Psychology of men in relationships with women

What is a particular person most interested in?a woman who liked a certain man? The answer is obvious and suggests itself: she is interested in attracting his attention to her person, his interest in her in return, in building a strong love relationship with a specific representative of the strong half of humanity. In order for the set goal to be achieved successfully, you need to have certain knowledge that helps to understand such an extremely subtle thing as the psychology of men in relationships with women. Our guys seem to us a closed book, a secret behind seven seals, which, nevertheless, charming young ladies are full of desire to open and read - after all, their family happiness depends on it. We, for our part, feel an equally sincere desire to help them in this intention, to share our knowledge about men and their little secrets. We are all different personalities, have different temperaments, characters, habits. This is due to nature itself, which endowed us with these differences at birth, as well as the kind of upbringing, education, profession, and other external factors we received. Naturally, such subtleties can only be learned over time, already more closely communicating with the object of your secret and obvious dreams. In order to understand how you can already now make your company pleasant and desirable for him, you should find out what psychological type your knight can be classified as.

Psychological types of men

Auditory, visual, kinesthetic - that's ita simplified gradation of men based on how they are used to receiving information and sharing it with the world around them. Since it is impossible to meet a bright representative of any of the named psychological types in its pure form, this division is mostly conditional, with rather blurred boundaries. We are all an explosive mixture of certain qualities, but if you look more closely, you can see what dominates in us, plays the most vivid role in our behavior - and from there build a strategy to win the heart of your chosen one. Auditory man If your man is an audial, then keep in mind that you have got a great rarity. Among men, this psychological type is the least common, for some reason nature has decreed it this way. You will immediately determine that this is exactly the representative of the stronger sex in front of you, by the following signs:

he uses phrases in his speech such as “I’m listening…”, “Listen to me…”, “How noisy…”, “How quiet…”, “I don’t want to hear this”;
he likes to listen to music, he has all the collections of his favorite performers, and only in the most excellent quality;
most likely, this man will have a goodmusical ear, and if his life is not related to the creative profession, then he fully finds use of his musical talents in a hobby (for example, he sings in karaoke);
best of all he remembers the information by ear. After watching the film, he can easily quote exactly the phrases you like, surprisingly conveying even the subtleties of the intonation he heard.

For such men, the world is filled with sounds:quiet and loud, melodic and harsh, pleasant and disgusting. A melody heard by chance can awaken a whole spectrum of feelings, associations and emotions in his subconscious, and the phrase that words can also hurt, acquires the most clear and specific meaning when communicating with such men. You will charm him if:

you have a beautiful melodic voiceand good diction. The great thing is that if by nature you did not get wonderful vocal data, then in your hands to improve what you have, through various exercises;
will be generous with compliments. Here it is possible to catch two birds with one stone at the same time: there are few people who can indifferently approve the approving words addressed to them, and if they are uttered in a charming female voice, the male soul will surrender without a fight;
begin to understand music, performers and be able to distinguish the sound quality in his car compared to others;
devote him a song or poems - even if he is not a romantic at heart, after hearing the beautifully worded words of sympathy and love, he will definitely not be able to remain indifferent.

What is prohibited:

shout and declare a boycott in equal measureit is useless and even can only harm you. The psychology of any man in a relationship generally does not accept such sufficiently categorical measures, but it is especially important to remember this when you are dealing with a representative of a strong half of humanity who receives information by ear;
avoid foul language, in fact, it generally does not intersect with femininity, and in the situation with the male audial, the importance of each spoken word increases exponentially.

Visual man This is a very common type among the representatives of the stronger sex. You can determine that you are dealing with exactly this type by the following signs:

in his speech you can often hear such words,like "Look at me", "I won't believe it until I see it with my own eyes", "I can see just fine", "We'll see when we get there", "That wasn't pretty"
it is important to him how you look, what he looks like, the appearance plays for such men a very large role
he just has an amazing visual memory: he can remember once seen a person or place, even after a long time
He likes to watch movies more than listen to music, and likes to surround himself with beautiful things, which he likes to admire

You will turn his head if:

you are attractive or able to presentcorrectly their external virtues and hide some of the shortcomings. A well-groomed girl who follows her appearance has all the chances to attract the attention of men of this type;
write letters to him, and do it with imagination: choose an unusual design for your message and write it with your own hand, and do not print it on the computer;
try to always look great - thesemen "love with their eyes" in the literal sense, and how much effort you put into your own appearance, how much attention he will pay to you will return a hundredfold;
you will deprive him of the gift of speech, dancing for him once a private dance, believe me, he will be at your feet immediately;
even when cooking, you will please his eyes - beautifully set the table, use beautiful kitchen utensils.

This is what you shouldn't do:

forget that there are hairdressers in the world,masters of manicure and pedicure, cosmetologists, fashion stores, fitness clubs and other places that help women look charming. With this man should not be afraid to give his appearance increased attention, he just approvingly refers to everything that you do to look as good as possible - after all, you are trying for him, for a loved one.
criticize his appearance, report (even from the best of intentions) that someone looks better, stylish, young and so on. It is probably not necessary to explain why this should not be done.

A kinesthetic man Your man is a kinesthetic if:

he knows the world through touch, comfort or lack of feeling near him;
you have understood this, because it seeks to touch you and is obviously pleased if you touch it;
in his speech you hear phrases like "It touched me", "It doesn't concern me", "I feel", "He feels cold", "I hug you";
he likes to lie in the bathroom, tasty food, he likes to go in for sports and other physical activity.

This psychological type is the mostis common among men, so we advise you to take a closer look at your chosen one - most likely, you will see many signs that indicate that he belongs to the kinesthetics. Develop an appropriate strategy to conquer this representative of the stronger sex - psychologists say that these men are most suitable for the role of head of the family. How to charm him:

touching, kissing, caressing, hugging, and most importantly - terrific sex: these are the tools that will help you win the heart of a male kinesthetic;
The way to a man's heart is through hisstomach» – clearly refers to men of this psychological type. Cook him delicious food – he, like no one else, will be able to appreciate your culinary talents;
use perfume. Let your scent firmly cut into his memory, causing associations with warmth, tenderness, comfort, for him these are the strongest emotions
more often touch him, do a massage, this man with admiration applies to such an expression of feelings.

There is no need to do this:

use as an argument in conflictsituations excommunication from a matrimonial bed, and also from such natural displays of care of the man, as preparation of tasty meal and pure clothes. Sooner or later, such manipulations will force the male kinesthetic to seek warmth, coziness and understanding elsewhere. His male point of view will be this: I am deprived of the most valuable, hence, here I am not to court.
These men are mosta woman of her primordial traits, such as gentleness, femininity, economy. Therefore, they will not be able to pay tribute to your career achievements, especially if it goes against the family. You either have to make every effort to ensure that your man does not feel deprived of your attention, or in some way to sacrifice your own career heights.

Summing up

As we mentioned earlier, meeting a brighta representative of a particular psychological type in its pure form is very difficult. The more time you spend with your man, the more opportunities you have to get to know him. A man's soul seems so mysterious only in the first moments, and then you understand that if you have the desire to know and charm it is not so difficult. For every man, it is possible to find a magic key that can open the doors of his heart. Remember, our dear readers, that love rules the world. The psychology of men in relationships is subject to the same laws as women's. We all dream of finding love, we want it to be mutual and happy. We hope that reading this article will help you better look into the soul of your man, understand the psychology of a man in relationships not only with the outside world, but also specifically in your relationship, and will also help you improve them. After all, women, unlike men, are still more subtle psychologists, it is easier for us to hear our partner's side and catch the same wave with him. So let's use what nature itself has given us for our own good, to always see, hear and feel the love coming from a man in love with you. We recommend reading: