After sex, especially if it happenslove, pregnancy occurs. A joyful and happy period begins in the life of a couple, during which a man and a woman are interested in the question: Is it possible to have sex during pregnancy? Each pregnant woman will hear a different answer to this question. Sexual relations during pregnancy are a topic that causes a lot of controversy. Some do not want sex at all, while others, on the contrary, discover their body in a new way, noting the surge of passion that overwhelms the couple. It is worth noting that pregnancy is not a disease or a sentence, so only a woman can decide whether to have sex or not, who will listen to the advice of her doctor. Much also depends on which trimester of pregnancy is coming and how it goes. Each trimester of pregnancy is characterized by a large number of functional changes in the body of a pregnant woman and a growing fetus. Based on them, a woman's sexual mood and desire change. Let's consider the condition of a pregnant woman in each of the three trimesters:

The first trimester of pregnancy. In the first three months of pregnancy, a woman can often complain about poor health. First of all, this is due to a change in the hormonal background, with a complete restructuring of the body, as well as the appearance of toxicosis. An important role is played by the moral attitude, which sometimes leaves much to be desired. There are changes in thoughts, in character, and, by the way, this is observed not only in the future mother, but also in the future father. Soon the baby will appear, and not everyone can get accustomed quickly to this, undoubtedly, good news. Partners can begin to quarrel, as the woman becomes more capricious, and the man still does not quite know how to take these whims. But such changes in behavior, mood and state of health do not happen to all couples, some women feel fine. On the contrary, they say that such feelings during sex, as during pregnancy, have never been experienced. Women discover completely new orgasms, getting full sexual pleasure. Some future mothers who hitherto did not receive full pleasure from sex, begin to understand what it means to "fly up to heaven in a couple of minutes!" In any case, the first trimester will not fly by, and the second will come ...

Second trimester of pregnancy. Women forget that they were ill, they begin to feel fine and enjoy their situation. The child starts to push and move, the mother's positive feelings overwhelm the woman. Her condition, when you do not want anything and scared to look at yourself in the mirror, is left behind. The woman becomes prettier in her eyes, begins to eat well and remembers that there is a beloved man. The blood supply increases, because of what the sexual organs are moistened, hormones play, and you want to receive incredible pleasures, experiencing orgasm one after another. Most often, pregnant women often say that sex during pregnancy is simply delicious and that they never experienced such orgasms in their lives! By the way, the second trimester is a good period to learn how to choose new postures that can be used in the future;

Third trimester of pregnancy. Here everything is quite interesting. Some couples complain about the lack of sex, while others say that the attraction goes up all the time. Absence of attraction can arise for various reasons. This may be due to the fact that the big belly prevents you from having sex and having fun. Also, a young mother may have anxiety about the fact that sex can harm a baby, so he goes into the background. But, some couples say that discovering new poses is quite interesting!

What is good about pregnancy?

Having sex during pregnancy isnormal and even useful. Gynecologists themselves say this. But it is possible only if there are no contraindications. The importance of sex for the expectant mother:

• A pregnant woman is rarely 100%happy, but the hormones of happiness and pleasure should be developed as often as possible. The process of sex is just conducive to the development of such hormones, so the first plus towards sex is enlisted;
• Hormones that are in the sperm of a man, contain substances that can soften the cervix. And this can be positively reflected in childbirth and even facilitate them;
• In the process of sex, the muscles of the uterus contract, automatically doing the workout, which is also very useful before giving birth;
• If a woman wants sex, but for some reason refrains from it, she can accumulate in herself negative emotions that harm the future baby;
• By the way, some doctors see in sex onlypositive sides. If the birth does not want to advance, they advise having sex in order to stimulate the uterus. The fact is that during sex and some time after it, the uterus contracts, which gives birth a small push!

The Importance of Sex for the Future Dad:

• Men love sex and this is the first plus!
• If sex during pregnancy does not become a ban, a man will not feel abandoned. As a result, he will know that in the future the woman will have enough time for him;
• Men love it when they do not have to think about contraception.

The importance of sex for the future child:

• Do not think that sex can negatively reflect on the child. Amniotic fluid protects the baby, so it can not be damaged;
• Positive emotions and pleasure hormones,which are produced by the mother, are passed on to the baby. Even in the womb, the baby feels happy and subconsciously understands that everything is fine;

Sex Positions During Pregnancy

When choosing positions in which to have comfortable sex during pregnancy, couples note the following as the most comfortable:

On the knees. The woman kneels, if the stomach is large, you can put a pillow, the man is attached from behind. It is worth noting that this pose is best used in the first 6 months of pregnancy;

Sex on the side. A woman lies down on her stomach, comfortably bending her legs, and a man is attached from behind;

Sitting. The man sits down on the bed, the woman sits down on him, facing him. This pose is well suited for women who have a large belly, it is comfortable and does not cause discomfort.

Religion about sex during pregnancy

By the way, it's quite interesting about sex duringpregnancy, different religions respond. Christianity is neither against nor for sex, since in Christianity sex is needed only to conceive a child, which means that there is no point in having sex any longer. The Muslim religion says that having sex with a woman several months before giving birth is a sin. That is why a Muslim man can have several wives at the same time. Muslims believe that a man should not abstain from his lust. Judaism says that sex during pregnancy is a must, every Friday! And Hinduism believes that sex with a pregnant woman is practically a prayer, because a pregnant woman is sacred. Taoism says that sex during pregnancy should be done at will, otherwise the positive energy will disappear!

Contraindications

Now only qualified doctors can say whether you can have sex or not. There are some contraindications due to which sex during pregnancy is prohibited:

• Threat of abortion;
• Various vaginal discharge, including bloody;
• Leak of amniotic fluid;
• Multiple pregnancy;
• Infections of the genital organs in one of the partners.

In addition, there are some poses and sexualpreferences that a couple will have to give up during pregnancy. Firstly, these are positions that put pressure on the chest or stomach. Secondly, it is not recommended for pregnant women to engage in oral sex, if it is cunnilingus. Thirdly, it is strictly forbidden to use various toys to stimulate the genitals. In the first trimester, you cannot have sex on the days when your period should be. Such days are considered dangerous, because a miscarriage can happen at this time. By the way, there is one more type of sex that we have not yet discussed - this is anal sex. Of course, you can do it, but not all women can afford it. The fact is that the sensitivity of the pelvic organs and tissues increases, so such sex may not bring pleasure to a woman. In order to soften the tissues, you can use various lubricants, which also make the sensations during sex doubly pleasant.

We weigh all the pros and cons

Remember that whether to have sex or not,Only you and your doctor can decide. If everything is fine with your body and you can have sex, listen to your body. It will definitely tell you whether you should have sex or not! If you have a strong desire, but your head is full of prejudices, forget about them and allow yourself to enjoy it. If your body says that it is not ready to have sex, you should not do it because a man wants it. If the body rejects hormones, it means that it does not need them at this time. If the doctor has forbidden having sex for one reason or another, you should abstain. There are many different ways to satisfy your beloved man. You can caress him with your hands or mouth, thus giving him pleasure! Still, you should know that pregnancy is a very unstable emotional state, and therefore the erogenous zone is most often, as strange as it may sound, in the head! Feelings and emotions prevail over a woman, and you should listen to them. Endorphin is a hormone of happiness that occurs during sex and will have a positive effect on your health and the health of your baby, only if you want to get it. Remember, pregnancy should be enjoyed, because these are the most wonderful moments in a woman's life, they are beautiful and unique! And let your sex during pregnancy be unforgettable and unsurpassed! And let the experience that you gain during it be transferred to your future happy life! We recommend reading:

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