And here he is, the prince on a white horse.I wonder if the prince knows that he is the Prince? Most likely, he does not even suspect. But you know that it is he, which means you need to convince him of this fact. And how can you do this? How to win a man? And here it is important to comprehend the "art of military action". After all, you are going to conquer? Which means you need to develop a strategy and tactics for conducting a battle. And although the psychology of a woman is such that she would rather be conquered than a conqueror, in modern realities it is the woman who has to conquer a man. Any war has a goal. What goal do you set for yourself? Do you want to spend the night with him? Do you want to become his lover? Or have you decided to marry him at all costs? The outcome of any battle is influenced by accompanying factors. What do you have? Does he like you, or have you not even met him yet? Does he already have a girlfriend or is he absolutely free? Is he a confirmed bachelor, or is he looking for his other half? So the outcome of the war depends not only on your abilities and appearance, but also on some nuances. Having answered all these questions, it will be much easier to win a man. However, there are also universal rules that will provide you with half the success. In any case, the strategy of your war is persuasion. You need to convince a man, firstly, that you are the one and only, and secondly, that it is he who is winning, not you. The tactics of warfare are nothing more than the art of female seduction. How to win your beloved man using universal rules? So, let's begin.
Appearance is the first thing a man looks at.
Yes, yes, exactly your appearance:Clothes, makeup and manners can make a first irresistible impression on a man. Everything else: wit, thriftiness, angelic character he will appreciate later. And first, your appearance will be assessed. And what kind of image should a woman have for a man to give it a positive assessment? Striving to look bright and sexy in the eyes of a man, many ladies go too far. As the smart science of psychology claims, ideas about female sexuality are different for men and women. War paint and too revealing clothes will certainly make an indelible impression on a man. But he will see in you a partner for a fun night at most. So how should you look to please the average man? Not bright. Men are afraid of bright women. Therefore, makeup in the style of North American Indians and clothes of flashy colors will immediately scare off the object of your desire. The same effect will be produced by too open necklines, microscopic skirts and pants - a second skin. Varnished or extravagantly colored hair, predator-like nails, and an abundance of jewelry: fingers covered in rings, wrists clad in bracelets, and a neck entwined with beads will not contribute to the best impression of you. You will look much more impressive in the eyes of a man in elegant clothes that fit your figure (but not tight), and he will like a woman in a dress more than a woman in trousers. Subtle but stylish makeup, well-groomed hair of a natural color (even if it is dyed), a neat manicure, and elegant jewelry in small quantities - this is what will make a man see a Woman in you. A woman, not a female. A man will not be tempted by your excessive looseness either. Obscene jokes, abrupt movements, loud laughter, and especially foul language - will not only repel any normal man, but will also make him give you a wide berth. However, if your chosen one is a brutal man or an incorrigible romantic, he may have his own ideas about female beauty. But we are talking about universal rules. And any man wants to see a feminine companion next to him. And not just feminine, but also moderately modest and moderately beautiful. So try to have everything in moderation - both modesty and beauty. Therefore, it is impossible to win a man without the appropriate appearance.
What sign to see you?
What sign should I give him to notice you?Here is what our smart science of psychology advises on this matter, which knows exactly how to win a man. You need to start a conversation with visual contact: a ten-second intent look straight into the eyes, eyes down, a smile. Psychologists say that this algorithm works without fail. If there is no response, then you need to start an innocent conversation: “What time is it? Do you know if rain is forecast for tomorrow?” Such a question will definitely be followed by an answer. And you listen, smile and do not forget to look into the eyes. And if you also look with admiration, slightly tilting your head to the side and nodding occasionally, then your object will feel that he is being admired, and men, as we know, are susceptible to flattery. Just do not overdo it with nodding, otherwise you will look like a Chinese bobblehead. And such a comical sight is unlikely to be able to conquer anyone. And try to glance at the man over your shoulder, half-turned. Psychology considers such a look to be alluring, sexy and mysterious. Isn't that a sign? Or cross your legs (just not like Sharon Stone did it), or casually and elegantly brush your hair away from your face. Or use the advice of the famous psychologist Alan Pease and discreetly (imperceptibly!) copy the movements of your interlocutor.
Excessive obsession is useless
This trick won't work when it comes to winning a man over.You can't be annoying, and even more so, intrusive. If you start constantly inviting him on dates, organizing "accidental" meetings, "making a mistake" with the phone number, and especially confessing your tender feelings to him, at best the object will start avoiding you. At worst - he will consider you mentally handicapped or mentally ill. Of course, sometimes this trick can be done. And it is even better to go on a business trip together if you are colleagues or get stuck in the elevator if you are neighbors. But in general, you should not run after him. Do not forget that he should be courting, not you. And no matter how strong your feelings are, do not forget about self-esteem. This quality is very valuable in all people.
Try to please his mother
His mother told him a lot of things when he was a child,Believe me, she still talks about it. And for many men (if not most), their mother remains an indisputable authority throughout their lives. And if this is the case with you, then getting his mother to like you is your chance for success. Of course, she doesn’t like you anymore, in advance: are there any women worthy of his adored son? And yet, try to use this trump card. At the first meeting, be polite and friendly, and at subsequent meetings, be accommodating. Support topics of interest to her in the conversation, agree with everything she says (even if it’s complete nonsense). Only, again, don’t overdo it, don’t let your mother feel the falsehood, and remember that she may turn out to be a very smart and insightful woman (you’re not the only one). In a word, the mask of a smart and excellent student who adores her son should not seem like a mask to a mother. It should look like a real face in any situation... What if she doesn’t even have to put on a mask? Who knows: maybe she'll really like you, and you'll like her. After all, it's her merit that your beloved is exactly like that (handsome, smart, unmarried). And you wouldn't fall in love with anyone else.
Try to please his friends
Men value not only their mother's opinion.The opinion of friends is also authoritative for them. Especially if these are single men. Therefore, if a friend suddenly found himself in the same company with you, do not try to compete with him under any circumstances. You are you, and a friend (and friends in general) are beyond competition. And even if your lover's friends only cause you negative emotions, try not to show these emotions. Again, the smart science of psychology claims that by becoming "one of the guys" in a bachelor company, you will greatly increase your chances of winning. And how to become such a guy? To do this, you do not need to turn into a masculine creature. But you also do not need to emphasize your femininity at every opportunity, throwing tantrums from strong language and obscene jokes. Even relationships, the ability to support conversations about fishing, football, sports and cars - this is what will help you become "one of the guys". And just a person worthy of respect. However, you should not completely forget that you are a woman. Don't let the male company completely ignore you as a lady. Don't let men abuse foul language and discuss juicy male secrets. If you can't do this, then accept the fact that in such company your man will spend time without you. Maybe it's for the best?
Become soft and fluffy
“But in reality I’m soft and fluffy!» Try to convince a man of exactly this. And try to actually become soft and fluffy. After all, if you want him to like you, you must match. Just match. Learn to sincerely share the interests of your chosen one. Give up bad habits if he is intolerant of them. Take an interest in his affairs. Be attentive and caring. Learn to cook well (remember how the path to a man's heart lies?). Treat his relatives and friends with respect. And be confident in yourself.
How to win a married man?
And finally, about married men in the role of the Prince.Of course, love is blind, you can fall in love with a married man. Of course, you can start military operations to conquer this candidate. However, not every tactic is applicable to conquering a married man. Yes, you can charm him and even make him fall in love with you. But this is not enough to conquer him. Yes, a married man has a mother and relatives. Yes, a married man has friends. But he will never introduce you to either relatives or friends. So you will not be able to strengthen your position in military operations to conquer a married man at their expense. All you can count on is the status of a mistress. Do you think that you can "beat off" a married man? Unlikely. For a married man, having a mistress is even prestigious, but he will not leave his wife for a priestess of love. A married man has a peculiar concept of love and fidelity. Having a mistress with a beautiful and smart wife is in the order of things. It is even convenient. And if you start pestering a married man with talk of divorce, he will simply break up with you. And do not believe the stories of a married man about his wife's illnesses, about the fact that he does not sleep with her, about the fact that their relationship has come to naught. A married man has no other choice - after all, he must somehow hold you back, right? So he writes, and you, with ears perked up, believe and hope for the best and for more. However, if you choose a married man exclusively for bed pleasures, then go ahead and conquer him. If you want to conquer a married man just for the sport of it, then you can also try your charms. If you really love a married man, then put up with the position of a mistress and just love him without claims to more. Although, the position of a mistress is very unstable, and the man will belong to you only partially. Do you need it?
Cheat sheet: how to win a man and keep him
If you were in a modern schoolAmazons, and then took an exam on tactics and strategy of warfare, then you, like any student, would need a cheat sheet. And for the answer to the question "how to win a man" it would look something like this:
- In the beginning of acquaintance, more silent, let the man speak out.
- Let him decide that he finally finds an ideal, and will strive to spend more time with you.
- A man must be a conqueror. But do not overdo it, otherwise he can decide that you do not like him.
- "With a nice paradise and a hut" - it's not about you. Just let him understand this - know your own worth!
- Learn to cook, because it is known that "the way to the heart of a man lies through the stomach."
- Try to get acquainted with all his friends and relatives, this will complicate the possible parting.
- And do not leave him alone for long. Three days is already too much.
- Remember that it is very important for men to continue the race, no matter how much they deny it.
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