Why do men hide their feelings?This question worries many of us. We want our chosen one to demonstrate his love with all his might, to say tender words, to shower us with fragrant flowers... But he, such a blockhead, frowns, keeps silent, gives flowers only on holidays, and even then, it seems, not very willingly... And besides, he rarely calls and sends SMS. How to understand such behavior?
The man does not show his feelings: reasons for stealth
Our loved ones often behave likeinsensitive idols who don't know what heartfelt experiences are. But if a man hides his feelings, a woman begins to doubt these feelings. Give her tender hugs and sweet words! Without them, we begin to be tormented by jealousy, doubts, suspicions. Nothing can be done, that's how the weaker sex is made. It needs constant proof of love. When there is none, it becomes somehow cold and lonely. No, well, as if it is difficult to say once again: "You are the best!" and send a romantic message! Can't he do it? Well, actually, he really can't. Because:
Our beloved ones are extremely proud of theirbelonging to the stronger sex. That's why they always try to look courageous and strong-willed. What a great way to impress a woman! Therefore, if a man hides his feelings, there is nothing special about it. This is a behavior pattern by which he tries to arouse the interest of the one to whom his soul is drawn. Well, fine, we say. But what should women do then, because for them, demonstrating love is as necessary as air? Otherwise, they begin to feel very uncomfortable.
What to do to a woman, if the lover does not show his feelings
How should a woman behave when her chosen onehides his feelings? The main thing is not to pester him with the eternal question "Do you love me?", adding "And tell me how much you love me!". Firstly, a man is more willing to say "I want you" than "I love you." And his dry "Yes" in response will not calm him down at all. Rather, it will upset him and make him doubt the sincerity of his feelings. And secondly, the chosen one may simply get tired of such brainwashing. And then, instead of a laconic "Yes", we will one day hear a whole tirade addressed to us. But its meaning will not be love at all. In general, when a man does not show his feelings, you need to treat this with understanding. The stronger sex is convinced that they are evidenced by his actions, the desire to take care of a woman, attention to her problems. Why add anything else? There is sense in such a male position. After all, the tongue is without bones, and it is not at all difficult to say a bunch of affectionate words to a girlfriend. But doing something substantial for her is much harder. So let our dear halves hide their feelings better, remaining reliable and faithful. In this way they will give a hundred points ahead to any chatterbox who first sprinkles tender words like peas from a bag, and then evaporates from life like a mirage. We recommend reading:
