Friendship between a man and a woman….Is it possible? This question interests many, but it is not easy to answer. Yes, there are many thoughts on this topic, but no one has yet made a clear verdict. One thing is clear - always, or almost always, such friendship ends in bed. Of course, this does not mean that friendly relations come to an end, but these relations simply acquire a completely different character. Men claim that friendship with the opposite sex is possible only in two cases: if they are former lovers who have maintained good relations and if the man is gay. With the first option, everything is more or less clear - there was a sexual relationship, but the feelings faded, people continue to communicate out of habit: they are connected by something in common from their past lives - hobbies, work, even children. And what can be said about the second case? My friend is gay: how to explain this strange, but by no means rare phenomenon of our time? Girls are friends with gays and this fact does not bring them any inconvenience. On the contrary - they consider such relationships stronger than friendship between women. Why does this happen, is such friendship really sincere on the part of the girl or are they “starting” it because it’s fashionable?

Why does friendship arise?

There are many examples of friendship between girls andmen of non-traditional sexual orientation. Some people think that such relationships hide one little secret - a girl who is friends with a gay man, as a rule, has an inferiority complex: she either does not have her own personal life, or she is extremely unhappy with it. As you know, women's happiness lies in the family. And friendship with a gay man gives women a feeling of closeness and completeness. It seems that you are constantly next to a man, but at the same time he will never encroach on your freedom. Many people regard friendship with a gay man as a drug that is addictive. After all, those who have already tried to communicate with them at least once, are looking for a continuation of the relationship. A gay man flatters the girl's vanity, because for him she is just a best friend, and not a competitor at all. Keep in mind that it is almost impossible to re-educate your husband from a gay friend - they are fickle and treacherous, like women.

Lack of jealousy

A gay man will always be sincere with a woman,because she will never become a sexual object or a rival for him. He will not spread gossip, as some "soul mates" do, he will not try to steal a guy from his girlfriend. He simply does not need it. A gay friend will adequately assess the girl's appearance, discuss this or that brand of underwear with her, sincerely advise what dress to buy for a party and at the same time will never ask to wear this dress, ruin it or forget to return it. And even if he turns out to be handsome as Apollo, a girl with an average appearance or curvy shapes will never fit in next to him, since they have absolutely nothing to share - they are just good friends. By the way, it is a gay man who can adequately explain to a woman the principles of a man's behavior in a given situation, imagine himself in her place and give practical advice, and this, you must agree, is very important for maintaining a relationship. Well, and on top of everything else, a gay man's girlfriend can be sure that he won't fall madly in love with her, ruining their friendly feelings. However, as for the last fact, it all depends on the girl herself. There are cases when women themselves fall in love with their "girlfriend", and then the relationship collapses, no matter how hard you try.

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Being friends with a gay man can help cool the ardor of a jealous persona groom who is strict about his girlfriend's communication with members of the opposite sex - this is what some women think. In fact, it's not that simple. If a man is jealous, nothing will stop him, and all your statements "he's gay, he's not interested in me as a woman" will lead to nothing. Discontent on the part of your other half will still be there, because for an ordinary man the psychology of homosexuals is completely incomprehensible, they treat such people with caution, even with contempt. And the arguments in your life will not stop, they will just go in a different direction. Your man will not understand, "how can you communicate with ... this???" Imagine for a moment this situation: while you are shopping with a friend of non-traditional sexual orientation and choosing a new set of underwear, your man is fixing a car with two pretty lesbians. ... How does it feel? Probably not very good. You will rush headlong to the garage in order to clarify the situation. Therefore, you should not judge your man harshly for misunderstanding. And trying to make friends with a gay person for the reason described above is also not worth it.

Tribute to fashion

This fact makes many girlsreconsider your priorities in friendship. “If it’s fashionable, then I want it too! How am I worse than others?” So the girl starts looking for a friend in a homosexual society, forgetting that true friendship will never be subject to any trends. A gay man is also a person, he is not a lap dog that is taken out for a walk, decorated with a couple of precious stones, to show off to others. In fact, such women are not at all interested in the life of a new friend, his habits and passions, they are only interested in his sexual orientation. And therefore such relationships are doomed to failure. Of course, it is so effective to tell acquaintances about a gay friend who understands everything, does not spread gossip, supports under any circumstances. But if you look at this situation from the other side, then you feel offended for the guy who has become an addition to a fashionable image. Sad, in general ...

Because together well

This is the last and most reasonable reason for friendship withgay. Mutual sympathy that arose from the first meeting and pushes for further communication is the main component of strong friendly relations between people. If a girl is sincere in her feelings, she will never look for an excuse for her friendship and to the question - "Why are you friends with a gay?" she will give the only correct answer - "Because he is a good person, it is easy and interesting for me with him!" This is the kind of friendship that promises to be long and happy - when human qualities come first, the desire to do something good for a friend, to cheer him up when he is sad. And to do it completely selflessly and sincerely. As in the old Soviet cartoon about friends - "These are flowers for me, but for what?" "Just like that!" We recommend reading:

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