If you don't know what to do, trustintuition. At least, you will have something to blame. (Yu. Tatarkin) Women's intuition is the talk of the town. Everyone talks about it, knows how to use it and claims to be wise, sensitive women. But what should you do if you have very little of this intuition? What if most of your assumptions are wrong, and the first impressions you form about people are completely wrong? Do you really lack some important gene responsible for intuition and insight? Of course not - intuition is available to everyone. And if you are not able to guess the right numbers on a lottery ticket or answer questions in the "Battle of Psychics" before the participants - this does not mean anything. Your creative intuition sits somewhere deep inside you, and you just need to understand how to develop intuition in yourself to the desired limit.
Is it necessary to be baptized when "it seems"?
Sometimes we ourselves don’t notice the glimmersyour own intuition. What seems to us like guesses and coincidences may turn out to be exactly what we are looking for. Most often, such feelings manifest themselves in the area of life where we feel most confident in ourselves. Sometimes it is work, and sometimes just home life. For example, you work as a secretary, and your boss gave you an assignment. Having completed it, you feel that something is missing - for example, an additional document or a call to a client. Trusting your intuition, you quickly, without thinking, perform the necessary actions - and you turn out to be right. Of course, we can say that this is not intuition, but professionalism. But you felt without anyone's prompting that the task was not given accurately. You literally predicted to yourself the likelihood of problems in the event of the absence of other important papers. And no matter how professional you are, your insight served as a manifestation of intuition, and not a developed system of working rules. Or another example. You are keen on sewing and decide to make a new thing for your daughter. Having got a magazine with the necessary pattern, for some reason you decide to change the pattern and cut your fabric in a different place. As a result, all the seams come together, and the next month the magazine apologizes for the mistake in the pattern. What would a woman answer if asked about the reason for her behavior? She would shrug her shoulders and say: it seemed to her, it will be better this way. She simply believed herself, her feelings, and not the pattern on the magazine page. It seemed... We all sometimes seem to see something, but, accustomed to acting in strict accordance with logic, we do not pay attention to the sixth sense in ourselves and pass by wonderful opportunities. After all, all our presentiments and guesses are not mysticism. This is just how our subconscious works, ahead of thought processes. What we haven't yet thought of is already lying on the surface of our intuition, directing the decision in the right direction. Therefore, you should never ignore your intuition and not trust yourself and your feelings.
How do you know that intuition still exists?
In fact, intuition is most often manifestedin stressful and critical situations, when the question of life and death is on the line and you need to make a decision quickly. But if by this fateful moment (pah-pah) you have not managed to develop or realize your extraordinary qualities, then the desired moment of insight may not come. Or be fatally wrong. So how can you determine whether you have the beginnings of this magical feeling? Or is it worth thinking about how to develop your intuition from scratch? Try to answer a few questions:
Yes to all 6 questions? You are simply a sorceress!Although, seriously, several positive answers already speak of your ability to think intuitively, and in relation to you, a positive answer can be given to the question of whether it is possible to develop intuition. It is not at all necessary to strive to anticipate absolutely everything (unless you are planning a career as a witch or fortune teller). It is enough to use such abilities for everyday life and making important decisions.
O ladies! You can not be fooled ...
As is known, the fair half has been around since ancient timeswas famous for its intuition. It is no surprise that it is harder to deceive a woman than a man. For example, a husband comes home late and says that he was held up at work. A smart woman will instantly see through a lie based on his behavior, the slightest gestures and glances. Do you think she took a special course in studying facial expressions and gestures? Hardly. After all, she does it intuitively. Since primitive times, the ability to recognize lies, danger, and signs of anxiety has been strengthened in the weaker sex. This happened because the spheres of activity of women and men were different. Ladies were focused on gathering, caring for children and household chores. That is, they solved mainly creative problems. Men took up hunting, fighting and survival - for this they had to focus on analytics. So it turned out that for centuries women did without the need for honed logic and developed in themselves the part of the brain that is responsible for intuition. That is why it is not surprising that it is not easy for even a candidate of science to fool a woman: it is enough to look at his darting eyes to understand: something is wrong! You will not believe it, but scientists even counted the number of key points in the brain of both sexes responsible for deciphering gestures, words, changes in voice. Well, women have from 14 to 16 of them, and men have only 4 to 7 points. Serves them right! Unfortunately, a lot has changed in our world. There are too many infantile men with a complete lack of logic and many strong women, extremely self-confident and taking on the responsibilities of men. Therefore, everything is more difficult for the beautiful half of humanity with intuition, it is replaced by clear thinking and impeccable logic. In general, no one condemns this, sometimes you just want to foresee or feel something (at worst, guess!) Right?
Storm the development of intuition!
But if there is no intuition, then something is needed urgently.to do! You can't live forever with your eyes closed, not understanding what's going on around you. After all, if you were lucky enough to be born a woman, you should use this luck to the fullest! There are several interesting ways to develop this quality in yourself on your own. All you need is desire, creativity and curiosity. So, have you decided to develop your intuition? Then go ahead!
- As you know, for the logical thinking of womencorresponds to the right hemisphere of the brain (if you are left-handed, then the left one). And there is one interesting way to develop your intuition, using this particular feature. Try to do ordinary things not with the right hand, as you are accustomed to, namely with the left. Stir the soup with your left hand, draw, write, sew, iron the cat. Anything. In this case, your smart head will switch from the usual analysis of what is happening to a subconscious search for causes and effects. After a few days of such training, you will feel that you start thinking differently and that you often notice previously unavailable things to you.
- Try to live a little with tightly knottedeyes or ears. Do not be scared, no one calls you to a week of blindness or deafness, just start with a few minutes a day and bring the time to several hours. Victims demand not only beauty, but also other useful things for life. In general, the temporary restriction of the organism is the most operational principle of the development of intuition in man. You have probably been surprised many times, watching how absolutely blind people bypass obstacles in unfamiliar places? Without a guide and a dog, they intuitively feel the walls, thresholds, furniture. Having lost one of the senses, they simply have to develop their intuition - because this becomes vital for them. Remember the famous prophetess Wang - she was blind. Try and you go around blindfolded. Over time, you will necessarily feel the changes in yourself.
- Practice on the technique of Nikolai Denisov. Prepare for this several sheets of paper of different colors, on each of which are drawn geometric figures, letters, numbers. Carefully study each of them, taking turns in their hands. After close your eyes, take any leaf and try to feel the color and the image. Do not worry if it does not work out right away: without effort, you will never get your intuition! If you are persistent, then in a couple of weeks you will succeed.
- Try watching TV offsound. This is not only useful, but also very exciting. Looking at the expressions on the faces of the announcers, it's so fun to guess the news they've told! Here you will need all knowledge about gestures and facial expressions, inherent in you by nature.
- If you receive a letter, do not rush to openthe envelope; try to imagine what is written there. It is desirable that the letter was not from the pension fund or tax, in these cases even the cat is predicting the contents.
- In general, in many spiritual schools intuitiondevelops with the vow of silence. After all, the more you talk with your tongue, the less time remains for serious reflection, development and understanding of the essence of things. So, think more with your head and talk less. Develop intuition, but at the same time you will be a smart woman.
Don't be afraid that you don't have a natural instinct, it isis present in each of us from birth. In general, all children have a very developed intuition, because it is not for nothing that they say that “the truth speaks from the mouth of a babe.” And if you once had it, then developing it is a matter of time and effort. Do not stop in your desire to receive this gift, improve your life and personal relationships. After all, as Mikhail Mamchich said, “intuition is a guide dog in the darkness of life.” Own it, use it and be happy! We recommend reading: