Love is something that has been worrying humanity for a long time now.for many centuries. In our life, it has almost the most important meaning. For centuries, people fell in love, suffered, became happy or unhappy, entered into marriages and broke up... Love captivates people so much that they lose their heads and are ready to give up everything for it. Because of seemingly great love, they begin to do stupid things, ruin their careers, abandon their families, squander money, commit suicide. Love in youth especially excites everyone. Every girl, having once met her prince, loses peace and sleep, dreaming, hoping and yearning. And when the "prince" does not pay attention to her, in despair she asks someone: "What should I do if I fell in love with a guy?" She is scolded, dissuaded, advised. And the girl continues to suffer, thinking that this is love for life. What to do, in reality? Well, it's good if everything passes in a couple of months. But if everything is really serious, then what to do? First, let's try to understand what this feeling really is and what falling in love and true love are.
How to distinguish love from love
Almost every person sooner or laterfalls in love, experiencing tender romantic feelings for the object of affection. We think about him day and night, dream about how we will meet, how we will touch... All people want to be loved and love. This need is embedded in us by nature itself. And it seems like we love, and even mutually, and everything is so good. But then the delight of communicating with a partner suddenly evaporates somewhere. For some reason, it becomes boring with him, and what previously seemed attractive in this person now repels and irritates. What is the matter? Yes, everything is quite simple. The fact is that we confused infatuation with love. And it is good if you have not yet managed to get married. Then the separation will not be so painful. But if you have managed, and also have children, and then life together has turned into hell, this is already a disaster. Therefore, it is advisable to learn to distinguish simple infatuation from true love. In fact, it is not so easy to notice the difference between them. Both infatuation and love are accompanied by the desire to see your chosen one as often as possible. In both cases, thoughts are constantly occupied with him and fantasies about the development of the relationship. Both those simply in love and those truly in love dream of reciprocity. Both experience upliftment and excitement in the presence of the object of their interest. Both do not know what to do when he is not around. So how to recognize love and distinguish it from superficial infatuation or simple sexual attraction? In order to understand whether love has really overtaken you, or whether you are experiencing some other, passing feelings, you need to calm your emotions a little and soberly assess the situation. This will require an honest and reasonable answer to several questions.
It must be said that the answer to all these questions is notcan give a full assessment of the feelings you have for a guy. Often, the development of deep relationships begins with infatuation, which then turns into true love. In our case, we are talking mainly about the fact that you should not worry so much if you are not sure that he is the one without whom further life is unthinkable. Perhaps you should just look around, because there are so many interesting guys nearby! Surely one of them likes you. You only have to smile at such a cutie, and all your suffering will disappear. Don't want to? Well, then we will think about what to do next.
How to act if you fall in love with a guy
If you have fallen in love with a guy seriously, but he hasn’t yetreciprocates, there is no need to despair and cry, exclaiming tragically: "Oh, he doesn't love me!" In such a state, you should not shed tears, but do something. It is quite possible that the young man is simply not in the mood for any feelings, because you are younger or do not know him well. Or maybe he behaves this way because he considers you a girl from a different circle. Or he is not ready to fall in love yet. All this, in principle, can be fixed if you find a suitable option for behavior and decide what and how to do. Before looking for it, you need to put yourself in order. Almost no one likes girls with a suffering face and sad eyes. Therefore, you need to tell yourself: "It's hard for me now, but joy awaits ahead!" and confidently go to this joy. Let your gaze flash, your back straighten, your gait become light. Learn to smile, joke and communicate with everyone in a friendly and optimistic manner. There is nothing guys like more in girls than benevolent, cheerful sociability and wit. Young ladies with such positive energy attract a lot of admirers. And our young man will certainly not remain indifferent to such a sparkling young lady. But for this, you need to be present in his social circle as often as possible. And that means you should find out as much as possible about his hobbies and try to share them. Does the young man like sports? We go to classes at the same gym. Does he have a dog? We get ourselves a dog. Does the young man always hang out in the pool or fitness club? We sign up for the same pool and club. In a word, we try to do everything to meet him often. And when the opportunity arises, we start a conversation about the guy's favorite thing, trying to make him understand that we also know something about it. After all, it is enough for a man and a woman to talk, and some kind of relationship will already begin between them. In the future, all that remains is to constantly warm up the interest of your loved one. To do this, you need to constantly improve yourself, change something in yourself, learn something, not forgetting to look after your own appearance. Unkempt, carelessly dressed girls can become friends, girlfriends, but not loved ones. Therefore, you must always look neat and attractive and try to be as charming as possible. Then the guy will see you as a woman, not a sexless creature. If this happens, he will begin to feel sympathy. This will be the first step towards the emergence of true feelings. Then all that remains is to pretend that you have not yet chosen who to fall in love with. The young man will certainly be eager to be chosen. The goal has been achieved. Let him now think about what to do to achieve your love. We recommend reading:
