And here he is, the prince on a white horse. I wonder if the prince knows that he is the Prince? Rather, he does not even guess. But you know that it's him, and that means you need to convince him of this fact. And how to do it? How to win a man? And here it is important to understand the "art of military operations". Are you going to conquer? So you need to develop a strategy and tactics of combat. And although the woman's psychology is such that it is more pleasant for her to be conquered than a conqueror, in modern realities it is the woman who must conquer a man. Every war has a purpose. What is your goal in front of you? Do you want to spend the night with him? Do you want to become his mistress? Or have they decided to marry him at any price? The outcome of any battle is influenced by attendant factors. What do you have in stock? Does he sympathize with you, or do not you even know him? Does he already have a girlfriend or is he completely free? Is he a convinced bachelor or is he looking for his other half? So the outcome of the war depends not only on your abilities and external data, but also on some nuances. Having decided on the answers to all these questions, it will be much easier to win a man. However, there are universal rules that will ensure half your success. In any case, the strategy of your war is persuasion. You need to convince a man, first, that you are the one and only, and secondly, in what he conquers, and not you. The tactics of fighting are nothing more than the art of female seduction. How to win a beloved man by applying universal rules? So, let's begin.
Appearance is the first thing a man looks at.
Yes, yes, it is your appearance: The clothes, make-up and manners are capable to render the first irresistible impression on the man. Everything else: wit, economic, angelic character, he will later appreciate. And to begin with, your appearance will be assessed. And what kind of image should a woman have for a man to give him a positive assessment? Striving to look bright and sexy in the eyes of a man, many ladies go too far. According to the clever science of psychology, the concepts of women's sexuality in men and women are different. Combat coloring and too frank clothes, of course, will make an indelible impression on the man. But he will see in you the maximum partner for a merry night. So how do you look to like an average man? Not brightly. Vivid women are afraid of men. Therefore, make-up in the style of North American Indians and clothing screaming colors will immediately scare away the object of your lust. The same effect will produce too open neckline, microscopic length skirts and panties - the second skin. Not a better idea of you will contribute and adjusted hair or their extravagant color, nails like a predator, as well as an abundance of jewelry: ring-stained fingers, bracelets wrapped in wrists and beaded neck. Where it is more effective in the eyes of a man, you will look in elegant clothes according to the figure (but not in the slinky), and the woman in the dress will like him more than the woman in trousers. Low-key, but stylish make-up, well-groomed hair of natural color (even at the expense of paint), neat manicure, elegant ornaments in a small amount - that's what will make a man see a Woman in you. It is the woman, not the female. Do not be tempted by the man and your excessive looseness. Scabrous jokes, sharpness in movements, loud laughter, and the more so, profanity - will not only alienate any normal man, but will also force you to bypass you for a kilometer. However, if your chosen one is a brutal muzhik or an incorrigible romantic, he may have his own ideas about female beauty. But we are talking about universal rules. And any man wants to see next to a woman's companion. And, not just feminine, but also moderately modest, and moderately beautiful. So try to have everything you have in moderation - and modesty and beauty. Therefore, it is impossible to win a man without an appropriate appearance.
What sign to see you?
What sign to see you? That's what our intelligent science of psychology advises on this matter, which knows exactly how to win a man. You need to start communication with visual contact: ten-second gaze directly into the eyes, eyes dale, smile. Psychologists say that this algorithm works flawlessly. If there is no response, then you need to tie an innocent conversation: "What time is it? Do not you know, they did not promise rain tomorrow? " For such a question there will necessarily be an answer. And you listen, smile and do not forget to look into your eyes. And if you still look with admiration, slightly bending the head on your side and occasionally nodding, then your object will feel that they are admired, and men, as you know, are averse to flattery. Just do not overdo it with a nod, otherwise you will look like a Chinese idiot. And such comical sight is unlikely to conquer anyone. And try to throw a look at the man over his shoulder, half a turn. Psychology considers such a look alluring, sexual and mysterious. Is not it a sign? Or throw your foot on the leg (not the way Sharon Stone did it), or casually and elegantly throw the hair off your face. Or use the advice of the famous psychologist Alan Pisa and quietly (imperceptibly!) Copy the movements of the interlocutor.
Excessive obsession is useless
In the conquest of a man, this trick will not work. You can not be annoying, much less intrusive. If you start to constantly invite him to visit, organize "accidental" meetings, "make mistakes" with the phone number, and even more admit to him in tender feelings, at best the object will start to avoid you. At worst, he thinks he is mentally defective or mentally unhealthy. Of course, sometimes this trick can be done. And it's even better to go on a business trip together if you are a colleague or get stuck in an elevator if you are neighbors. But do not run after him at all. Do not forget that he must take care of, and not you. And no matter how strong your feelings are, do not forget about your self-esteem. This quality is very valuable in all people.
Try to please his mother
His mother told me a lot in childhood and,believe me, continues to say so far. And for many men (if not for the majority), the mother remains an indisputable authority throughout her life. And if in your case this is the case, then please his mother - your chance at success. Of course, she does not like you, in advance: unless there are women worthy of his adored little son. And still try to use this trump card. At the first meeting, be polite and friendly, with the subsequent - even complaisant. Keep in conversation topics that are interesting to her, agree with everything, whatever she says (even if it's a frank delusion). Only, again, do not overdo it, do not let mom feel false and remember that she can turn out to be a very clever and shrewd woman (you're not the only one). In short, the mask of the clever and excellent pupil, who adores her son, for her mother should not seem like a mask. It should look like a real person in any situation ... And what if you do not have to wear a mask? What the hell is not joking: maybe you really like her, and she - to you. Still, her credit is, your lover is just that (beautiful, smart, unmarried), too. And in another you would not be in love.
Try to please his friends
Men value not only their mother's opinion. The opinion of friends for them is also authoritative. Especially if they are male bachelors. Therefore, if a friend happened to be with you in the same company, in no case try to compete with him. You are you, and a friend (and generally friends) is beyond competition. And even if your lover's friends cause you only negative emotions, try not to show these emotions. Again, the clever science of psychology, argues that by becoming "your boyfriend" in a bachelor company, you multiply your chances of winning. And how to become such a guy? For this you do not need to turn into a man-like creature. But also to emphasize at every instance their femininity, rolling up hysterics from strong words and cunning jokes, is also not necessary. Equal relations, the ability to support conversations about fishing, football, sports and cars - that's what will help you become "your boyfriend." And just a man worthy of respect. However, it is not worth completely forgetting that you are a woman. Do not let the men's company completely ignore you as a lady. Do not let men abuse profanity and discuss savory men's secrets. If you can not do it, then reconcile yourself to the fact that in such a company your man will spend time without you. Maybe it's for the better?
Become soft and fluffy
"But in fact, I'm soft and fluffy!"Try to convince a man of this. And try to actually become soft and fluffy. After all, if you want to like him, you must comply. Just fit. Learn to sincerely share the interests of your chosen one. Refuse bad habits if he treats them intolerantly. Be interested in his affairs. Be considerate and caring. Learn how to cook well (remember, how does the way to the heart of a man go?). Treat respectfully his relatives and friends. And be sure of yourself.
How to win a married man?
And, finally, about the zhenatiki as Prince. Of course, love is evil, you will fall in love with a married man. Undoubtedly, it is also possible to start hostilities by winning this candidate. However, to conquer a married man, not every tactic is applicable. Yes, you can charm him and even fall in love with yourself. But to win this is not enough. Yes, a married man has a mother and relatives. Yes, a married man has friends. But he will never acquaint you with relatives or friends. So at their expense, you will not be able to consolidate your positions in combat operations to win a married man. All that you can count on is the status of a lover. Do you think that you can "beat off" the wife? Hardly. For a married man to have a mistress even prestigious, but he will not give up his wife for the sake of the priestess of love. A married man in general has a peculiar concept of love and loyalty. To have a mistress with a beautiful and clever wife - in the order of things. It's even convenient. And if you start getting married married talk about divorce, he will simply part with you. And do not believe the stories of a married man about his wife's illnesses, that he does not sleep with her, that their relationship has come to naught. A married man has no other choice, because he must somehow hold you back? So he is engaged in writing, and you, having hung up your ears, believe and hope for the best and for more. However, if a married man you choose only for bed pleasures, then, the flag in your hands, and forward - conquer. If you want to win a married man only from a sporting interest, then you can also try your charms. If a married man you still really love, then reconcile yourself with the position of a mistress and just love him without claiming more. Although, the position of the mistress is very fragile, and to belong to you the man will be only in part. Do you want it?
Cheat sheet: how to win a man and keep him
If you were studying in a school of modern Amazons,and then passed the exam on tactics and strategy of warfare, then you, like any student, would need a cheat sheet. And to answer the ticket "how to win a man" it would look something like this:
- In the beginning of acquaintance, more silent, let the man speak out.
- Let him decide that he finally finds an ideal, and will strive to spend more time with you.
- A man must be a conqueror. But do not overdo it, otherwise he can decide that you do not like him.
- "With a nice paradise and a hut" - it's not about you. Just let him understand this - know your own worth!
- Learn to cook, because it is known that "the way to the heart of a man lies through the stomach."
- Try to get acquainted with all his friends and relatives, this will complicate the possible parting.
- And do not leave him alone for long. Three days is already too much.
- Remember that it is very important for men to continue the race, no matter how much they deny it.
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