Psychology as a science studies how to determinea person's character by their gait, gestures, manner of speaking and color of clothing. But all of the above can be controlled. Avoid bright colors in your wardrobe. Change your gait, rehearse your speech, watch your gestures. Only in sleep can we not control ourselves. Sleeping positions can tell a lot about a person's character, their mood, their mental state at the moment and even about their relationship with their significant other - so much can be learned from the dreams of the sleeper and from their most characteristic body positions in bed.

How we sleep

• The "embryo" posture

The sleeper lies on his side.The sleeping person's bent knees are pulled up to the chest. As a rule, he shifts to the edge of the bed and turns his face away from the wall. Sometimes a pillow or the edge of the blanket is clamped between his legs. This person feels insecure and unprotected. As a rule, these are led people who need care and a stronger partner. It happens that a person who has large-scale checks at work or re-certification falls asleep in this position.

• "Spread" pose

The sleeper lay sprawled on his stomach.The arms are thrown above the head. The legs are stretched out, the feet are slightly apart. Often sleeps in the center of the bed. The main thing that distinguishes the character of such a person is that he is very punctual and does not like when others are late. He is obligatory, demanding of details, neat and precise. Such people are not afraid to set goals for themselves, act strictly according to the plan. And if any obstacles stand in the way, they will do everything possible to achieve what they want. We can say that the character of such a person is simply unbending.

• "Royal" pose

The man sleeps on his back, face up.The legs and arms are stretched along the body, slightly spread out, relaxed. The sleeper can lie either in the center of the bed or diagonally. This pose speaks of self-confidence, a sense of security, leadership qualities and the strength of a person's personality.

• "Half-embryo"

This is the most common pose.The sleeper is lying on his side and has slightly bent his legs towards his stomach. His arms and legs are relaxed. The person sleeps on one half of the bed or closer to the edge. What is the character of the person sleeping in this position? Such people are balanced, adequate, and have "common sense". Confidence in themselves and their own strengths allows them to steadfastly take the blows of fate. They do not seek protection from society and are able to provide assistance to those in need if necessary. Individual parts of the body are no less eloquent. Let's take the legs, for example:

• If a person in a dream tries to grab bothkicking the bed, or he has a habit of putting both feet (or one) under the mattress, which means that the sleeper resists changes in life and is fairly conservative.
• If a person hangs his legs from the end or from the edge of the bed, then this, on the contrary, indicates a complete rejection of generally accepted norms.
• Initiative, weak-willed and unable to pull themselves together, people usually sleep with crossed ankles.
• If both legs are positioned exactly one above the other:If the knees, thighs and ankles of both legs of the sleeper touch each other, then this person is presumably inclined to comfort, avoids conflicts and tries to meet the expectations of others as much as possible.

The position of your hands in your sleep can also reveal your character.person. If the sleeper has a habit of holding on to something in a dream, this indicates that the person is clingy, dependent on others and not independent. When a person sleeps on his back and puts his head on his palms, we can say that this is an intellectual person who earns a living by mental work. People who sleep on their backs and stretch their arms completely upward are inactive, weak-willed and passive in life.

How to determine the right posture?

Many people are concerned about the question of what poses to take fortruly “speaking” about a person’s character. After all, it is no secret that a person changes his or her body position several times during the night. Here it is necessary to take into account the fact that there are only two or three main sleeping positions. A person takes the other positions in a dream temporarily in order to lie down more comfortably. These are the so-called “intermediate positions”. And the main one is the one in which a person spends the most time. Very often a person sees himself or herself completely differently from what he or she really is. For example, a girl tries to develop leadership qualities in herself, and before falling asleep, she takes a royal pose. But in a dream, she changes her body position depending on her true character and temperament. It happens that during life, a person changes his or her leading sleeping positions. This depends on the circumstances that develop in people’s lives, the events that develop around him or her. For example, a big boss sleeps on his or her back all his or her life, being confident in himself or herself, his or her strength, and the future. But the company is closed, and the person has to look for a new position. Often, the job found turns out to be less prestigious and less paid. As a result, the sleeping position of the former boss changes. He subconsciously seeks support from others. The royal position is no longer so comfortable for him. The person himself does not notice that he simply cannot fall asleep on his back, although he previously could not imagine another position. Can he return to the old sleeping position? Yes, of course. As soon as his life begins to change and gives a person his former self-confidence. Sleeping positions often change at resorts, on vacation. For example, a female accountant previously slept in the fetal position, since at work she experienced constant dependence on her superiors, the tax office and freight forwarders who did not bring tax invoices on time. But at the sea, her position changed. The boss no longer spoke to her in a strict tone. And the tax office turned out to be far from the resort. And around - only the sea, the sun, the beach. The girl began to fall asleep on her stomach. She found herself free from circumstances. But there are also opposite examples. When a person felt comfortable at home, but on vacation, in a rented apartment, many things did not suit him and caused discomfort (hard mattresses, drunk neighbors, a back burned by the sun).

How do men and women sleep?

Equally important is the definition of meaning.what sleeping positions are prevalent in the two spouses. People can talk as much as they want about good relationships in the family, but one look at a sleeping couple is enough to get an objective picture of what is happening.

"Hugging face to face." This is the most emotional pose, which speaks of the strong attachment of partners to each other. The couple lies facing each other, embracing tightly and pressing their bodies tightly. In this case, the partners' legs can be straightened or intertwined (this indicates a sexual interest in each other and a willingness to fight for their own happiness). Very often in this position, lovers and newlyweds sleep, who are overwhelmed with feelings. If the pair keeps this pose for a long time, then we can talk about strong relationships and trust. When you face each other, the partners' heads are often at different levels. Whose head is higher, he is the head of the family and the lead in the pair.

"Hugs from behind." The sexiest position of sleep for partners. Here, both the sleepers are located on one side, huddled together, while stretching or slightly bending their legs in the knees. That partner, who is behind, usually hugs the satellite with his hands. The degree of emotional attachment can be estimated from the distance between the sleeping pair. The smaller it is, the stronger and more trustworthy the relationship. Lead in the pair is the one who covers the back of the partner in a dream. As a rule, this is a man who, with his whole body position, declares his desire to take care of his partner. If a very close embrace is observed from one side during sleep, this indicates a sense of ownership and the jealous nature of the person who hugs. It happens that the "lead" slightly touches the partner with his foot or hand. This gesture is due to the confidence in the "wingman".

It is quite another matter if a couple sleeps on one side,but partners share a long distance. This indicates unresolved problems in the relationship. In this position often sleep those who have quarreled the day before or have long lost a common language with a partner. At the same time, the person who is ready to make peace and make concessions sleeps with a partner. The offended side turned away.

"Back to back". Such a position can also indicate a prolonged conflict between partners, especially if the couple's bodies do not touch in a dream. Such position of bodies for a long time tells about the complete lack of desire of partners to reach mutual understanding. Interest in each other these people is weakened and there is no sincerity in the relationship.

If partners sleep with their backs to each other, but whenit touches the buttocks, it shows that the couple consists of bright, extraordinary personalities who value relationships but claim independence

Poses in a dream together, when someone is lying on his back,have two main varieties. If a man sleeps in a "royal pose", embracing while a woman, and she pressed her side sideways, then in this pair the main man is a man. A woman with her whole body position shows obedience and recognition as a leader. This is the most harmonious pose in a dream. If the man is lying on his back, and the woman is on her stomach, then she is much more attached to the partner emotionally than he is.

Finally, I would like to give some advice to married couples.and for those who are just about to tie their fate to their beloved: sleep together. Even if you have quarreled. Sleeping together can bring you closer, while separate beds will distance you even more. We recommend reading:

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