Every time has its own customs andcustoms, as well as gender roles. What do men expect when they marry modern girls? What should they do? Where should they work? What should they do around the house? I was always taught intellectual work. Planning, analyzing, reading, organizing. Gold medal, honors diploma... I dreamed of getting married only for love. But there was no vision of a life together, in the full sense of this phrase. And now I am at a loss: to put all the things in the closets (and there are whole heaps of them), to cook a full breakfast, lunch, and dinner, to take care of the child (and this is the whole day), to keep myself clean at a high level, to wash windows and floors, to collect spiders (I have been afraid of them since childhood), to wash, to garden, to make preserves for the winter, to find time for self-development, etc., - where are the dreams of a career, self-expression in society, when you have to spend the whole day at home!? Is it possible to be happy in our time, doing housework? Will your husband appreciate everything you do during the day? — «You have nothing to complain about at all. You sit at home all day and do whatever you want!» Yes, it is true — every woman has her own separate room, and in it she does whatever she wants: she wants to wash the dishes, she wants to cook borscht, she wants to bake pies… Is it worth devoting yourself to your family if your own people don’t appreciate it? On the other hand, all housework can be simplified by modern methods — servants, equipment, fast food. But all this is money, time and health. And, usually, such resources are always in short supply. Besides, I think that no one can do this work better than me. Then why get "second-rate" service - your loved ones and family may suffer from it. To begin with, you need to distribute all the work among the spheres: - husband (planning joint pastimes and small services); - children (upbringing and education); - self-development (correspondence course or self-education); - kitchen (dishes, grocery shopping, cooking, preparing); - home (interior, cleaning); - clothes (cleaning, washing, ironing, revisions, purchases); - relatives (birthdays, joint meetings, calls); - vegetable garden (for those who wish). We planted for the first and last time - it would have been cheaper to buy at the market (grown, of course, without our love and care - that's a minus
) And now, young wives and girls dreaming ofmarriage, are we ready to organize and implement all this? Of course, men are busier than us: they have work and small chores around the house. How can we compare to them, the "breadwinners"? Where is the "influence of modern trends" here? What can we persistently demand from our faithful? What can we expect from life? The investigation has begun. To be continued!.. Author:
