Trusting people or not is a very, verycontroversial. Each of us has his own point of view on him: someone believes that this can not be done in any case, because they are deceived, and someone, on the contrary, believes in everyone. Truth, most likely, somewhere in the middle, and maybe even on the side. Will we try to find it?
What is trust?
Generally, trust is a positivecharacterization of human relationships. Its essence is that we are sure: the person we trust, is decent and benevolent. With more or less certainty, we can predict its behavior, and this forecast seems to us very, very positive. But these are all quite abstract words. In life, trust is embodied in the fact that we can rely on someone we trust. If we need help, protection and support, that is, we are confident that we will receive them. The probability of betrayal, resentment, or some other unpleasant act in trusting relationships tends to zero. Trust is a very fragile thing. In order to build it, you need a lot of bricks, and in order to break down, one gesture is enough, after which you say to yourself: "Well, everything! Now I certainly do not trust people! ". Sometimes these misdeeds are so serious that it is not possible to return the trust back. And this is very sad, because the relationship, deprived of it, can not be full. Without trust, true love, friendship and happiness are impossible - they are based on the opportunity to open up to another person and become vulnerable from it.
How to restore trust in your life?
Very often people for whom the question oftrust, already have a negative experience of close relationships: they were offended, abandoned, deceived and betrayed. Agree, after this do not want to trust anyone at all! However, it also happens that nobody seems to be deceiving you, and you do not want to trust someone at all. But to create trust around yourself is possible again - you just need to want it! Well, it's a sin to hide a couple of steps in this direction. About how to trust a person specific and people in general, the following tips will be: