In our time, many married men, dating a novelwith a woman on the side, do not hide that they have a family. It's easier for them, because you have to deceive only your wife. A lover in the course, so dodge and think out why he did not call and did not come, do not need. However, there are also such zhenatiki who carefully hide their marriage, being sure that the woman, after learning the truth, will simply point to the door. Such types know a lot of tricks that help to carefully hide the true state of affairs for a long time. I must say that we often fall for their bait and fall in love. And then, after discovering that the beloved has a wife and children, we bite our elbows and weep in tears. How can this be avoided? How to determine if a married man loves you, or is he exactly single?
External signs of a married man
How to identify a married man at first sight? It's actually quite difficult. In general, an unfree representative of the stronger sex can easily be seen through the engagement ring. But in fact these cunning people before acquaintance with the lady remove it! Therefore, we need to carefully look at the ring finger on the right hand of a new acquaintance. Traces of the ring on it should show through. But even if they are not observed, it still does not say anything. Some married men do not wear engagement rings at all. And dissatisfied spouses this fact is explained by the fact that the ring-de interferes with work, presses, clings and causes a lot of inconvenience. Does not give any guarantee that the man is free, and the absence of a stamp in the passport. He can live with a woman in a civil marriage. Someone may object that, supposedly, a civil marriage does not count. It's like just meeting. It is considered, still as it is considered! People live under the same roof, jointly solve some problems, equip the house, have a common budget and so on. So it's not the same thing to live in a civil marriage and just meet. Do not be deluded, and if a man proposes on the first date to show his passport with the confirmation that he is single. Why would he hurry so much? Perhaps, there is simply no time for long courtship, and the pseudo-boy is afraid that he will be given a call by his wife or her appearance? Therefore, he forces the events, wishing to enter the relationship with the woman as far as possible. By the way, about phone calls. That's a good way to expose a married man! If he turns off the phone during a meeting or goes out somewhere, when he is called, he should be alerted. Disconnects, most likely, because he is afraid of calling his half. And it comes out for the same reason. I forgot to turn it off, she called! What remains to be done? Exit somewhere and inspiringly lie, that at work, it's urgent order, the car falls off the wheel and in general it costs in a multikilometer traffic jam. And the liar will tell us that the chief, the uncle from Rostov, his close friend, the one whose wife left, called. And he, they say, did not want to bother with boring conversations. In principle, if you are attentive and not naive, a liar-wife can always be revealed. Then suddenly he runs away after the call, saying that a distant relative has suddenly arrived, then suddenly gets on business trips, he is sick and can not come on a date, he does not pick up the phone ... No, that's how a bachelor can behave, of course. And relatives fall like snow on their heads, and business trips are frequent, and the phone is in the back room. But if, trying to explain why this always happens, the man starts to get confused, calling the uncle Fedey's relative, then Aunt Nina, and can not remember where he was sent from work a month ago - this is suggestive. In general, a mobile phone willingly betrays its master. It is enough to call a man late at night or to send him a message. If he does not answer either the call or the SMS, then the test for his veracity has not passed. It is unlikely that a busy and business person at night will turn off the phone. However, maybe he is very sound asleep and hears nothing. Then we act differently. Let's try to stay alone with a traitor - a phone, call it from your mobile phone and see how our number will be displayed. Is this our name or affectionate nickname? Everything is fine. Beloved is really free. This is "Ivan Petrovich", "Serega-auto mechanic" or "Glafira Stepanovna. Job"? Without options. He is a family man. Of course, there are women who are satisfied with such a two-syllable situation. What's the difference, married gentleman, not married, when you get from him all that is required! However, normal ladies usually avoid contact with non-free men. I really do not want to make trouble for myself. Yes, and the prospect of getting the status of the breaker is not encouraging. How can you be sure that we are not driven by the nose, if we belong to the category of such ladies? In order not to be fooled, you can go on provocative actions. 
Provocations that help to understand whether a man is married or not
How to determine whether a married man or not? The easiest way is to invite him to visit. If he tushuetsya, referring to a sick or a strict mother, then for repairs, then for a mess, and for anything does not agree to show his home - a matter of rubbish. Most likely, the house is inhabited by his pretty young and pretty wife and a couple of kids. A free man will gladly invite a woman to her apartment. Let there even repair, and a mess. Well, except that the Chevalier really has a harsh mother, capable for a long time to spoil the mood of any girl. I must say that this method is also not perfect. A man can rent an apartment for a while, send his wife and children to the country house and so on. More reliable evidence that he is married is the reluctance to introduce the girl to his friends and spend time with her in large companies. There is a great likelihood that he is afraid of rumors that buddies will begin to dissolve, and a sudden meeting with someone they know. Anyone who intends to build a serious relationship with a woman and is not afraid of questions and gossip will not behave that way. Well, finally, to check whether a man is married or not, you can use a gift of an intimate nature. A very good option - give panties. Married men, as a rule, underwear, and clothes, the spouse acquires. And if the husband appears in what she did not buy, the woman will have a natural question - why would this suddenly have aroused an interest in independent shopping and choosing panties? Therefore, the boyfriend for sure such a gift home will not suffer. And hardly ever wear. You can give not only underwear, but also a purse or key chain with an inscription like "Beloved from ..." or "I will love you forever!". Will it be open to carry with you always? Means, the gentleman belongs only to us. If both the keychain and the purse disappear without a trace, chances are great that he threw the gift or hid it in a secluded place so that his wife did not see him. In general, if the behavior of a man causes suspicion, it's hardly worth it to fool yourself and look for an explanation. It is not necessary to invent a bunch of versions that justify the silence of the phone, eternal absence, unwillingness to invite to your home and the absence on it of the presented cowards. It is necessary to muster courage and one day to ask in the forehead, a fan is married or not. Yes, the answer can be very frustrating. But, in any case, we will not be deceived and stop making plans that are not destined to be realized. We advise you to read:
