It has long been no secret that men and women, in the first placeturn due to natural differences, show their feelings very differently. Especially it concerns the manifestation of such an intimate and secret feeling, which is real and deep love. Often it is difficult for us to understand the true feelings, thoughts, desires and intentions of another person, even in the most seemingly simple at first glance things, and in such a burning issue there should not be any intrigue or confusion at all. How to understand that a man loves you? For a tender and trembling female heart, the unknown will be no less damaging than a sad but simple answer: "You are mistaken. He does not love you, alas, but ... No. " Well, it's worth it to understand. On this depends our peace of mind and well-being, confidence in the future and our own self-esteem. Common sense literally insists on clarifying all the circumstances in the relationship with the object of your dreams. But first we need to understand what love means to us, what is its difference from love and passion. How often we, taking one feeling for another, hurt ourselves.
Love? No, just falling in love
When we are in love, we tend to idealizepartner, endow it with all the virtues, abilities and positive qualities. Everything is fine in this emotion - with one exception. Infatuation - a short enough sense, one of its properties - it's transience, the ability to quickly end ... Or to transform. In love, as much as we would like in the ideal. Love is different from falling in love with the depth of feelings that we experience. This is a more serious, stable feeling. We more objectively evaluate the partner, we understand him better, and most importantly - we are ready to fully accept him as a person who has both advantages and disadvantages. It is necessary to emphasize exactly the full acceptance of another person - this is the main difference of love, not only from falling in love, but also from passion.
Love? And again - no! "The whole reason was passion"
True love does not blind at all, and up tosuch a degree that, after sobering, disappointment inevitably sets in; no, it is based on the knowledge of his chosen one and on building relationships not with a fictional character, but with a real person. Being similar in its length to time with love, passion, unlike it, has a greater intensity of feelings. Of course, it can also manifest itself separately from love, but it can also be (and even more so - should, why not?) Be its component. Passion is, first of all, the attraction of a sexual nature, the call of the flesh. It can be compared to a natural disaster, so are the destructive effects of passion with the destructive impact of nature forces-fires or typhoons. This is a real insanity, encompassing both the soul and the body of a person, eclipsing reason and common sense. There is nothing in common with love and passion in its pure form. Relations based only on passion, attract and arrange not every woman. After all, most of the fair sex is hoping for a long and stable alliance, which can not be built on passion alone.
Observe, remember, analyze
Watching the behavior of a loving man byrelation to his chosen one, what do we see? How does he show his feelings and attitude towards her? Let's try to identify the main points that will help each young lady better understand the attitude towards him of his men:
And one more fact that can not be left withoutattention, talking about the signs of a man's love: this is his respect in everything - from feelings to action. How to understand that a man loves a woman sincerely, strongly and truly? A man respects her personality. He likes the way you look, what you do, how you live. This is expressed not only in compliments. His approval is confirmed in fact:
- He approves of your hobby (even if he heard about it for the first time thanks to you), and you can easily find and allocate time for your favorite pursuits.
- Your family and your environment will not be criticized from his lips, even if you yourself ask him to voice his point of view on some points. Anyway, the opinion will be expressed in the most loyal form.
- It suppresses all attempts of unauthorized personsinterfere with your relationship, and also subject you or your behavior to the slightest criticism. He has no desire to attract advisers and arbitrators to where you are able to figure out on your own.
- He will not allow you to suffer from the torment of jealousy or suspense, will not manipulate you or use your tender attitude toward him for his own purposes.
Most of the signs about which we are heretold, confirm the sincerity of feelings and the truth of the intentions of your man. Most importantly - be able to listen and hear your intuition, listen to the voices of your heart and mind. There is no definitive and absolutely correct sign, guaranteed to indicate that the girl is not indifferent to the boy, but to be afraid of starting a relationship, as well as recklessly rushing into them, like in a whirlpool with a head, of course, should not. Time will somehow put everything in its place. To better understand what kind of relationship is built between you and your man, remember also that love is a very quivering feeling. It requires a careful attitude to itself, and this fully applies to both partners. Man and woman are created for each other, so conceived by nature itself and so it is from the very creation of the world. These are two communicating vessels, the level of fullness between which is regulated by ourselves, and mutually. Do not be afraid to give your love, generously share your feelings and emotions. To you it will also return a hundredfold. A man who has met in his life the very One Love, will make every effort to win it, and for him there will be no word "no". You will feel and understand everything yourself! Absolutely every representative of the fairer sex needs the tender love of her chosen one, and every woman hopes that fate will be supportive of her and will give such love. Let us wholeheartedly wish you to meet on your life's journey and become a happy possessor of sincere, mutual, hot and true love. May she always be between you and your man! We advise you to read: