Scales in their striving for balance behaveis completely contradictory: they constantly change something, but strive for stability, sometimes they argue, but they do not tolerate quarrels and conflicts, they are intellectually developed, but sometimes they are very naive. They are constantly struggling with each other two completely different natures, so they are often indecisive and in all doubt. But what if you fell in love with such a total contradiction of a man? We suggest you to understand how you should behave in order not only to attract his attention, but also to win his heart.
What is not tolerated in a man's relationship with a scales
If you want to be with a male sign of the zodiacLibra, then you will have to get as close to his ideal as he is a creative person and, accordingly, appreciates everything perfect and beautiful. Observe only a few taboos in behavior with him, and your way to his heart will become much shorter and easier:
- Under no circumstances should he be criticized
Libra is very vulnerable - accidentally throwna remark indicating their lack, they can think about for a few days. Criticism takes the representatives of this sign out of balance and can cause depression. So try to refrain from critical comments. This applies to personal and professional life, and appearance. At the same time, Libra does not know how and does not like to argue and defend its obvious truth - they just quietly leave, go to those women who will not notice and emphasize their shortcomings.
- Do not be aggressive and scandalous
Mutual understanding is one of the componentshappy relationship with such a difficult guy. The slightest aggressive attacks on your part can make him shut up in himself and step back from you. And if they are repeated often enough - then he just at any time can flee from you. Scales like to sometimes argue, but the controversy is not scandalous, with a rapid clarification of relationships, but rather secular, superficial, to make the conversation more lively and interesting. You can argue with a man about something in a joking manner, but do not overdo it in arguments and tone, proving your rightness, because representatives of this sign are their only true, in their opinion, they do not like to change their point of view and, as a rule, always remain with their opinion.
- Do not be ridiculous at his address
Respect the personality of your lover -Do not be harsh and spiteful in relation to his behavior. With Libra, sometimes it is not easy - they even have a peculiar mode of work and rest. Today he can diligently and painstakingly work, and tomorrow completely surrender to the captivity of laziness - for him it is normal. In addition, for him often frequent delays - he may be late for work and for a date. And your ridicule about this female habit will only cause him bewilderment. Just accept it as it really is, and leave bad and ironic remarks to yourself, if, of course, you want to keep your relationship.
- Do not force him to make decisions
This is one of the most important items of the list, asshould behave with a representative of the sign of Libra. Such a man will never consider a woman as a life partner, who is also full of doubts, like him - timid and irresolute ladies are uninteresting to him. If you decide to fall in love with him and build a strong romantic relationship with him, then learn to take the initiative in your fragile hands and make the most decisions yourself.
How to behave with a representative of the Libra sign
If you are carried away by a man of this sign of the zodiac,then you need to stand out from the crowd of fans, which he has a lot. The fact that he has an innate art of flirting and can behave with ease at women. Representatives of the fair sex is definitely like it, so you are not the only one who fell under his charm. For the heart of this seducer will have to fight - you have to become his ideal. Even if he has already answered your feelings with reciprocity, you can not relax anyway - otherwise he will find his ideal in another woman. We will show you how to behave yourself, to forever conquer this total contradiction of man.
- Be nice, gentle, caring
A woman with a bitchy character can not becomefor Libra the ideal. They prefer lovely ladies who will treat them with tenderness. Even if you like the guy takes everything lightly, with an indulgent smile, it does not mean that he does not pay attention to your behavior. On the contrary, every detail is important for him - for example, he will be very pleased if you always congratulate him even with minor achievements and events. Be interested in your man, in particular his problems, help to solve them, if it is in your power. For Libra is very important support for a loved one. More often call it gentle words ("favorite", "dear", "dear", etc.), which will not diminish his masculinity. Do not hesitate to be the first to show tenderness.
- Always agree with him
With a zodiac sign boy, you need to agreealways, even when you completely disagree with him. He is used to this and does not accept any other behavior. Your attempts to openly contradict him will lead to another mood change, which is so characteristic of Libra, and you definitely will not like this mood. No one asks you to give up your opinion and neglect your interests to please a man. You can agree with him for a look. The phrase "yes, darling, of course" can be used simply to divert one's eyes. This will reassure the man and satisfy his self-esteem. And you can get it without open arguments - be wiser and behave restrained.
- Be exquisite
Wear exquisite things that emphasizeall the numerous virtues of your figure and mask its shortcomings. Do not let yourself look untidy even at home, because for scales the appearance of a woman is not in the last place. With this guy you can be yourself, because he appreciates the natural beauty and the abundance of makeup does not approve. Do not overdo it with decorative cosmetics - it should only emphasize your natural features a little, and not hide them.
- Share his interests
If your lover likes, for example, to visitexhibitions and performances (Libra has an innate need for cultural development), then join in with pleasure. Try to behave yourself at ease - he will appreciate your efforts only if he realizes that your interests really coincide, and he will reveal his pretense very quickly. If he is interested in any field of science, sports or anything else, try to understand this a little. The more common interests you have, the stronger your relationship will be.
- Organize your joint leisure time
He will certainly appreciate if you yourselforganize your leisure and invite him to a concert, exhibition or sports competition. Buy a couple of tickets for the game of his favorite team or invite to the sports bar. With such a guy you will not be bored anywhere.
- Maintain in him the instinct of a hunter
If you want to build a long romanticrelationship with a guy, Libra, then do not open before him right away. Do this gradually, while remaining a little mysterious. Do not show him that he has already subdued you - it will weaken his interest. Due to their charm, Libra men do not lack attention on the part of the fair sex, so it is unlikely that they will be able to conquer their heart by excessive obsession.
- Conquer it with delicious and beautifully cooked dishes
Paving the stomach to the heart can andit seems banal, but with men of this sign of the zodiac this method is very effective. They appreciate in a woman the ability to cook delicious dishes and beautifully serve them. But do not overdo it - to turn into a housewife, which does not depart from the stove, is also not necessary. From time to time arrange for your beloved romantic dinners with the appropriate setting. Do not forget to put on an exquisite dress and, of course, high heel shoes - such a dinner will definitely not leave him indifferent. We told you how to behave with a man, if the sign of the zodiac is Libra: what does he appreciate in women, and what, on the contrary, repels him. But to fall in love with such a man - this is only half the case. You will need to keep it. Be more active and proactive, including in terms of building a family, because full doubts Libra rarely when they decide on such a serious step - sometimes they need to be pushed. It will definitely not be easy with such a guy. In your relationship you will have to be a leader, but he should not know about it. Using his feminine wisdom, impress upon him that he remains the main, and gently and unobtrusively help him make decisions. The main thing is that respect and harmony were present in the relationship.