guitar in a week, or you absolutely need to show off your musical skills to employers at a corporate party. Do not forget that you should approach the guy with such an air as if only extreme necessity forced you to approach him. Look as usual on this day. If, preparing for a conversation, you dress up to the nines, everything will be sewn with white thread. Remember that men are built a little differently than women, it is more difficult for them to switch from one task to another. Therefore, it is quite important to choose the right moment to avoid rejection. If, for example, you are wondering how to attract your boyfriend's attention, then you should not approach him with a request for help when he is busy with an important task. In this case, a remark in his direction can be regarded as an encroachment on personal space. The same can happen if you need to attract the attention of a colleague at work with a request for help when he is seriously busy or worried about some problem. Most likely, there will be a refusal.
Look for common interests
What if your boyfriend is a real tennis fan?(as well as any other sport)? This is a great opportunity to show off in front of him and interest him in the fact that you have “common interests”. This is a pretty good way if you are looking for how to attract the attention of a guy you like. Carefully, from cover to cover, study all the magazines and newspapers in search of articles about tennis players. You do not have to know the rules of the game and sincerely love tennis - it is enough to be informed, and when the opportunity arises, enthusiastically tell him about sports news. This will really surprise the guy, and he will definitely be interested in you and your knowledge. Of course, he will not give you exams, but be prepared for the fact that you will exchange a couple of phrases about sports. Then you can change the topic of conversation to something interesting to you. The main thing is to successfully start a conversation and show that you have some common hobby. In this way, you can attract the attention of an unfamiliar guy simply by running into him, for example, in a sporting goods store. That is, a lot depends on the circumstances you find yourself in, on a particular situation. It will be an additional plus if you buy a tennis racket. It is quite possible that you will really enjoy spending time on the court, but for now it is enough to brag about it to a guy. Men like women who share their interests, with whom they have something to talk about. And a girl who understands their hobby is just a treasure!
Conspiracy theory
How can you attract the attention of a guy who is no good?not particularly interested? Maybe try to gather information about him? Is it even possible? Cunning is the main weapon in such cases. That is, we will prepare a "conspiracy". Persuade a friend to throw a party and make it so that the two of you end up single. Willy-nilly, he will have to talk to you, and then it will come to a slow dance. Everything is in your hands - do not scare away your happiness, act carefully - talk less and listen to his speech with interest, smile at his jokes and flirt, do not forget about little feminine tricks and rules of seduction. These techniques always work great, even to attract the attention of a guy who already has a girlfriend. Do not overdo it with intimacy during the dance - hot touches and deliberate exposure of shoulders and legs can lead to completely wrong conclusions. You do not want to become a one-night girl, do you? And don’t even think about overdoing it with alcohol – this is a chance not only to lose your boyfriend, but also to ruin your reputation for a long time.
Random meeting
If the guy you are interested in lovesIf you go to cafes and restaurants, then this is a great chance to get to know him. To do this, you must know the exact place and time when you can catch him at a regular table. But do not come to a restaurant with your girlfriends - even if he is interested in you, he is unlikely to dare to approach. He understands perfectly well that all the girls will evaluate and criticize him, and not everyone can handle such a test. And even more so - you set yourself the goal of attracting the guy's attention, you never know ... Be alone, sit facing him. From time to time, throw interested glances at him, shake your hair and smile. Of course, everything should be very natural. This also applies to attire. If this is a supposedly casual meeting, then it will be suspicious to look as if you have just finished a week of visiting all the beauty salons in the city. Do not forget about the magic method of our grandmothers - shooting with eyes. And do not smile - this is a real art, the "angle-nose-object" method almost always works! So, look into the corner of the room, slowly move your gaze to the tip of your nose and look at the object of your interest with wide-open eyes. This method is quite easy to attract a guy's attention to yourself. In addition, you can madly like your object from the very first minutes. Practicing in front of a mirror will not give results - rather, you will earn a squint, peering into the reflection and performing the necessary actions. It is better to practice this technique on acquaintances and girlfriends, it will be more effective!
The trick of the city takes
There is another great way, but itworks if you are already friends with the guy, work together or go to school together. Hint to him with words, gestures, a look that you care about him. And after a while, stop paying attention to him, as if you had nothing in common with him. Believe me, men in such cases first rack their brains over what they did wrong, and then try to prove that they are the best and try to win back your favor. This surefire method works on many vain men, for whom undeservedly losing attention is a disaster. The method is also great for young girls who want to attract the attention of a classmate at school. A few days of his torment and attempts to “convert you to his faith” again, and he will be at your feet.
Men love to be the best
Men are like children.All their lives they try to prove their masculinity and magnificence. Remember, if they succeed in something, they certainly expect your praise. Even in everyday trifles - did he screw in a light bulb, did he fix a chair - praise him sincerely (please do not confuse it with flattery). The line between flattery and praise is very thin, so mistakes cannot be made here. An important point: while telling about what a great guy he is, how pleased you are with his help, your eyes should sparkle with admiration and shine with sincerity. This method is also good for attracting the attention of an ex-boyfriend. If he feels like a real man with you, and you do not let him forget about it, then the chance of becoming his girlfriend is very high. So take note of this thought and do not miss the opportunity to emphasize his merits out loud. What man would refuse a woman who values him so much?
At a subconscious level
Don't forget about body language.The simplest rule is to casually copy his movements. Of course, you don’t need to grimace or repeat purely male gestures – hold cigarettes with four fingers or spit over your shoulder. It will be enough to turn your head to the side or run your hand through your hair at the same time. On a subconscious level, the man will understand that you are on the same wavelength as him, and he will become interested in you. This way, you will be able to attract the attention of a stranger or a man you don’t know very well. The following method works very well – stretch sweetly, arching, and shake your hair. Having seen the outline of your figure and the beauty of your hair, the guy will think about your body and the possibility of closer communication for a long time. And not at work or at school, but in a more romantic setting. You shouldn’t use all the methods at once – choose something that is closest to your situation. Consider your own capabilities, as well as the character of the young man. You need to act very naturally and carefully. A man should never feel that the girl is making an effort to captivate him. At best, he will simply be flattered, but he will always look at those women who need to be conquered. After all, men are conquerors, so they avoid huntresses. So let him conquer you and enjoy his attention. We recommend reading:
