Preparatory stage
So, what should be done according to Feng Shui?to let love into your home and keep it there for a long time? Everything new and good begins with getting rid of old unnecessary things, especially those that remind you of your “ex”, especially unpaired and especially broken, split and spoiled. Inspect your home, look in the closet, open the mezzanine - how many things have accumulated that you do not need, but it is a pity to throw them away! Give them to friends, give them to the poor, just throw them away - you will never even remember them again! Throw away immediately the slippers, shirt and other things that remind you of unrequited love forgotten by your “ex” if you want to attract new love. Review your interior "things": paintings, figurines, photographs - you should not have images of unpaired characters. If it is a painting, then, for example, let a man be next to a woman. If it is a figurine, for example, of an elephant, buy a second one, and so on. Be especially ruthless in getting rid of dried flowers and climbing live flowers. Feng Shui interprets dried flowers as a symbol of dead energy, and climbing plants mainly carry passive yin energy.
Activation of the love and marriage sector
The next step towards the intended goal will bedesign of the love sector for its successful activation. According to the "compass school", the love and marriage zone in Feng Shui is located in the southwest of the apartment, and the "form school" devotes the far right corner of the room to love and marriage. Remove objects associated with water from this place: vases, an aquarium, an image of water, a humidifier, etc. The energy of fiery love is easily extinguished with water. But when decorating the marriage sector, use elements of red. Hang a picture with fire elements or stick the corresponding wallpaper, lay a red napkin on the table, and so on. Feng Shui considers it obligatory to hang Chinese lanterns or put two red candles in your secret corner, which must be lit on each new moon. It will be wonderful to hang two paired hearts and put two figurines of ducks, swans, doves. You can also put a photo with your lover or just any photo of a man from a magazine. All attributes should symbolize the unity of a man and a woman and evoke positive thoughts and emotions in you. It is advisable to hang a reproduction of the moon and the moon path in the bedroom: according to Feng Shui, the energy of the moon helps to attract a partner. And mirrors in the bedroom should not reflect your bed, your luck and love go through them.
Symbols of love by Feng Shui
Symbols of love are of great importance and should be placed in the appropriate area:
- Peonies
These beautiful flowers are very powerfula love talisman. According to Feng Shui, single girls are advised to hang a picture with peonies depicted on it in front of the bedroom entrance, but married women over forty should be more careful when choosing a place for the picture. Activating the energy of love in a man can push him to go "to the side". Therefore, it is best not to hang a picture, but to constantly buy live peonies during the season and place them in the living room.
- Crystal Crystals
Crystal or glass crystals carry inthe energy of Mother Earth, placing them in the southwest love sector, you will enhance the attraction of stability, warmth and romance into your relationship. Feng Shui recommends having several crystals in different parts of the room; they can be round, pyramid-shaped or in the form of trees with crystal leaves. Keep the crystals clean by placing them in a salt solution every month. Do you want your chosen one to talk about his feelings as often as possible? Then light up the crystals. Be sure to buy stones of your horoscope for your home - this will further activate the energy of Mother Earth.
- Paired items
Paired symbols represent male and femalebeginning. If you want to achieve harmony in your relationships, never bring single objects into the house. You were given a cat figurine? Tomorrow buy a second figurine, preferably a male cat, and put it next to it. Cooing doves, paired figurines of a man and a woman, hearts, two trees, two stars – everything should represent love and a couple. According to Feng Shui, Yin and Yang form a single whole and cannot exist without each other, like black without white.
- "Wind Music"
Feng Shui talisman - "wind music".It is best to buy a talisman in pink and red shades with heart-shaped pendants; the tubes should be metal and also covered with pink or red paint. By hanging such a talisman next to your photo, you can be sure of a powerful activation of Qi energy. However, couples who have harmony in their relationships should refrain from such "bells".
- Fan
The fan is a very powerful andan effective Feng Shui talisman that instantly activates positive energy flows, suppressing negativity and stagnation in relationships. The larger the fan, the more effective its energy. It should be noted that there are quite a lot of talismans and symbols of love, so you can stop at one or use several items at once. But do not arrange a semblance of a Chinese Feng Shui shop in your apartment, do not overload the "altar" of love with items. All talismans should be in harmony with each other and in no case dissonant.
Materialization of desires
This stage is not just a formality, butan absolute must, if, of course, you really want to attract love to your home forever. But first, you should take into account some facts. Firstly, the ancient teaching of Feng Shui does not separate love and marriage and puts them at the head of all other concepts. Think again, are you ready for the fact that love and marriage are not such an easy thing. This is a daily work on building harmonious and strong relationships. Somewhere you will have to give in, somewhere agree, and sometimes it will be necessary to show firmness. Having fallen in love with a man for his merits, do not forget that he, like any other person, will also have shortcomings. And if you cannot love him "with all his guts", very soon your relationship will collapse. Do you need it? Be honest with yourself. Secondly, Feng Shui is not magic, and this teaching will not help you attract a partner who does not love you at all. And to steal a guy from a rival - is also not a task for feng shui. You can bring the first man you come across into your home just to have him there. But achieving true harmony, tender and mutual feelings, attracting love in its highest sense into your home – the wise teachings of feng shui will help you with this. What do we do next? The most decisive stage begins – voicing your desires with the help of affirmations and, as trite as it may sound, “order formulations”. To do this, you need to write positive thoughts-affirmations on the topic of love and marriage on red paper. For example, “I give and receive love easily and joyfully” or “I attract deep relationships into my life” and the like. Fold the paper and place the note behind your photo or behind the photo of your chosen one. Then there is another delicate moment: you must compose and describe all the positive qualities that you would like to see in your future chosen one. Do not rush, this may take more than one day. After thinking about it, something may not seem so significant, and you will cross out this point, adding something else: attentiveness, scrupulousness, generosity or something else. Having finally decided on all the points, we proceed to the next step. Just as carefully and cautiously make a list of the shortcomings of your future chosen one, which scare you the least. What qualities are you ready to put up with for the sake of a long married life: sloppiness, stinginess, forgetfulness? Take this list even more seriously, do not make mistakes that you could regret later. Feng Shui does not analyze your passions, but only helps to materialize desires. Having both lists in hand, rewrite all the qualities in two columns on a pink or red sheet of paper, roll it into a tube, tie it with a pink ribbon and place it in your Feng Shui love sector.
We equip the bedroom
Feng Shui pays special attention to the bedroom and the fact thatwhere your bed is located and how it is equipped. According to Feng Shui, there should be a lot of light in the room, it is preferable to stick wallpaper in pink or peach tones, even with elements of red. Do not put dried flowers in the bedroom, try to avoid placing climbing plants near your bed. Use bed linen in pastel shades, but choose accessories in bright, juicy tones. The most important Feng Shui instruction is that there should always be two pillows and one blanket on the bed. Using all the listed instructions of Feng Shui, be sure that love will come to your home! Perhaps not too quickly, not tomorrow or the day after tomorrow ... Be sure to wait and be open to love, but do not look for the characteristics that you "ordered" in everyone you meet. Do not get hung up on marriage, enjoy life, and the Universe will not leave you without attention!
