Libra, in their quest for balance, behavesare completely contradictory: they are constantly changing something, but at the same time strive for stability, they like to argue sometimes, but do not tolerate quarrels and conflicts, they are intellectually developed, but sometimes they are very naive. Two completely different natures are constantly fighting with each other in them, so they are often indecisive and doubt everything. But what to do if you fell in love with such a man full of contradictions? We suggest you figure out how you should behave in order not only to attract his attention, but also to win his heart.
What is not tolerated in a man's relationship with a scales
If you want to be with a man of the zodiac signLibra, then you will have to get as close as possible to his ideal, because he is a creative person and, accordingly, appreciates everything perfect and beautiful. Observe just a few taboos in behavior with him, and your path to his heart will become much shorter and easier:
- Under no circumstances should he be criticized
Libra is very vulnerable - thrown casuallya remark that points out their shortcoming, they can think over for several days. Criticism throws representatives of this sign off balance and can cause depression. Therefore, try to refrain from critical remarks. This applies to both personal and professional life, as well as appearance. At the same time, Libra does not know how and does not like to argue and defend their obvious rightness - they just quietly leave, go to those women who will not notice and emphasize their shortcomings.
- Do not be aggressive and scandalous
Mutual understanding is one of the componentshappy relationship with such a difficult guy. The slightest aggressive attacks from you can make him withdraw into himself and distance himself from you. And if they are repeated often enough, he can simply run away from you at any moment. Libras sometimes like to argue, but not scandalous arguments, with a stormy showdown, but rather secular, superficial ones, to make the conversation more lively and interesting. You can argue with a man about something in a joking manner, but do not overdo it in arguments and tone, proving your case, because representatives of this sign do not like to change their only correct, in their opinion, point of view and, as a rule, always remain with their opinion.
- Do not be ridiculous at his address
Respect your lover's individuality -Don't be harsh and mean towards his behavior. Sometimes it's not easy with Libra - even their work and rest schedule is a bit peculiar. Today he can work diligently and painstakingly, and tomorrow completely surrender to laziness - this is normal for him. In addition, he is often late - he can be late for work and for a date. And your ridicule about this female habit will only cause bewilderment in him. Just accept him as he is, and keep evil and ironic remarks to yourself, if, of course, you want to save your relationship.
- Do not force him to make decisions
This is one of the most important points on the list, as notyou should behave with a representative of the Libra sign. Such a man will never consider a woman who is as full of doubts as he is for the role of a life partner - timid and indecisive ladies are not interesting to him. If you decide to make him fall in love with you and build a strong romantic relationship with him, then learn to take the initiative into your fragile hands and make most of the decisions yourself.
How to behave with a representative of the Libra sign
If you are attracted to a man of this signzodiac, then you need to stand out from the crowd of fans, of which he has many. The fact is that he has an innate art of flirting and can behave casually with women. The fair sex definitely likes this, so you are not the only one who has fallen under his charm. You will have to fight for the heart of this seducer - you must become his ideal. Even if he has already reciprocated your feelings, you still cannot relax - otherwise he will find his ideal in another woman. We will tell you how to behave in order to conquer this man full of contradictions forever.
- Be nice, gentle, caring
A woman with a bitchy character cannot becomefor Libra the ideal. They prefer nice ladies who will treat them tenderly. Even if the guy you like takes everything frivolously, with a condescending smile, this does not mean that he does not pay attention to your behavior. On the contrary, every little thing is important to him - for example, he will be very pleased if you always congratulate him even on minor achievements and events. Take an interest in your man, in particular his problems, help solve them, if it is within your power. Support from a loved one is very important for Libra. More often call him tender words ("beloved", "sweet", "dear", etc.), which at the same time will not belittle his masculinity. Do not be shy to be the first to show tenderness.
- Always agree with him
You have to agree with a Libra guyalways, even when you completely disagree with him. He is used to this and does not accept any other behavior. Your attempts to openly contradict him will lead to another change in mood, which is so typical of Libra, and you will definitely not like this mood. No one requires you to give up your opinion and neglect your interests to please a man. You can agree with him for the sake of appearances. The phrase "yes, honey, of course" can be used simply to divert attention. This will calm the man down and satisfy his pride. And you can achieve your goal without open disputes - be wiser and behave with restraint.
- Be exquisite
Wear sophisticated pieces that highlight your features.all the numerous advantages of your figure and the flaws that mask it. Don't let yourself look unkempt even at home, because for Libra, a woman's appearance is not the last thing on her mind. With such a guy, you can be yourself, because he values natural beauty and does not approve of an abundance of makeup. Don't overdo it with decorative cosmetics - it should only slightly emphasize your natural facial features, and not hide them.
- Share his interests
If your beloved loves, for example, to visitexhibitions and performances (Libras have an innate need for cultural development), then you will be happy to join him. Try to behave naturally - he will appreciate your efforts only if he understands that your interests really coincide, and he will reveal pretense very quickly. If he is interested in some area of science, sports or something else, try to at least understand it a little. The more common interests you have, the stronger your relationship will be.
- Organize your joint leisure time
He will definitely appreciate it if you do it yourselforganize your leisure time and invite him to a concert, exhibition or sports competition. Buy a couple of tickets to his favorite team or invite him to a sports bar. With such a guy, you will never be bored.
- Maintain in him the instinct of a hunter
If you want to build a long lasting romantic relationshiprelationship with a Libra guy, then do not open up to him right away. Do it gradually, while remaining a little mysterious. Do not show him that he has already conquered you - this will weaken his interest. Thanks to their charm, Libra men do not experience a lack of attention from the fair sex, so it is unlikely that you will be able to conquer their hearts with excessive obsession.
- Conquer it with delicious and beautifully cooked dishes
It can also make its way to the heart through the stomachIt seems trivial, but with men of this zodiac sign this technique is very effective. They value in a woman the ability to cook delicious dishes and serve them beautifully. But do not overdo it - do not turn into a housewife who does not leave the stove. From time to time, arrange romantic dinners for your loved one with the appropriate setting. Do not forget to put on an elegant dress and, of course, high-heeled shoes - such a dinner will definitely not leave him indifferent. We told you how to behave with a man if he is Libra according to the zodiac sign: what he values in women, and what, on the contrary, repels him. But to make such a man fall in love with you is only half the battle. You will also need to keep him. Be more active and proactive, including in terms of building a family, because Libra, full of doubts, rarely decides on such a serious step themselves - sometimes they need to be pushed. It will definitely not be easy with such a guy. In your relationship, you will have to be the leader, but he should not guess about it. Using your feminine wisdom, instill in him that he remains the main one, and you yourself unobtrusively and gently help him make decisions. The main thing is that there is respect and harmony in the relationship.