if he said more than once “I DON’T LOVE YOU!!!”!» I want to return my boyfriend's love… I love him very much… (if I am asked what love is in general, then I can hardly answer, but the feelings that I have for my boyfriend… I call all this love, for me this is exactly what love is)… everything was good with us at first, then more or less good, but now it’s not good… at all, and… he’s already several. once he suggested breaking up but I was afraid of losing him and didn’t agree with him…and we continued…once I was told that if a guy is already thinking about breaking up, then sooner or later it will happen…and now…this is apparently a prophecy!!=((it’s painful to realize that you are no longer needed by a person, that he has closed himself off from you and the most offensive thing is that he no longer feels love for you…(((you know, time passes and I begin to understand that I avoided all his proposals to save the relationship…only now I understand this..then it seemed impossible to me, but now I realize that I was wrong…he suggested breaking up at least for a while…or not calling each other for a while…but that’s how it should have been to do…it was necessary to understand him…after all, a man is not a woman…he still needs his own personal, some kind of, freedom…it's a pity that I realized this now… but now I'm worried about something else…that's what he told me all this .. and I, like a fool, called him several times, wanted something from him, asked him to think .. that everything would be good between us, that he wouldn't leave me, etc.…. (now I understand that you can't do that…it irritates him more, though I can't quietly and silently watch that nothing is happening either, I'm afraid of losing him…) but the whole "joke" the fact that we don't have the opportunity to talk face to face, we are in different cities now, we have been in a relationship for over 2 years and everything is at a distance (due to studies) he suggested meeting when he arrives to discuss everything, to dot the i's and cross the t's and that will only be in August (when I asked him how we will be together now, until August what is this thing we have, what to call it, he answered that he doesn't know, it will stay as it is and that's it, and that after a personal conversation he hopes that we will break up, since he doesn't see a future for us and all relations will only be a burden, if earlier I still hoped that maybe he would change his mind, maybe he would come and talk to me and that's it things will get better between us…but now I'm starting to doubt it a lot…I even told him about it and I said it must have seemed that way to me, and he's like...it must have seemed that way to you and me…….yes…and we're still dating on our social media pages (it's written that way, none of us removes it, what is it? If a person is so determined and at the same time leaves it that way) …I'm still thinking…if he really, really wanted to break things off with me. I'm tired of it, if he doesn't need it anyway…then why will he wait another 2 months…is it really only because he's so proper? That he understands from the phone that people aren't abandoned?! That is, my chances of getting him back are practically zero…or are there some?! I'm interested in your opinion, soviets... maybe someone else had something similar?! Please help... I'm going crazy already... August is so far away, I can't keep myself busy... All sorts of bad thoughts are creeping into my head... Author: