Every day millions of women's heads are visiteda sacramental thought about how mysterious creatures nature has created the opposite sex. How often do we find ourselves unable to guess what caused this or that action of a seemingly familiar man. When this man is just your friend or acquaintance, this can leave you calm and unperturbed. But if your thoughts are occupied with thoughts about him much more often than usual, and your heart stops at the sounds of his voice, then this is a completely different matter. How can you understand that a guy likes you, because you have long since decided on your attitude towards him? There are a great many reasons why men tend to hide their interest in a girl they like. Some doubt that their person can arouse reciprocal interest. Others are afraid of being categorically rejected. Others simply do not want to take the initiative. Still others, even being very self-confident guys, feel shy when meeting a lady they really like. The option where you simply do not arouse his interest also has a right to exist. It is not easy to understand all this, you can’t penetrate into other people’s thoughts. However, everything is not as hopeless as it may seem at first glance. If there is a need and desire, then nothing is impossible. There are signs that a man likes you back, and it is by them that you can, as they say, reveal his cards. Now we will tell you more about these signs.

Are we watching or are we advancing?

In the animal kingdom, everything is much moreeasier. Males demonstrate their interest in females in every possible way: they spread their tails, make a menacing growl, sing songs and start mating dances. Obviously, the girl would not have even a shadow of a doubt whether I like her or not with such frank behavior on the part of the guy, if it were possible in reality. But still, men demonstrate their sympathy and interest in you, although not so openly. You need to learn to catch these signs, determine and interpret them correctly. After all, non-verbal body language can tell you even more than will be voiced in words. How wonderful it would be if the answer to the question of whether he likes me or not could be obtained by fortune telling on a chamomile, on coffee grounds or in some other similar way. Everything would be much simpler. But such methods have proven their inconsistency, so you should not resort to them. They are useless and ineffective and will not be able to help us. Although women's intuition is quite well developed, and after talking to a man for some time, they can confidently say whether he is interested in them or not. But not everyone has such a gift! If you don't have the strength or desire to solve puzzles on the topic of "I like you or I don't like you", and you are a confident and proactive young lady, you can consider the following course of action: don't beat around the bush, but just ask a direct question. It's not for nothing that they say that even a negative result is useful. You can gain invaluable experience. Don't waste time. And you need to be positive. How many cases are known when, after a direct question from a girl, it turned out that the guy had long been actively interested in her person. He likes you, but, not understanding what emotions he evokes in you, he does not risk approaching first. In addition, many guys like active girls. No need to prepare complex speeches. Ask "Do you like me?" It turns out that it is quite enough for a man to give a precise and clear answer that will draw a line under the uncertainty. If this method is unacceptable for you, learn to observe.

Look into his eyes

Of course, the color of the eyes of the man whoI would like to like, may turn out to be completely different. It does not have any global significance for us. But in order for you to understand whether or not he is interested in you, you need to watch his eyes. When a woman is attractive to a man, he looks at her and admires her. Even if he is shy and looks away in embarrassment, he is inexorably drawn to look in your direction again. Do you constantly meet eyes? You clearly arouse his sympathy. Do his pupils begin to dilate? You arouse certain desires in him, and this alone indicates that you are definitely not indifferent to him. You can read a lot by a look, do not forget about it!

I am the best

Talkers are not uncommon among men, but they are especiallythey are not in demand among women. However, you should take into account one thing. In order to arouse your interest, a guy can start telling all sorts of stories about himself that show him in a positive light. If you have no reason to suspect him of self-praise, and the stories are really real, then think about it. Communication with each other generally contributes to rapprochement between people, and we always strive to tell those we like more about ourselves than ordinary people. Here it should also be said that, having told a few things about yourself, a man will definitely want to listen to you. If your communication does not take place in a monologue mode, where only he speaks, you are not interrupted when you start talking about something, then the girl may think: “What an interesting conversationalist. He listens to me so attentively. It seems that he likes me.” And she will be right!

Compliments

A man says nice things to you and noticeseven small changes in hair, makeup, manicure, clothes? There is no doubt - he likes you. We give compliments only to those who we sincerely like. Therefore, think less about whether he likes me or not, and be more confident in yourself. Do a favor in return, let him know that his actions are pleasant to you. Just watch how he behaves towards other representatives of the opposite sex. Routine and neutral compliments towards other women indicate that he is well-mannered. There is no need to immediately think that the guy is simply a Casanova by nature. You should think about it only if he gives compliments not with the aim of pleasing with his sincere words, but simply strives to charm all the female representatives in his immediate environment. For such a man, there is no difference between women.

Actions

Actions speak louder than words.There is less chance of making a mistake or mistaking friendly sympathy for romantic interest. When a man is interested in you (even if he is shy), he will find excuses to do something for you. For example, he will offer to give you a ride, even if it is not on your way. He will use any opportunity to be needed and useful to you. A colleague who likes you will not refuse to help you if, for example, you are not on good terms with office equipment, and will gladly help you figure it out. He will treat you to coffee or offer to have lunch together. A guy who lives next door will help you park if he sees how difficult it is for you to drive a car at first. He will also leave his phone number, saying that you can contact him for help at any time of the day. All these signs are not very significant if they happen once or twice, but when there are many of them, this is a signal that is better not to ignore.

Own company

You are already quite close, sweetie.You communicate, but still your communication looks more like friendly conversations. Romance is still passing you by. And suddenly the man invites you to his close circle of friends. It can be anything. Celebrating the birthday of one of his friends or his own name day. He invites you to be at a match where he will take part as a player, and then celebrate this event in some cozy place with the rest of the team. Any actions that clearly demonstrate his desire to expand the boundaries of communication between you will mean only one thing - you are not indifferent to him.

The obvious and quite probable

"If he likes me, then why does he never"Trying to touch me?" - you think, and you are absolutely right. If a guy likes a girl, he tries to touch her. At first, quite innocently, for example, to offer his hand in public transport or when crossing the road, going down the stairs. Then he will certainly want to hug her, kiss her. Physical and bodily manifestations of interest in relation to the lady that a man likes are as natural as all other signs of attention. Of course, at the beginning of the acquaintance, not every girl will approve of the fact that the guy wants to kiss her on the very first evening. But if time goes by and he does not demonstrate his male interest in you, then this is a sad indicator.

I have no more questions

However, sincere and genuine interest is twofoldIt won't work to interpret. If a man likes you, he will let you know in all the ways available to him, which he considers correct. With the calculation so as not to scare you off with his pressure and initiative, but to arouse reciprocal interest. Even in our time of feminism, which has blossomed in full bloom, there are still men who make the first move. When such a representative of the stronger sex meets you on your way, the question of whether he likes you or not will not even enter your head. Because the answer will be obvious. The main thing you need to do in this situation is to remain yourself, accept his signs of attention with pleasure and as the most natural thing in the world. After all, men are so happy to realize that his feelings are not unrequited and the lady likes him too. Often we can get a signal that we are liked when we ourselves know how to show it. It is not for nothing that they say - smile more often, someone can fall in love with your smile. So let it be intended for the addressee you like the most!

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