Sometimes we really want to stand out somehowcompany of our friends, we want to become at least a little brighter and more interesting, so that they pay more attention to us than to others. It is very pleasant to feel that everyone is happy about your appearance, and communication with you brings pleasure to friends. Is it possible to learn this, or is it not available to everyone? And if it is still possible to learn, then how to become the life of the party, what traits do you need to develop in yourself for this? At the very beginning, we noted that in order to be in the center of attention - you need to be brighter and more interesting. We all value meetings with interesting people, and most of us hope that others also find communication with us fascinating. In any case, it makes sense to work on yourself to become a truly interesting person. And we will try to help you with this.
Who can be called an interesting person?
What makes someone more interesting than otherspeople? It is not always easy to answer this question. There are many subjective points of view that are difficult to apply to everyone, especially when it comes to personality traits. But there are also common traits that are noted in people of this type:
- The ability to take risks. All of us have to solve some problems. But no one pays much attention to a man who always prefers a safe, easy way. A person who is capable of extraordinary decisions and actions, always takes some risks; but he gets some new memorable experience, which adds a new edge to his personality.
Our lives are full of examples of people who playwith fate only in safe games. They live a measured life, without pretending to anything better. Of course, these are not the people we usually hear or talk about. Those we talk about usually do something that no one has done before, or achieve something despite all the difficulties. When we do something extraordinary, we always face an element of risk. Whether we start our own business, write our first book or do other similar things, we take a risk. Devote ourselves to a hobby - tourism, alpine skiing, parkour or collecting teddy bears - there is also a share of risk here. Just try to buy and put on a super-fashionable dress - don't you risk running into ridicule from those around you who don't understand anything about fashion trends? One thing is clear: interesting people are not the type of people who sit quietly at home all their free time, spending every evening in front of the TV or computer monitor. The latter will obviously never understand how to become the life of the party. They most likely don't even have any company!
- Curiosity. By the way, this is one of the catalysts for taking risks. If you are curious to know how bullfights are going on in Spain, then you are much more likely to go there. Curiosity makes us know the world and look for our place in it. It forces us to leave the position of a passive observer in order to become more active. In addition, curiosity is a key moment for the development of the imagination, because some of the best ideas come when we just let our imagination run wild.
- Own opinion on different issues. Actually, every person is able to express an opinion on this or that occasion. But a bright, extraordinary person is different in that his point of view on many things is often unique, inherent to him. If you just repeat what others say, then you will not say anything new and interesting. The same goes for those people who are afraid to express their opinion. Everyone has the right to his own judgment, and it is only natural that the worldviews of different people can differ significantly. But if you keep your views to yourself, fearing that they will not be popular or lead to conflict, it will make you boring and predictable.
- Ability to indicate your presence. For this you need your self-confidence, expressive body language, the ability to interact in society. This is not an obligatory condition for becoming an interesting person, but it helps a lot to become just that. Imagine, for example, that you are watching live performance of a rock band. If the musicians go on stage and just play and sing, without showing any emotion and practically not moving, then you will get bored at this concert, even if the songs they sing are not bad. And when you are interested? When the artists cry and laugh on the stage, move and dance, and around them flare up dynamically, poured and turn colored lights.
Ability to stay in company and interactwith its participants can distinguish you from others. There are people who can tell even about everyday, mundane things so vividly that everyone will listen to them with great interest. And others will tell even the funniest joke in such a way that it will seem boring. It is precisely this difference in the ability to present oneself that does not allow the latter to understand what they lack in order to arouse the interest of their friends.
Our recommendations to the girls
Okay, so basically we figured out thatdistinguishes interesting people from ordinary, unremarkable people. And what can you do to develop the same qualities in yourself? And then, a guy who is the life of the party and a girl who is the life of the party - are they probably not the same thing? How can a girl become the life of the party? For beautiful young ladies, we have prepared the following tips:
Similarly, make a list of the “Top Tenunpleasant people I know." And in the same way, make a list of those character traits that you would like to avoid in yourself. This is a very useful list, do not forget to look at it sometimes. And the last piece of advice - communicate with interesting people as much as possible, and then you can become the life of any company! . We recommend reading:
