Virtual dating is very popular today.There are a great many websites on the Internet where both those who just want to chat and those who hope to find a life partner gather. What can you do... The pace of today's life is such that there is simply no time to look for a chosen one in the real world. And the Internet is always at hand. So why not try? Anything can happen. What if the one who is able to give peace and happiness is now rushing around the World Wide Web and is also looking for his soulmate? So girls sit in front of the monitor for hours, and get upset if they do not answer, and stop believing in their own attractiveness. But the thing is most often that they simply do not know how to meet a guy on the Internet and maintain correspondence with him. After all, flirting on the Internet, like in life, also has its own rules. What are these rules?
Rules for dating on the Internet. Drawing up a questionnaire
People who register on dating sites,do not necessarily aim to find a person to start a family with. Some people need an interesting conversationalist, some need like-minded people, and some are looking for partners for virtual or even real sex. Therefore, when intending to meet someone online, you need to know exactly what you want from this person. If you just want to communicate based on mutual understanding, then this does not require any special techniques. It is enough to either find a site that matches the topic of communication, or emphasize in your profile that the person is needed only for correspondence. Otherwise, you will have to fight off various sexually preoccupied riff-raff. Well, when a girl intends to find her soulmate on a dating site, it would be advisable for her to inquire about some of the nuances of filling out an ad and her profile. For example, in this case, it is better to compose a profile as follows:
- Post a good photo on the dating site
It is desirable that it be donea professional photographer who will be able to perfectly convey the image of the girl and emphasize her best features. You should not take pictures against the backdrop of luxurious interiors or in a chic outfit. All this will not allow a potential partner to properly examine the appearance of the young lady and may scare him with its pretentiousness. You need to be in a good mood and smile in the picture with your whole being. Such a smile disposes men to its owner at first sight. If we do not want letters of very unambiguous content to rain down on our profile - do not post quite candid photos in the profile. Although some touch of sexuality can be present in them. But it should not be aggressive, but enticing, mysterious. After all, it is impossible to know exactly how the one we are looking for feels about defiant sex appeal. What if he does not like overly liberated women? In the photo, you should try to look as natural as possible. A girl's mannered pose, imitating some model from the cover of a glossy magazine, looks rather unpleasant and false. Everyday images are perceived best. It is desirable that they were taken outside the home, somewhere against the backdrop of a beautiful natural or urban landscape. But a good, cute home photo will also do. It is not a bad idea to post not only photos of your face in the profile, but also full-length shots. Then the man will have the most complete idea of the young lady's appearance;
- The data in the questionnaire should be indicated most fully and write in the announcement of your hobbies and desires sincerely
However, one should not be too verbose.Men may decide that a girl is too talkative or prone to narcissism. At the same time, it is acceptable to briefly tell about where we currently work or study, what our plans are for the future, what we like and what we don’t like. In the profile, you should indicate the purpose of meeting. Otherwise, guys whose intentions are far from this goal will start answering us. When writing a profile, it is highly undesirable to exaggerate or belittle your own merits. You do not need to invent some exotic profession or an unusual hobby. It may happen that when communicating with a serious, good person, the conversation will turn to the features of these activities. And there will be a risk of being caught in a lie. And this can negatively affect further relations with an online interlocutor. The list of requirements for a candidate for acquaintance should not be too long. Firstly, it will resemble an ultimatum and is unlikely to be perceived loyally by the strong half of humanity. And secondly, it is impossible to understand whether a man meets certain requirements without communicating with him. He, having seen a lot of complaints about his potential partner in the girl’s profile, is unlikely to be eager to communicate. It is advisable to answer the questions in the profile in an original, interesting way, with a bit of humor. This attracts the representatives of the stronger sex and turns on their imagination. In general, you need to approach filling out the profile seriously. If we tell too little about ourselves in it, almost no one will be interested in us. Lack of information about a person arouses suspicion and suggests that he has something to hide. If we start describing every little thing, we can create the impression of a frivolous or obsessed with marriage person, deprived of male attention. Everything should be in moderation. The main thing is to arouse curiosity in that category of men who are more attractive and close than others. And make them send at least a smiley face to start a correspondence. It also has its own characteristics. How to properly meet a guy on the Internet, starting to correspond with him?
Peculiarities of correspondence with a man on the Internet
So, we posted ours on the dating siteprofile, it interested one of the guys and he sent us a message. How to meet guys online in this case? When a man is not very attractive, you can just keep quiet. But it would be better to answer him with a couple of short sentences. People who actively correspond, raise their rating and have the opportunity to be on the first pages of the site. This position of the profile increases the chances of increasing the number of views and that we will be noticed by the one we are looking for. As for the guy, with whom you are not tempted to meet, you can simply thank him for his attention. If the young man insists on further communication, correctly make it clear that it will not happen. A normal man will take a refusal to correspond adequately. After all, this is a dating site, where everyone has the right to choose! And each of the users is sometimes not accepted by someone. There is nothing out of the ordinary in this. Well, when the guy seemed nice and you want to continue the correspondence with him, you need to do it carefully. You shouldn't immediately puzzle your interlocutor with tricky questions and force him to be too frank. Not all of us are capable of openly talking about purely personal things with everyone. In order for a man to tell you everything about himself frankly, he needs time. The overwhelming pressure from a woman you don't know very well yet is alarming and makes you withdraw. Who knows how this will end. Perhaps the guy will simply stop corresponding. A long, plaintive message from a girl with a detailed list of personal problems can also be a reason for stopping the correspondence. A rare guy is eager to be aware of the problems of a girl he doesn't really know yet. Therefore, you shouldn't write about troubles at work and conflicts with someone. Let's keep personal life difficulties to ourselves for now. Few of the men present on the dating site are interested in them yet. To discuss such issues, the conversation on the network needs to become more heartfelt. First of all - positive, positive and positive again! Non-committal phrases, unobtrusive compliments and discussions on abstract light topics. And that's all. And to make the conversation exciting, you need to look at the guy's profile, find out what he is interested in and pay more attention to these male passions. If you start an active correspondence with the young man and find common ground, you can think about a date with him in real life. Such a date also has its own nuances.
Meeting with a man from the Internet: what you need to know
Of course, the main task is to find your ownHalves on the Internet - not correspondence, but a meeting. Many of us are afraid of a date with an online acquaintance offline. And not in vain. Because in reality, a person may turn out to be completely different from what he seemed when communicating with him through the monitor. And we may not like him. Just as he may not like us. And the jitters before the first meeting with someone who already seems to be the chosen one are quite natural. In general, going to the first meeting of this kind, you should remember: often when communicating online, people feel more confident and relaxed than in direct contact. And if a man is timid and inactive on a date, you need to take this fact into account. There is a chance that, having settled in, he will open up and become a charming and very attractive young man. A girl may also feel out of place. Oddly enough, but after correspondence on the Internet, we are much more afraid of a date with a man than when meeting him in person. This probably happens because online communication, one way or another, creates an image of a girl in the guy's mind. In reality, he wants to match this image. Otherwise, disappointment is inevitable. So before the first date, we start to meticulously look for some inconsistencies in ourselves. And, of course, we find them. These may be mere trifles, but before meeting a guy from the Internet, they acquire enormous proportions in our eyes. As a result, self-esteem drops sharply and self-doubt appears. In order not to behave awkwardly and awkwardly with a man, you need to pull yourself together and remember that there are no ideal people. Even stunning ladies from all sides may not appeal to someone. And then, after all, we intend to find our soul mate, and not seduce everyone in a row! Therefore, let the guy either accept everything as it is, or disappear from our lives. Why try to build a serious relationship with someone who is not suitable for them from the beginning? After all, we strive to make our dreams come true, not to see all our hopes collapse. If a meeting with an online interlocutor was disappointing, there is no need to be upset. There are a lot of other people on the Internet, and meeting one of them has every chance of being fateful. There are many examples of how men and women found each other through the Internet and then entered into successful marriages. It is quite possible that this will happen to us too. The most incredible things happen in life! But you should always remember about your safety and that there are many spiders on the World Wide Web. These hunters of gullible young ladies especially love dating sites. Therefore, let's be vigilant and not too naive. We advise you to read:
