Shakespeare stated:"Work that we enjoy cures grief." "If you choose your work wisely and put your whole soul into it, happiness will find you itself," Ushinsky shared his opinion. It's hard to disagree that their words are true. How many people feel unhappy just because they have to do something they don't like. And we spend most of our lives at work! But few people think about finding a new job. Why tempt fate if this (even unloved) job brings a stable salary every month? Even if you are looking, why are you looking for a new job in the first place? As a rule, because of the low salary. That is, the fundamental impulse to search is money, not your favorite thing. Doing what you like is not for today's economic realities, many are convinced. And aphorisms about your favorite thing are only good for writing on magnets that are attached to the refrigerator. Meanwhile, recent sociological studies have shown that only twenty-five percent of Russians are satisfied (note, not love, merely satisfied!) with their work. And, what is especially sad, more than sixty-four percent of workers under twenty-five are dissatisfied with their work. This is simply terrible! And what about you? Specifically, you, reading these lines. Are you dissatisfied with your work? Or are you satisfied, but don’t love it? Do you feel trapped in some kind of trap, from which you find it impossible to get out until the economic situation changes? If so, we would like to invite you to reflect, in order to change your point of view a little.
If the work does not like
Just think about it:You spend eight to ten hours a day at work. That’s more than half of your waking hours. And if you don’t like your job, you’re wasting most of your day in a state of unhappiness. What do you do with the rest of your day? Maybe you do something exciting, something you love? Doubtful! It’s more than likely that you spend the rest of your time commuting, shopping, cooking, washing, cleaning, raising children, taking care of your husband. At best, sit for an hour in front of the TV or computer. Agree - if you think about it, it becomes simply scary. We spin like squirrels in a wheel, not getting satisfaction from what we do. And life does not stand still, time is running out! Is it worth wasting your life on something that disgusts you? We want to help you change your thinking. Of course, it’s easier said than done, but we will try.
Very important questions!
If you ask yourself the right questions, you candiscover what is truly important to you. What you are not sorry to spend the bulk of your time for. Why you started looking for a new job or will start looking tomorrow. We are talking about choosing based on your main interests and aspirations. You cannot change absolutely everything in your life, but you can make enough changes to create a full life with the work you love. You need to create complete clarity in the criteria of your choice, and then you will have a feeling of complete control over your own destiny. Take a pencil and paper, and answer the questions listed below. These questions will help you make a choice:
What to do next?
Here are some ways you can use the information in your answers to get in the mood for finding the job you love:
- Analyze all your requirements and desires,which are contained in the answers. Are they absolutely not subject to discussion, or can you still find room for maneuver? Think about how they will affect the possible change in your career.
- In your answers, the circle of your interests appears. How could you apply them to change your career? What should be done for this?
- Think about how real your requests are,how realistic it is to translate your dreams into reality and how you can use them to find a job that can make you happy. For example, are you ready to live more sparingly, or to sell something valuable to get an education? Are you ready to make some sacrifices, then to have the opportunity to spend most of the day with pleasure at work for many years?
- Talk to the person whose opinion matters to you, and discuss with him your ideas and their possible consequences, as well as the actions necessary to find a new job.
In any case, it should become clear to you whypeople are looking for a new job if their previous activity did not bring them satisfaction. Open the door to a new life for yourself by believing that you can and should look for a favorite job even in our unstable economy! We recommend reading: