Often, psychologists' clients are ordinary peoplepeople. Who have a need to understand themselves, to grow their personality, to embellish their gray everyday life. Most of the problems have a social origin - divorces, separations, relationships with lovers, gluttony, dismissal, etc. Many postpone the firstover the course of weeks or even months.We are afraid that we will be forced to say what we feel bad about now, what hurts us. However, if you want to get a positive result from your sessions, you do not need to plan the course of the conversation with the psychologist. The more spontaneous the questions are for you, the more the psychologist will be able to help you. During the first conversation with the psychologist, you establish contact, because the better your contact, the better the understanding. Each specialist has an individual method of establishing contact. Usually, the consultation is held tete a tete (one on one). There is an acquaintance, placement of tasks, discussion of methods. After the end, the psychologist expresses his opinion regarding his problem and asks questions. If you are a strong person, and you are confident that you will be able to independently solve your problem with the support of psychological books, the consultation can be one-time. After several sessions, ask yourself questions - am I sincere with the psychologist, am I telling everything, is the doctor pushing me away? If you have doubts about at least one of these questions, we advise you to change the psychologist. A psychologist can give experience in relationships. Someone is afraid to confess their love, someone hides their fear, a third one hides their anger. A professional psychologist is ready to perceive any of your negative emotions directed towards him. Experimenting with therapeutic mutual understanding, you get a chance to experience something you have never had before.