You began to think about the question, to gatheror not with his young man. But you are frightened by the fact that a joint life will destroy the romanticism of your relationship? This is not quite true. Living side by side can, of course, turn into hell, but it is also able to bring the relationship to a new, higher level. Such a decision is a demonstration of the maturity of your thoughts and feelings, the readiness for the next stage in love, the pursuit of permanence. After all, living with a young man for even two months will help to determine whether you need to think about marriage, or better to part, until it's too late. The main thing in this matter is not to force events, but to gather only when you feel that you are ready for it. Only under such conditions will life bring pleasure together, and not bring disappointment and pain of the first mistakes. After all, it often happens that the young couple in love hastens to move to the common shelter as quickly as possible, and after one or two weeks there is no trace of their relationship. And the girl, rounding her eyes in horror, tells her friends about how much she upset her chosen one. Therefore, it is necessary to come together for a living together with a loved one under one roof only after your relationship has acquired a certain permanence, become stable. And in order to make sure of their readiness for life together, you can pass a small test for liveliness and the ability to compromise.
A simple check of your readiness
First you need to make a list,honestly answer the questions, and if at least five points in it coincide, start looking for a place to live together; but do not be in a hurry. It can also happen that you and your partner have perfect compatibility. In this case, all ten points will coincide - then discard all doubts and come together, without hesitation! So, here are the main moments of the relationship, indicating that you are both ready for living together and knowingly thinking about a possible marriage.
Useful tips for those who start a joint life
All stages of life under one roof youngThe couple in love should have a feeling of sincere respect for each other. It is important to remember that each of you has your own interests, certain desires, personal freedom and character traits. Do not count on the fact that with the beginning of a joint life a young man will quickly rearrange and begin to live only by your interests. Before you expect such behavior from him and be offended, if this did not happen, ask yourself about your own readiness to forget about meetings with your friends, sitting in cafes after work and shopping for a weekend. Complicated? So why do you think that a guy is obliged to unquestioningly give up his interests, devoting his time and attention to you only one? So if you start to stage scenes every time you try to meet your friends, nothing good will come of living together. The young man either has to learn to lie to you, or silently act in his own way, causing your indignation and deliberately going into conflict. At some point in your life with a loved one, you can experience the feeling of being alone with yourself. At a time when you lived alone, these feelings did not visit you. Of course, you could have coffee before, enjoying the silence or your favorite movie, take a leisurely make-up before the mirror, wash it off, if you did not like it, and repeat the procedure again, lie down with the book and so on. That is, you had a lot of time for classes that involve a certain amount of loneliness. Therefore, do not deprive each other of the opportunity to enjoy peace and do personal things. It is also important to remember that living together is not a reason to forget about your own appearance. Do not wear old stretched things as home clothes, still watch your own appearance, otherwise you risk unpleasant surprise to the chosen one. A huge number of marriages are beginning to crumble precisely because the young women who became wives, suddenly become incomprehensibly transformed from graceful beauties into swollen ladies of indefinite age. I wonder how many men will be pleased with this prospect? Therefore, try to always look neat and presentable in the eyes of a loved one. And in conclusion it should be noted: if you decide to come with your young man, following the example of your girlfriends, or the relationship with him began to deteriorate and you try to fix something in this way, then this is obviously a bad idea. To the good such decision hardly will result. You should not hurry with cohabitation and if you just got tired of sharing living space with relatives or a young man who is not very nice to you, there is a nice apartment. Nothing good will come of it either. We advise you to read: