Women are known to be great loverscompliments. And how do men feel about beautiful compliments? Almost the same. Men expect words of admiration and approval from others no less than women, because they are the same people. However, compliments to men have a slightly different meaning. Some of them men simply do not notice, some bring them into indescribable delight, and some cool and unusual compliments can bring elements of animation and celebration to your life together. Do you want to inspire your man to feats? Then this article is for you!
How to make a compliment to a man correctly and how can they not be spoken?
For women, a compliment represents a certaina dose of joyful emotions, from which she begins to feel much better. Compliments orient men, prompting them to take a certain kind of action. If a compliment is said by an unfamiliar woman, a man begins to look at her more closely, and if said to his beloved - he melts and begins to please her. What kind of compliments do men like the most? Those that talk about some of his specific qualities and deeds. All compliments to a beloved man should be justified and specific - men do not perceive general and empty phrases or perceive them negatively. For example, phrases like "You are the best, smartest and most beautiful!" most often have no meaning for them, while the words "You made very beautiful and strong curtain rods!" can lift him to the skies and inspire him to new achievements. Compliments to men should be given softly, quietly, and sincerely, if you want to benefit from compliments to your beloved man. It is advisable to use the old and very powerful method of the carrot and stick. It is as follows: you need to praise a man if he does something good. But if something bad... Then you need to make him feel that it is better not to do this again. For example, your husband finally got around to nailing a picture to the wall, but hung it crookedly. In such a situation, you should never reprimand him! But you definitely need to praise him. It is enough to simply say the following words: “Oh, how great you nailed this picture! And exactly where I wanted to see it... Only from this angle it is a little lost. Let's lift the left corner a little!” Your husband, of course, will gladly correct the corner, and everything will return to normal. You definitely need to praise him when he tries to help in at least something. For example, when he carries bags from the store, it is enough to notice how strong he is and how beautifully the muscles play on his male arms, how he will blossom and feel like a real Atlas. And, quite likely, he will start going to the gym instead of lying on the couch with a bottle of beer. Compliments are especially appropriate during intimacy, because such a moment is the best of all the above. What to say in this case is a purely individual matter. Each woman chooses pleasant words, focusing on the character of her man. In general, all men are not indifferent even to quite innocent, even sometimes funny phrases. Here are examples of compliments for men that are very easy to make: "How do you do it?" and "Please advise me, a fool!"
Avoid mistakes
Some women prefer funny onescompliments. However, you need to be careful with this, because sometimes such praise will not only not be pleasant, but will also harm a man's pride. Funny compliments should be made sincerely, and then he, striving to hear new praise, will try to bring joy to his woman. In general, funny words are the prerogative of a beloved woman and no one else: for other people, your man should remain strong, powerful and serious. Statements like "Darling, you don't seem stupid to me - you're smart!" will be funny only from his beloved. He will not tolerate such compliments from others, because this requires a certain level of intimacy and trust in the relationship. And you should not forget that funny compliments should be made to a man one-on-one, otherwise he may be offended by you. Men like to look unsurpassed in something and help those they like. However, both types of compliments should be given in relation to the area in which he really knows and can do something. God forbid, a man understands that you are not telling the truth or exaggerating something - then a family scandal cannot be avoided! You cannot give men extremely beautiful and flattering compliments - they do not accept rude flattery and treat it very negatively. You cannot coo at men, calling them "kittens", "bunnies", "cuties", although many women think that these words are cool. Therefore, do not forget that every man is first and foremost a person of the stronger sex, and such "calf tenderness" does not allow them to feel like heroes and knights, and, therefore, only irritates. Compliments should be formulated precisely and clearly. Vague, funny and even strange words like "You have an original face" can bother him and make him think that he is badly shaved, his nose is too long, and so on. And what was meant to be a compliment will end up being an offensive statement. Compliments should be given in moderation. Once you start saying these words often, a man will stop perceiving compliments as a gift. As a result, even sincere praise said from the heart will go in one ear and out the other. Therefore, in order for a man to appreciate such words and take some action to hear them again, compliments should be given rarely, but accurately. And then they will become one of the most powerful means of influencing men. We recommend reading:
