Perhaps the most serious and difficult situation forwomen - it's a break with the person you love. Just recently you were bathing in his tenderness and affection, your eyes were shining with happiness and delight and nothing foreshadowed trouble. And even if sometimes you noticed nuances indicating that his attitude towards you had changed, you simply did not want to believe that your fairy tale was over. And you continued to wait and hope for a miracle - doing this is much easier than making a difficult decision to break up. But there comes a moment when he disappears from your sight completely, or declares that everything is over between you. It is not easy to survive this, because being abandoned is the worst thing for any of us. How can you understand in advance that a guy wants to break up, how not to be left alone with nothing?

Your boyfriend stopped answering calls

Not every man is capable of honestly andopenly admit to your girlfriend that he doesn’t love her anymore. Guys take a long time to decide to break up, especially if the relationship was long-term – breaking it off is not easy at all. Therefore, the first thing they start doing in such a situation is to slowly move away from their passion. The very first signs that your boyfriend wants to “make a run for it” are his constant busyness and the impossibility of contacting him by phone. You will immediately understand that something is wrong: at first, he doesn’t call himself, then he stops answering your calls. You can forget about love text messages and good morning wishes altogether! As a rule, a man explains this by the fact that he doesn’t have a single free minute for personal phone conversations: there is a rush at work, in the evening relatives pester him and demand immediate help from him. And he, poor thing, spins like a squirrel in a wheel and cannot talk to you on his mobile at all. What to do in such a situation and how to understand if he is telling the truth? It is quite possible that your man really has problems at work, and there are some unpleasant things at home that require his constant presence. But if he still loved you, he would find at least one minute in his busy schedule just to talk to you and hear your voice. After all, he understands perfectly well that you are worried and anxious, that you feel bad without him. And since he avoids calling and talking to you, then, most likely, he has cooled towards you and is afraid to admit it. Of course, there are situations when obsessive or jealous girls call their boyfriend every five minutes, demanding constant reports on where he is and what he is doing. In this case, even the most loving man will try to come up with a hundred reasons not to pick up the phone. If you do not suffer from such a mania and call a man only a couple of times a day, then think: is it because he is again “temporarily unavailable” that his heart no longer belongs to you?

Grace disappeared in the relationship

Before, you couldn't stop talking to each other for hoursfriend, shared all the secrets, solved problems together. And now he suddenly became like a stranger, looks at you with a cold gaze and hardly speaks to you. It is quite possible that your relationship has nothing to do with it, that he has some unresolved problems that he does not want to tell you about. But this is unlikely. If the former warmth in the relationship has evaporated, then the love has disappeared too (at least on his part). Or maybe for him it was just infatuation that melted away like spring snow. In any case, if you have noticed these sad signs, do not close your eyes to them. Try to talk to your boyfriend, encourage him to be frank. If his head is really filled with something that does not concern your relationship, then just try to help him, if not with deeds, then with words. If he starts avoiding a direct answer, or admits that he is not interested in you, expect trouble. Most likely, he wants you to break up.

Lack of sex

Well, if there's one thing I love, it's sex with my beloved.A normal guy is unlikely to refuse a girl. If he used to be a constant initiator of your sexual adventures, and then suddenly became quiet and stopped perceiving you as a woman - things are bad. This is another weighty argument in favor of the fact that he wants to break up with you. Perhaps he is simply bored with the relationship with you, or maybe he has another woman. In any case, you need to discuss this fact with your man and demand an explanation from him. If you have not been dating for very long, then the lack of sexual relations is a bad sign. You are not a married couple with ten years of living together, who have had their fill of intimate relations with each other. If your young man has no health problems, then most likely he has simply cooled towards you. And if you do not want to hear from him the fatal phrase, like, let's break up, then either urgently look for an opportunity to improve the relationship, or get ready to strike first.

Unwillingness to lead you into the light

If you've always had a great time in the past,company of his friends, and now he does not take you with him, then you have a serious reason to think. Picnics with friends, going to night clubs, cinemas, corporate parties - and all this without you? Perhaps his entourage has long known the real reason for your absence, and this reason has a pretty face and long legs? Although, the presence of a rival in this case is not at all necessary, everything can be much more trivial: he is bored with your relationship. Be that as it may, and the reluctance to appear with you in the company of his friends and acquaintances can say a lot. Perhaps you are no longer worth too much in his eyes and he does not consider it necessary to introduce you to the circle of people close to him. As soon as you feel that he has stopped "taking you out", immediately analyze the situation and draw the right conclusions. But you need to do this without fanaticism: what if he has serious reasons for being alone at such events?

He provokes you to a scandal

Just recently you lived in love and harmony, andNow he constantly provokes you to quarrels and shouting? This happens when a man no longer loves a woman and gets irritated by seemingly ordinary things. Everything is wrong for him: dinner is not tasty, you do not know how to dress, you do not understand anything about football. And so he grumbles like a wind-up toy, constantly pointing out your shortcomings - both real and imaginary. Who knows, maybe he is deliberately ruining the relationship with you in order to make the upcoming separation easier. He can provoke you to quarrels in order to convince himself that you are a nervous and scandalous person. Then he will break off the relationship with you with a clear conscience and without much regret. Sometimes a guy who wants to end a relationship is burdened by the fact that he is leaving you - so loving and tender. So he gives you a chance to understand that he is not your hero at all and to run away from him first, so that you can "save face". Don't miss this hint - a relationship with a grumpy, perpetually irritated man has never made anyone happy. As soon as you notice that he constantly provokes you into scandals - run away from him, without looking back.

You notice that the guy looks at other women

You're walking down the street with your boyfriend and heshamelessly stares at other girls…. Agree that the situation is a stalemate. Unless he wants to kindle a fire of jealousy in you, then this is a serious wake-up call to think: is it time to run away from him? No matter how much you love him, no matter how much it hurts you - leave him first, because such an ending to the story, alas, is just around the corner. This is simply the height of disrespect towards your partner - to do everything to make her suffer from jealousy and humiliation. Only someone who does not see any prospects in communicating with you can allow himself to shamelessly stare at other women and even flirt with them. No man has ever appreciated a girlfriend who, having lost her own dignity, forgave him for relationships with other women. It is unlikely that even one normal girl can withstand such disrespect for herself, so think twice before continuing a relationship with him. Let him go free, your true happiness is probably somewhere nearby – you deserve a much more reverent attitude towards yourself. It is very important for any woman to understand in time that a man has fallen out of love with her and wants to break up. To be abandoned and lonely is a powerful blow to self-esteem, which can give rise to a lot of psychological complexes. And you don’t need to pretend that everything is fine if you notice his gradual alienation. It is much better to be the first to take this difficult step and “go your separate ways, like ships at sea.” At least, you will not be an unhappy girl, treacherously abandoned by her beloved, but a femme fatale, changing men like gloves. And this is a much more pleasant prospect, isn’t it? We recommend reading:

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