“It’s a pity that I’m not perfect!" - you think, wiping away tears after yet another quarrel with your boyfriend. There are many things you don't have and can't do, but is that what simple female happiness consists of? This and many other questions make you wonder what she is like - the ideal girl in the eyes of men?
Beautiful
Take and listen to the conversations of men aboutgirls. What is the first thing they notice? That's right, appearance. And it's no secret that men love with their eyes. More precisely, they love with their hearts, of course, but they fall in love with their eyes. That's why it's so important for men that we look beautiful and well-groomed. It's worth mentioning that there hasn't been a single standard of female beauty for a long time: some people like tall and slender girls with small breasts or even no breasts, while others like short stature and curvaceous figures. What can we say about the variety of eye colors, hair colors, and characteristics of other parts of the female body! Accordingly, any girl can be beautiful - it's just important to learn how to emphasize your own strengths and hide your weaknesses. To do this, you'll need to spend some time researching yourself. What colors and styles suit you? What hairstyle suits you best? What shade of tan looks best on your skin? You'll have to answer these and other questions. By the way, it is precisely this kind of knowledge that explains the fact that many women look much better in maturity than in youth - they simply know what things emphasize their beauty. It is grooming and attention to oneself that underlie external attractiveness, and natural data itself does not actually give their owner such a big head start. By the way, it is not necessary to spend a lot of money on maintaining beauty - it can be easily replaced by time and desire. Don't have enough money for an expensive fitness club? Start running in the mornings. Do you want to wear quality clothes, but don't have money for a bunch of designer clothes? Buy things in a second-hand store and be selective (see the previous paragraph) - something really cool in stores. Remember that nothing is impossible - there are only reasons not to do it.
Clever
No, of course, there are men who want to havea beautiful doll next to them, but most of them still want to find a comrade and friend in their beloved woman, with whom it will be interesting. But first, it is worth deciding what kind of woman is considered smart. Men are not at all attracted to complex reasoning about higher matters - they find them meaningless and boring. But the ability to understand art, literature, cinema and music will be very beneficial to you. A broad outlook - this is what makes you an interesting conversationalist (just do not overdo it - after all, no one likes overly smart people, because next to them you feel stupid). And if you understand some narrow and purely “male” topic, this makes you a truly ideal girl! But intelligence - it is not only a storehouse of academic knowledge and encyclopedic facts. It is also the ability to operate them, solve some creative problems, create and rebuild something. Many men complain that women do not understand them. So, a lively and sharp mind can make a man's consciousness open and understandable for you.
Sexual
Female sexuality is not justshort skirt and frivolous behavior, Rather the opposite - such a woman will be recognized as vulgar and unattractive. However, the ideal girl loves sex and considers it an important part of her life. And how could it be otherwise, because her feminine essence is very, very developed! Sexuality is manifested in the fact that such a girl knows what brings her pleasure. She is attracted to her beloved man, and she is able to be a queen only for him (and let the rest lick their lips!). She is relaxed and ready to experiment in bed, but she does not have strict boundaries and stereotypes about what sex should be. A sexy girl knows that it can be different, and bed is only for two. She does not compare her man with others.
Cheerful
Of course, the ideal girl should be cheerful- No one wants to communicate with a boring person! This does not mean that she will be a ringleader and an “energizer” twenty-four hours a day. She can allow herself to relax and be sad, but this is not a usual and comfortable state for her. Such a girl always has a lot of ideas on how to have fun. There is some slight “madness” in her, which makes the time spent with her unforgettable. Such a girl is quite capable of replacing a whole company of drunk men, and that is why she is ideal.
Unusual
There is only one perfect girl in the world, and that isbecomes clear to anyone who talks to her for at least ten minutes. There is something in her that distinguishes her from all the others, but it is not always possible to formulate what exactly. Perhaps she is extremely open and trusting, or, on the contrary, mysterious and closed. There are no rules here, and everything is possible. Just do not immediately try to become “not like everyone else”. This cannot be learned or instilled from the outside. On the contrary, you need to discern in yourself that very zest that will be your essence. Only then will you not look unnatural and will captivate everyone with your originality and uniqueness.
Confident
And last but probably most important -self-confidence. The ideal girl knows that she is cool and will succeed. Her gait, gestures, facial expressions, words - everything says that she loves herself and has a sense of self-worth. She sets high goals for herself and achieves them with enviable persistence. Every man dreams of being with her. No one will want to wipe their feet on such a girl - instead, they will carry her in their arms. She does not scold herself for every little thing, because she knows - the absolute ideal simply does not exist! And so we got a pretty hefty list of qualities of the ideal girl. Of course, any of us, after reading it, has an irresistible desire to correct something in ourselves and become a real man's dream. But remember that this is by no means a guarantee that you will soon get married, have a child and become happy. This list - just sketches for a picture that will never be painted because there is no ideal that would be the same for everyone. So it turns out that the ideal girl in the eyes of men is a truly beloved girl, when both her virtues and shortcomings are perceived and accepted by the partner. We hope that there is such a girl for each of our readers. We recommend reading:
