It is perhaps impossible to imagine lifea person without communication with other people. The relationship between people is an integral part of life. In everyday life, a person usually contacts many people, and not always does so consciously, deliberately or planned. In each society, both at the micro and macro levels, there are rules of communication between people, conditioned by external or internal circumstances. The relationship between people can be both formal - generally recognized, and informal - permissible among a specific group of people. All human communications can be conditionally divided into two types of communication: verbal and non-verbal. Each of these types of communication requires certain rules of behavior, each person must know the rules of communication between people. Sociability can show a person both from a good and a bad side. People who confidently negotiate, are friendly and courteous with other people, always stand out, are remembered and are able to influence others through their communication.
Verbal human relationships
Verbal communication isthe speech of a person, the manner of its delivery, intonation, the informative content of the speech, its emotional coloring, everything that a person hears from other people and says himself. Depending on the situation, in such communication there are generally accepted rules, they are also called "Rules of good manners". They include words of greeting when meeting, respectful intonation, the ability to listen to the interlocutor, the ability to discuss with the interlocutor on a given topic, and so on. A person's speech and intonation can dispose other people to communication. Speech is a tool by which a person positions himself in society. With the help of his speech alone, a person with ordinary external data and low social status is able to stand out and show himself from a strong or desirable side. Any person who communicates with people on a daily basis is able to develop oratorical traits in himself. An important sign of a good speaker is the speaker's belief in what he said and confident behavior in public. Communications must be timely, hold the attention of the interlocutor and be interesting or in demand at the given moment.
Non-verbal human relationships
Non-verbal communication isgestures and facial expressions that are typical for a person when communicating. Such communication always goes hand in hand with verbal communication and is an integral part of communication. Despite the fact that non-verbal communications are “silent”, they are very important in a conversation between people. With the help of signs and facial expressions, you can recognize a lie or flattery. An excellent speaker should not only know the rules of verbal communication, but also monitor their non-verbal signs. Often, when people lie, they are given away by gestures that contradict what they said. In addition to gestures and facial expressions, the posture in which a person is during communication is also important in a conversation. So, if a person wants to be correctly understood and heard, then he should follow the following simple rules:
It is worth remembering that depending on the situation, the rules of communication may change, and some of them may even be omitted altogether.