It often happens in a family that although you and your husbandYou have a wonderful relationship, and you even love each other, your children do not cause you any problems, but something is wrong with you. Suddenly, irritation with your spouse comes from somewhere, incomprehensible grievances against each other arise more and more often, and a desire to be alone appears, or even to go somewhere for a couple of weeks. Perhaps this is just fatigue, but most often it is due to the fact that you simply feel uncomfortable relaxing together. Gone are the days when you were content with just each other's company, and you did not pay attention to all the other "little things", including the convenience and comfort of sleeping together. But when falling asleep, a person especially needs a sense of security and a state of comfort: everything that he experienced while still in the womb. Look at your bed: what is it like? If it is a creaky bed with an old mattress and a prickly woolen blanket, then you can not expect family idyll. If at night you fight for the blanket, then during the day you will not be able to agree. So, to get rid of negative emotions towards each other, first of all, you need to create coziness in your bedroom. Let a new bed in every sense become a symbol of renewal of your relationship. For example, if you have slept on a familiar stereotypical rectangular bed all your life, replace it with a round one! Psychologists have found that people who prefer rectangles among other shapes are prone to conflicts and, conversely, a circle is a symbol of integrity and harmony in family relationships. In addition to its originality, a non-standard round mattress on a round bed is not only stylish, but also more comfortable and convenient. After all, nothing will limit your body movements: neither the wall of the room, nor the walls of the bed itself, nor the body of your spouse, since now you can sleep at different angles in relation to each other. Next, you need to make sure that each of you has your own blanket. With it, you can move around the bed independently of the other, and your blanket will meet only your needs for warmth, or, conversely, for coolness. Today, stores offer a wide selection of different blankets made of different materials. Of course, it is better if these are natural fibers of animal or plant origin. For example, you can buy a camel blanket, which is distinguished by the fact that camel hair is hollow inside, and therefore it is lighter and retains heat better. You should also pay attention to the healing properties of a camel blanket. With its help, you can treat many diseases. For example, a cold type. A blanket made of bamboo fibers will be even lighter. In summer, it is not hot at all under a bamboo blanket. It is especially recommended to buy a bamboo blanket for those who are prone to allergic reactions, since it does not cause allergies. You will see how your mood and attitude towards each other will change not only before going to bed and at night, but also during the rest of the time spent together!
