In our world, it could hardly be metpeople about whom you could say that they are completely confident in themselves and in the future. All of us are constantly overwhelmed by anxieties, doubts, fears. At first we are afraid that we will not go to the university that we want, then we are afraid to stay out of work, without a second half. We are afraid to be misunderstood, unrecognized, not appreciated by sub-conscience. Perhaps, the most common fear is the fear of condemnation. We are afraid of gossip and conversations behind our backs. . In other words, we are simply afraid to live. And all this burden of problems, complexes, fears people carry with them in life, significantly complicating their existence. Think first to start what scares you and what really hinders you on the path to success? Maybe you constantly focus on the opinions of others? If so, then ask yourself - do you live your life or are you a puppet that is easy to manage with the help of words and assessments of people? It sounds rude, but understand, it's quite easy for people to manipulate you while you react to their cues in your address. In life, alas, there are a lot of gossips and envious people who are just waiting for an excuse to mess. Take it easy, I would even say - with humor. I, for example, even like it when I hear neighbors, colleagues and other people with whom I somehow have to cross, show an increased interest in my personal life. I just understand that I do not have to answer their questions, but I have every right to do what I think is necessary. I want to meet with a guy - and I meet, although some people try to ask what's there and how, and then they also spread gossip. Previously, too, was afraid, unpleasant, when gossip, and then I realized it was normal. Such people everywhere will be, and personal life needs to be adjusted, it would be desirable to marry as in any way. I was afraid to build relationships with men. Probably, the relationship with my father was not very successful, and the painful unrequited first love, when I cried at night, realizing that the one I love will never be mine (he was married, and besides, 12 years older - agree, a significant age difference for the then schoolgirl). In general, I was afraid to be alone: ​​I studied in a group where there were only girls, and I did not want to get acquainted with people in clubs. But now, fortunately, in my life there is a young man with whom I'm not afraid, I'm not at all afraid (!) To be myself, not to play, not to pretend, but to be what I am - somewhere serious, thinking, and where Something funny, happy, crazy. And the most interesting thing is that he appeared just when I realized that all my fears are INSPIRED! Yes Yes exactly. I just realized that there's really nothing to be afraid of. That there are many men in the world and me, such, I'm sorry for the indiscretion, a rather interesting, educated girl there must be a man who can appreciate me. And then I will absolutely not care what they say these same colleagues and neighbors. She believed, stopped fearing - and found! And in the end, I respect myself, and what other people think of me - now it's already up to me. As there is no old, such stupid (it's only recently I realized that they are really stupid) of fears. I was afraid to refuse. And then I realized that I can not live normally. And I learned. Now I easily, calmly and without any constraint tell people "no" when I do not want to do what they ask for. Nahlebnikov became much less, but life is much simpler. They are not ashamed of me with their requests to address - so I'm not shy to deny! Girls, dear, my advice to you: you want to change your life, make it better, brighter, more diverse - determine what you are afraid of. And then just realize that you are not the only one - people with the same problems in the world are millions! And all of them, like me, well understand and support you morally. You are not alone in your problem - this is the main thing! The solution will come by itself - the main thing is only to set a goal in front of you! Good luck to you! Write your feedback! Author:

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