It is no secret that men and women, inFirst of all, due to natural differences, they express their feelings in very different ways. This is especially true for the manifestation of such an intimate and secret feeling as true and deep love. It is often difficult for us to understand the true feelings, thoughts, desires and intentions of another person even in the most seemingly simple things at first glance, and in such a burning issue there should be no intrigue or ambiguity at all. How to understand that a man loves you? For a tender and quivering woman's heart, the unknown will be no less destructive than a sad but simple answer: "You are wrong. He does not love you, alas, but ... No." Well, the matter is worth sorting out. Our peace of mind and well-being, confidence in the future and our own self-esteem depend on it. Common sense literally insists on clarifying all the circumstances in the relationship with the object of your dreams. But first you need to understand what love means to us, how it differs from falling in love and from passion. How often do we, mistaking one feeling for another, hurt ourselves.

Love? No, just falling in love

When we are in love, we tend to idealizepartner, to endow him with all sorts of virtues, abilities and positive qualities. Everything is wonderful in this emotion - with one exception. Falling in love is a rather short-lived feeling, one of its properties is its transience, the ability to quickly end... Or transform. Into love, as we would ideally like. Love differs from being in love in the depth of feelings that we experience. This is already a more serious, stable feeling. We evaluate our partner more objectively, understand him better, and most importantly - we are ready to fully accept him as a person who has both advantages and disadvantages. It is especially important to emphasize the complete acceptance of another person - this is the main difference between love not only from falling in love, but also from passion.

Love? And again - no! "It was all because of passion."

True love is not blinding at all, and evensuch a degree that disappointment inevitably sets in after sobering up; no, it is based on knowing your chosen one and on building a relationship not with a fictional character, but with a real person. Being similar in its duration to falling in love, passion, unlike it, has a greater intensity of feelings. Of course, it can also manifest itself separately from love, but it can also be (and even more so - should, why not?) its component. Passion is, first of all, an attraction of a sexual nature, a call of the flesh. It can be compared to a natural disaster, so similar are the destructive consequences of passion to the destructive impact of natural forces - fires or typhoons. This is real madness, encompassing both the soul and the body of a person, eclipsing reason and common sense. Love and passion in their pure form have nothing in common. Relationships based only on passion will not attract and suit every woman. After all, most of the fair sex hope for long-term and stable unions, which cannot be built on passion alone.

Observe, remember, analyze

Observing the behavior of a loving manattitude towards his chosen one, what do we see? How does he show his feelings and attitude towards her? Let's try to highlight the main points that will help each young lady better understand her man's attitude towards herself:

An overt manifestation of the intention to carry outmost of the time together This applies not only to joint outings to places of entertainment or to some public events. A man is happy to keep you company when you intend to devote the whole day to intensive shopping in all the shopping centers of the city. He signs up for a sports club, where you have been going for quite some time, and begins to attend training sessions with you. And yes, he walks your dog with you. He strives to spend time with you alone just to chat about something, discuss something, laugh about something.

The choice of topic for discussion also mattersA guy who is interested in you will not only talk himself and only about what interests him; he will listen attentively to your speeches, try to support the topics that interest you. It is important to remember that not all men are ready to immediately confess their love for you, especially at the very beginning of a relationship. This is due to both the fear of being rejected and being rejected, and the fact that such a serious approach is a sign of the seriousness of his intentions. Do not forget also that a man's behavior is most characterized by his actions towards you, and not just words.

The caring attitude of knights towards beautiful ladies– this is what also catches your eye when you see couples in love in front of you. From the very beginning of a relationship, showing care even in small things is simply an excellent indicator. You are mutually interested in each other’s well-being, mood, and strive to make your loved one’s life easier in any way possible. A man in love shows his feelings, desires, and intentions towards you in this way, striving to make your life better and more pleasant, and not only during your time together, but also when he may not be with you. He tries, among other things, to do this unobtrusively, not for show, and the thought of ever reproaching you for this does not occur to him. This can happen at later stages in a relationship, when mutual grievances accumulate. To avoid such a fate, do not forget, in turn, to appreciate the manifestation of care and praise your man at least from time to time. Of course, the manifestation of care should always be mutual.

Your hero's romanticism towards you,This is what immediately attracts attention. And especially if this was not typical for him before. After all, the desire to make the object of love happier can manifest itself, in addition to care, also in the ability and desire to amuse him, make a surprise, give a positive emotion. The cost of the gift is not important here, which, by its size, can certainly make an impression. But the notorious coffee in bed, prepared exactly the way you like, will be no less valuable for you by the trace left in the soul. He also understands this if he is sincerely interested in you, and is not afraid to seem to someone "not a real man", showing his romanticism towards you.

Your touches to each other - theycan tell a girl a lot about a guy's feelings for her We are not only talking about sexual touches - passionate kisses, hugs, caresses, - but about quite innocent touches, simple physical contact. It conveys the warmth of not only the body, but also the tenderness of the heart. Look around - lovers always find an opportunity to touch each other. They walk holding hands, sit leaning on the back of their partner, lie down with their head on the lap of their loved one. Such behavior serves as a physical analogue of words of love. A man who does not want to abuse the frequent pronunciation of cherished words will, nevertheless, try to show his love and desire to be near you with his numerous touches.

The priorities are set in your favor, and you are doing it.you definitely feel For example, your chosen one is an avid fisherman, but instead of going away alone for the whole weekend to go fishing, as he usually did in the past, he invites you to go with him. Or even more, he cancels the trip because he needs to help you change the plumbing in the bathroom or accompany your car to the auto repair shop. You get real confirmation that your affairs and your life are important to him. There are no situations in which you suddenly feel lonely and abandoned, left alone with your problems.

You become a part of his life:it happens quite harmoniously, consistently and smoothly. At some point, you discover that you are not tormented by the question of how you will spend your upcoming vacation or weekend. It becomes somehow naturally clear that on the weekend you will both lie around at home, recovering from a tense work week. And you will spend your vacation in each other's company, doing some of the repair work in your apartment. If you manage quickly, you will go somewhere in nature for a couple of days, to clean air and water.

The formality of your relationship takes on a certainnot quite obvious, but quite clear signs not only for you but also for your environment. His family, making a list of invitees to the upcoming family celebration, includes you in it by default. Now there are no only your or only his friends or buddies. Everyone has become common and in their eyes you are definitely a couple. You are very rarely invited somewhere separately, and most importantly, they say: “Will yours (yours) not be against it? No? Well then everything is great, say hello to him (her).”

Your sexual relationship is becomingover time, everything is better and more harmonious. There is no longer any fear that you will not be liked or that he may disappoint you. A man strives not only to satisfy his own desire, to satisfy his sexual hunger; not at all. Your feelings and desires find understanding and reciprocal support. He studies your body willingly and carefully, gives pleasure in all possible ways from those that you really like, and not according to his personal opinion. He understands that a woman may have moments of decreased sexual desire, and treats this calmly, without accusing the woman of selfishness or, which is completely beyond the bounds of reason, frigidity.

Readiness and desire to become a husband and father -Here is the most significant sign of love between a man and a woman A man imagines the continuation of your relationship in the conclusion of an official union and the appearance of obvious fruits of your love - children. It is safe to say that there are few men who are sincerely and unconditionally in love with their better halves who do not want to immortalize themselves and their love in children, whose birth he expects from the woman he loves and loves him. There are no words that can describe the excitement that men experience at the moment when they propose marriage. There are no words to describe the excitement and joy of a woman when she tells her beloved that she is pregnant and that they are expecting an addition to the family soon. At this stage, the couple usually has no doubts about their mutual love.

And one more fact that cannot be left unnoticedattention, speaking about the signs of a man's love: this is his respect in everything - from feelings to actions. How to understand that a man loves a woman sincerely, strongly and truly? A man respects her personality. He likes how you look, what you do, how you live. This is expressed not only in compliments. His approval is confirmed in action:

• He approves of your hobby (even if he heard about it for the first time thanks to you), and you can easily find and allocate time for your favorite pursuits.
• Your family and your environment will not be criticized from his lips, even if you yourself ask him to voice his point of view on some points. Anyway, the opinion will be expressed in the most loyal form.
• It suppresses all attempts of unauthorized personsinterfere with your relationship, and also subject you or your behavior to the slightest criticism. He has no desire to attract advisers and arbitrators to where you are able to figure out on your own.
• He will not allow you to suffer from the torment of jealousy or suspense, will not manipulate you or use your tender attitude toward him for his own purposes.

Summing up

Most of the signs we'll tell you about heretold, confirm the sincerity of feelings and the truth of your man's intentions. The most important thing is to be able to listen and hear your intuition, listen to the voices of your heart and mind. There is no final and absolutely correct sign that is guaranteed to indicate that a guy is not indifferent to a girl, but you should certainly not be afraid to start a relationship, as well as to rush into it headlong, like into a whirlpool. Time will put everything in its place one way or another. So that you better understand what kind of relationship is built between you and your man, also remember that love is a very sensitive feeling. It requires a careful attitude, and this fully applies to both partners. A man and a woman are made for each other, this is how nature itself intended and has been since the creation of the world. These are two communicating vessels, the level of fullness between which is regulated by ourselves, and mutually. Do not be afraid to give your love, generously share your feelings and emotions. It will also return to you a hundredfold. A man who has met the One and Only Love in his life will make every effort to win it, and the word "no" will not exist for him. You will feel and understand everything yourself! Absolutely every representative of the weaker sex needs the tender love of her chosen one, and every woman hopes that fate will be kind to her and give her exactly this kind of love. Let us wish you with all our hearts to meet on your life's path and become a happy owner of sincere, mutual, ardent and true love. May it always be between you and your man! We advise you to read:

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