Love is something that worries humanity already onfor many centuries. In our life it is almost the most important. Over the centuries, people fell in love, suffered, became happy or unhappy, married unions and parted ... Love so captivates people that they lose their heads and are ready to give up everything for her sake. From the great seemingly love begin to do stupid things, break a career, drop a family, squander money, commit suicide. Particularly concerned about all the love in his youth. Each girl, once met her prince, loses sleep and sleep, dreaming, hoping and yearning. And when the "prince" does not pay attention to her, in despair asks someone: "What if I fell in love with a guy?" They scold her, discourage her, advise something. And the girl continues to suffer, thinking that this is love for life. How to be, really? Well, well, if everything goes through a couple of months. And if indeed everything is very serious, then what to do? First, let's try to understand what this feeling really is and what is love and true love.
How to distinguish love from love
Almost everyone sooner or laterfalls in love, testing for the object of falling in love with tender romantic feelings. We think about it day and night, we dream about how we will meet, how we will touch ... All people want to be loved and to love. This need is inherent in us by nature itself. And like we love, and even mutually, and everything is so good. But then the delight of communicating with a partner suddenly evaporates somewhere. With him, for some reason it becomes boring, and what earlier in this person seemed attractive, now repels and irritates. What's the matter? Yes, everything is quite simple. The fact is that we have mixed the hobby with love. And it's good, if we did not manage to get married. Then parting will not be so painful. And if we had time, and even got children, and after a joint life turned into hell, it's already a disaster. Therefore, it is desirable to learn to distinguish a simple hobby from true love. Actually, the difference between them is not so easy to notice. And the hobby and love accompany the desire to see your chosen one as often as possible. And in that, and in another case, thoughts are constantly occupied by them and fantasies about the development of relations. And just lovers, and true lovers dream of reciprocity. Both those, and others experience uplift and excitement in the presence of the object of their interest. Both do not know what to do when they are not around. So how do you recognize love and distinguish it from superficial love or simple sexual attraction? In order to understand whether or not love has really overtaken, or if you experience some other passing feelings, you need to calm down the emotions and soberly assess the situation. This will require an honest and reasonable answer to several questions.
I must say that the answer to all these questions is notcan give a full assessment of the feelings experienced to the guy. Often the development of deep relationships begins with a passion, which then turns into true love. In our case, we are mainly talking about the fact that one should not worry too much, if not the certainty that he is the one without which further life is unthinkable. Perhaps, it's just worth looking around, because there are so many interesting guys nearby! Surely, some of them like you. It is worth smiling such a cute, and all the suffering as a hand will remove. I do not want? Well, then we'll think what to do next.
How to act if you fall in love with a guy
If you fell in love with a guy seriously, and he has not yetreciprocated, do not despair and weep, exclaiming tragically: "Oh, he does not love me!". In this state it is necessary not to shed tears, but something to do. It is likely the young man is simply not tuned to any feelings, because you are younger or not very familiar with it. Maybe that's why he behaves this way, that he considers you a girl from another circle. Or he is not yet ready to fall in love. All this, in principle, is fixable, if you find the right behavior and decide what and how to do. Before you look for him, you need to put yourself in order. Girls with a suffering face and sad eyes almost no one likes. Therefore, I must say to myself: "It's hard for me right now, but joy awaits!" And confidently go to this joy. Let your eyes flare up, your back straighten, there will be an easy gait. Learn to smile, joke and communicate with everyone friendly and optimistic. Nothing like the guys in girls like a benevolent cheerful sociability and wit. Girls with such positive energy attract a lot of fans. And our young man, too, certainly will not remain so indifferent to this sparkling young lady. But for this you need to be present in his circle of communication as often as possible. So, one should learn as much as possible about his hobbies and try to divide them. Does a young man like sports? We go to classes in the same gym. He has a dog? We start a dog. Is the guy always stuck in the pool or fitness club? We record in the same pool and club. In a word, we try to do everything to meet with him often. And, on occasion, we start a conversation about the guy's favorite business, trying to make him understand that we also have something in this. After all, it's enough for a man and a woman to talk, and some kind of relationship is already going on. In the future, it remains only to warm up the interest of his beloved. For this you need to constantly improve, change something in yourself, learn something, not forgetting to watch your own appearance. Unwell, carelessly dressed girls can become friends, friends, but not loved. Therefore, we must always look neat and attractive and try to be as charming as possible. Then the guy will see in you a woman, not an asexual being. If this happens, he will begin to feel sympathy. This will be the first step towards the development of true feelings. Then you just have to pretend that you have not yet chosen whom to fall in love with. The young man will certainly be moved by the desire to be elected. The goal is achieved. Let now he thinks about what to do in order to achieve your love. We advise you to read: