Shakespeare said: "Labor, which is pleasant to us, heals sorrow." "If you successfully choose work and put your whole soul into it, then happiness will find you," Ushinsky shared his opinion. It's hard not to agree that there is truth in their words. How many people feel unhappy only because they have to deal with unloved things. But at work we spend most of our lives! But few people think about finding a new job. Why test fate, if on this (albeit unloved) work every month there is a stable salary? Even if you are in search, why are you looking for a new job first? As a rule, because of low wages. That is, the main impetus to search is money, and not a favorite thing. Do what you like - not for the economic realities of today, many are convinced. And aphorisms about a favorite business are only suitable to write them on magnets, which are attached to the refrigerator. Meanwhile, recent sociological studies have revealed that only twenty-five percent of Russians are satisfied (note, do not like, but are only satisfied!) With their work. And, most notably, more than sixty-four percent of workers under the age of twenty-five are dissatisfied with their work. That's just terrible! And how are you? That's specifically you, reading these lines. Are you unhappy with your work? Or satisfied, but do not like? Do you feel yourself in a trap, you can not get out of which until the economic situation changes? If this is so, then we want to invite you to meditate to change your point of view a little.
If the work does not like
Just think: you spend eight to ten hours a day at work. This is more than half the time of wakefulness. And if you do not like your work, then you spend most of the day on a state of misfortune. What do you do with the rest of the day? Perhaps, you are doing something exciting, favorite? It is doubtful! More than likely, you spend the remaining time on the road, shopping, cooking, washing, cleaning, raising children, caring for your husband. At best, sit an hour in front of the TV or near the computer. Agree - if you think about it, it becomes simply scary. We spin like squirrels in a wheel, not getting satisfaction from what we do. But life does not stand still, time is running out! Is it worth it to waste your life on something that is disgusting? We want to help you change your thinking. Of course, it is easier to say than to actually do, but we will try.
Very important questions!
If you ask yourself the right questions, you candiscover for yourself what is really important to you. The thing for which it is not a pity to spend the bulk of your time. Why you started to look for a new job or start looking tomorrow. We are talking about a choice based on your main interests and aspirations. You can not change everything in your life, but you can make enough changes to create a full life with the performance of your favorite work. You need to create complete clarity in the criteria for your choice, and then you will have a feeling of complete control over your own destiny. Take a pencil and paper, and answer the following questions. These questions will help you decide the choice:
What to do next?
Here are a few ways how you can use the information that is contained in your answers to tune in to find your favorite work:
- Analyze all your requirements and desires,which are contained in the answers. Are they absolutely not subject to discussion, or can you still find room for maneuver? Think about how they will affect the possible change in your career.
- In your answers, the circle of your interests appears. How could you apply them to change your career? What should be done for this?
- Think about how real your requests are,how realistic it is to translate your dreams into reality and how you can use them to find a job that can make you happy. For example, are you ready to live more sparingly, or to sell something valuable to get an education? Are you ready to make some sacrifices, then to have the opportunity to spend most of the day with pleasure at work for many years?
- Talk to the person whose opinion matters to you, and discuss with him your ideas and their possible consequences, as well as the actions necessary to find a new job.
In any case, you should understand whypeople are looking for a new job, if the previous activity did not bring them satisfaction. Discover yourself for a new life, believing that your favorite work can and should be sought even in our unstable economy! We advise you to read: