When a guy is in love with you, it's always nice.And when the one you have a crush on is also in love, it's doubly pleasant. But here's the problem - sometimes it's quite difficult to determine what a young man is really feeling. Some people skillfully feign feelings, while others, on the contrary, carefully hide them. How can you tell if a guy is in love? After all, without experience in such matters, you can either fall into the trap of an experienced seducer, or miss the one who is seriously carried away. So what are the signs by which you can recognize true love?

How to determine that a guy is in love, when you are not dating him yet

In fact, every person, when falling in love, behavesin different ways. Someone's face shows that he's lost his head over you. And someone disguises his feelings so well that you'll never understand whether they're there or not. One young man in a relationship with a girl he likes shows concern for her, and another makes sarcastic jokes, makes stupid jokes, teases, and tries to offend. So guess where there is love and where there is none. You can easily mistake ordinary flirting for serious feelings, and then be disappointed. You really don't want to step on such a rake. Sometimes the bumps from them do not go away for life. Well, in general, everything is not so bad. Signs that a man is really in love with you exist. Only they are different for each stage of the relationship. Let's say, how do you understand that a guy is not indifferent to you if you are not dating him yet?

He will behave a little strange. Usually a lively, sociable, self-confident young man can suddenly become shy and timid. A shy and timid little fellow suddenly begins to behave cheekily, demonstratively someone out of himself, rude, loudly laugh. Moreover, such changes occur only in the presence of the subject of sighing. It is worth the girl to disappear, as everything returns to normal.

The man continually meets with you a look andhe immediately turns his eyes away. In principle, he can not take them away, on the contrary, look closely and defiantly. But this is more likely to be skillful seducers than young men who have sincere feelings. The one who is in love usually is embarrassed when a girl looks into his eyes.

The guy is always on your way, turnsin the places where you are, it turns out in a common company. At the same time he tries to pretend that all these coincidences are accidental and that he just passed by. When a young man falls in love, he finds a girl anywhere, having spent a lot of time and energy on it. And will wait for her appearance for hours. So, if someone constantly finds himself on the path, then in the store, then on the way home, then near the entrance, it is worth paying attention to it. It's not for nothing that it flashes before your eyes.

In a word, when men fall in love, theybehavior changes noticeably, which can be called symptoms of a disease called "romantic insanity." The longer it lasts, the more the guy becomes like a weirdo who was hit from around the corner with a sack. But only if he watches the object of his affection from the side. When the girl he loves becomes a girlfriend, the young man comes to his senses after a while. This does not mean that the feelings disappear. They just take on a different form. How can you tell if the guy you've been dating for a long time is still in love with you?

Symptoms of falling in love with a guy you are already dating

It often happens that after someperiod of a relationship, a man begins to behave somewhat differently than in the first days of courtship. He becomes more reserved, gives compliments less often, and more often remembers business. It seems as if there is no longer any love, the guy is disappointed, has cooled off and no longer wants to see you as often as before. How can you determine in this case whether the young man has any feelings?

He cares about you. That is seeks to help something, tries to solve some problem, is interested in business, brings home heavy bags, tries to give a rest if she is tired and so on. Only a boy in love will take such an active part in the life of the girl, thus demonstrating a non-indifference to her fate. The one to whom the young lady is indifferent, she certainly will not refuse to help either. But to do this constantly is unlikely to be

A man remembers various trifles associated with yourlife. It can be the date of birth of the mother, the nickname of the puppy, favorite spirits, dishes, books and movies, grandmother's residence .... In a word, everything that strangers are not interested in, and what remains in the memory of only the guy not indifferent to the girl.

A young person can abandon his ownplans if you need his presence. A man in love often even changes his life priorities and passions, wanting to have as much as possible in common with his passion. For example, earlier he was convinced that money is more important than anything else in the world. And now he considers the most important sincerity and reciprocity of feelings. Or before he was fond of racing, and now began to give priority to hiking, which is so beloved.

Talking about plans for the future, the guy says "we". If a person does not feel deep feelings toward you, when discussing such plans, he usually says "I" or "you".

The man practically does not hide anything. He frankly answers questions about his past and present, without eluding the answers and not trying to keep silent or laugh it off. This means that the guy is serious about the relationship and understands that without trust they can not be built.

A young man willingly takes you to his homeand invites friends to the company. If he is not going to meet with the girl for a long time, it is unlikely to specifically acquaint her with a circle of friends and close people.

The guy notices even minor changes in your appearance or mood. The one who is not in love, and the details of appearance, and especially the mood of the young lady are of little interest.

A man is not afraid of talking about family and children, and even starts such conversations himself. This behavior is usually in seriously-minded guys who want to see the girl in the role of a companion of life.

The guy tolerates your whims, condescending to not very beautiful deeds and forgives much. Such excerpt is peculiar only to a young man in love.

Well, these are probably all the main signs thata man perceives you as more than just a temporary infatuation. It is not difficult to determine his attitude if you are attentive and reasonable. Does the guy look more at your legs than in your eyes, talk mainly about himself and do not try to discuss any common plans? Then, most likely, he is guided by passion and lust, not romantic feelings. It is quite possible that feelings will appear later, but for now the fact of their absence should be alarming. Otherwise, there is a risk of falling unrequitedly in love with an inveterate womanizer, who is capable of confusing your head so much that you will forget your own name. In general, in order not to step on such a rake, it is advisable to delve into literally everything that a man says. Psychologists say that their true attitude is revealed in slips of the tongue. A phrase thrown out casually often gives a guy away completely, because it is not thought out in advance. Of course, not every spontaneous remark has some special meaning. But it is still better to notice them than to ignore them, highlighting what is especially important and making the right conclusions. We recommend reading:

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