Give gifts to your beloved on the anniversary of relations -a thankful thing that will pay off a hundredfold attention and concern from the boyfriend. This is another reason to remind a loved one that he is the best and irreplaceable. It is not necessary to present costly things, because in this case the main thing is attention. You can make a gift with your own hands, arrange a romantic dinner with candles, prepare an unexpected surprise - in general, just go to the event with a mind and a fancy. And we, in turn, will help you in this.
The first stage is preparation: how to understand what to give
You are already many years together, you know your belovedas peeling, so with the choice of a gift should not be any problems. But here's the ill luck - you still do not know what to buy. If you decide to stop your choice on cologne, shaving kit, warm mittens or a new fishing rod for a boyfriend, chase those thoughts away. The anniversary of relations is a significant and romantic date, therefore, gifts should be presented appropriate. Create an atmosphere of love, understanding and tenderness to remind the faithful once again how much you need and are important. Buy candles, prepare something light, exotic and unusual (for such occasions the dishes of Mediterranean cuisine are ideal), put in the refrigerator a bottle of champagne or good wine, put on your most beautiful dress (you can limit yourself to lace underwear - the effect will be truly stunning!) , close the curtains of the window, lay out the petals of roses on the floor, sofa and armchairs. Romantic dinner can smoothly flow into a bath with your loved one. Get a special salt, add aromatic oils to the water, massage your partner and whisper in your ear how much you love him. If you decide to give your young man such a surprise, then you can not buy a tie, a mobile phone case or a new mouse for a laptop. The atmosphere created by you, and the cooked dinner will be your gift. However, if you still want to present something, use these tips to help make the right choice. So, we generate ideas of a romantic gift for a lover:
- The anniversary of relations is not a birthday, notNew Year and not on February 23, when it is customary to give useful and necessary things. For this case, something more symbolic and sweet is more suitable: an album with joint photos, a pillow in the form of a heart, paired cups, a banner with a declaration of love. You can also carry out some kind of dream of your boyfriend: jump with a parachute, ride a quad bike, go to the dolphinarium, and so on. If your young man is a mysterious person, it's possible that you do not even suspect his desires. To open the veil of secrecy and determine the gift, unobtrusively call it to frankness. To do this, go to a restaurant or walk around the evening city, and then start to dream out loud. Telling about yourself, you talk a loved one and do not even have time to blink an eye, as he begins to share his dreams. Now listen carefully and remember!
- To get the right thing and the right thing, and notthe one that will collect dust for years on the shelf, put yourself in the position of a boyfriend. Think about his hobbies, interests and hobbies, reflect on what he lacks, what can make him happy. Perhaps your chosen one is an avid reader - in this case look through the books with which he is addicted, pay attention to what author's creations are most in his closet. Then go to the supermarket or type in the search engine query like: "a new writer's book" or "novelties of literature" and the like. Most likely, you will find an edition that is not yet in the boyfriend's collection - it will be the best gift for him. Similarly do the movie or musical preferences of a loved one. If he is delighted with computer games, consult with the seller in the supermarket and buy for your adult "child" the latest newfangled disc.
- As you know, the way to the heart of a young manlies ... Correctly, through his stomach! If your friend, like many men, is also not indifferent to tasty food, surprise him. Prepare a dish from childhood, which at an early age it was fed by a mother and grandmother, or something original and unusual. Perhaps you both remember dinner during the honeymoon or the dish that was served in the restaurant on your first date. Try to recreate that atmosphere and make an appetizing dish, seasoned with pleasant memories. And to find out about the taste preferences of a loved one connected with his childhood, use the "number one" reception - talk the boyfriend. If this method does not work, ask your parents for help. Surely the mother of your young man still remembers, from which drooling from her boy.
- A gift made by one's own hands will beoriginal, memorable and not like the others. Therefore, creatively for your own pleasure! You can prepare a collage of joint photos, fill an album with images from your life that tell how love originated, and if you know how to work in special programs, make a video. Warm scarf, socks or gloves, connected with their own hands, will warm the beloved even in severe frosts.
- Arrange a surprise for the young man. For example, instead of handing a gift simply to the hands, get the boyfriend to find it - lay out notes on the apartment with tips - so, after going all the way and solving the rebuses, he will find what you bought him. There is one more original way, namely: get twelve envelopes, decorate them and put every day one by one in the mailbox of a loved one. The whole point is that there must be a letter inside telling about your feelings. You can arrange the message in poetic form or, for example, with words from songs.
No matter how many years you spend with youra young man - whether a year or more - do not forget to tell him about your love. Celebrate the anniversary of your relationship, the first meeting, give gifts, make surprises and show signs of attention. After all, as you know, love, so she lived as long as possible, you need to constantly "nurture".
Choose a gift for your beloved
If you celebrate the anniversary of relations, already beingin marriage, take note that every year lived together from the day of the wedding reflects a certain symbolic feature that characterizes a new stage in family life. Knowing these names, it will be easier for you to choose a gift for the spouse. For example, two years, lived together, in the people are called a paper wedding - hence it is clear that the subject of gifts can be appropriate. Perhaps your loved one is interested in history: in this case, pick up for him an entertaining encyclopedia, telling about the life of certain politicians, kings and other famous persons or telling about battles, great battles and so on. Look closely at the spouse: maybe he just recently began reading literature about the life of the samurai, got interested in Hollywood films of the 1960s, or began to study the peculiarities of the wine business. You can start a new hobby of the chosen one: buy an atlas or a directory that will open your eyes to his new occupation and expand the range of knowledge in this field. For a collector of ancient publications, the best gift will be a rare book, which can be purchased in the second-hand bookshop or in the antiques market. On a paper wedding, you can buy a photo album and decorate it with positive pictures or even just pictures, having issued it in an original way. Another option - give your loved one a thousand kisses - from them from exactly will not want to give up. How to do it? It's very simple: make up your lips with bright lipstick and leave your prints on a blank sheet of paper, then cut each and fold it into an envelope. Thirteen years of marriage are called a lace wedding, so the gift should be light and airy. Make a delicate butterfly from paper and present it to your beloved - according to folk legends it is believed that she is able to keep a man in the house. You want to live a long life together, do not you? You can order an original cake, for example, with your photo or in the form of red lips - give your wife such a sweet and memorable kiss. Men always with reverence and slight trepidation refer to stylish haberdashery, so why not pick up elegant leather gloves, a purse, a housekeeper, an original belt, cufflinks or a tie pin for the husband. The last accessory, by the way, if you believe the beliefs, for a long time binds the young man to the woman who will present him such a gift. So take note! If your spouse has "golden" hands and constantly fixes something in the house, buy him a set of tools that will be useful and at the same time a pleasant gift. A computer lover can be presented with new speakers with a sound amplifier, an unusual mouse or a rug under it with your photo (so you'll always be there!), An original flash drive and so on. The intellectual is sure to be delighted with chess, cards or backgammon in an unusual performance, for example, made of a rare stone or wood with a carved ornate pattern encrusted with Swarovski crystals. If the spouse loves art, give him something from this area: an album with pictures of great artists, CDs with musical or cinematic masterpieces, a rare book edition, an autobiography of a genius. There is no need to select a very expensive gift - you can do with something symbolic: buy a rug and ask in a specialized salon to decorate it with your joint photo. Today, these images are applied to almost any object: on cups, pillows, blankets, clothes. Go to the gift shop, where you can certainly buy a suitable souvenir. However, be cautious: representatives of the strong half of humanity are not so sentimental as girls, so do not always experience joy at seeing such things. Many perceive them as unnecessary garbage, only taking up space on the shelf. Therefore, if your young man belongs to this category of men, it is better to choose something more useful and necessary for him. In your choice, be guided by the hobbies, hobbies and activities of the boyfriend. For example, a serious person who is often forced to travel on business trips, you can buy a good weekly, a road alarm clock, a netbook bag, an iPod, an e-book. In general, everything that will help to have fun during the flight and not oversleep an important meeting. If you and your lover do not celebrate the anniversary of relations, then it's time to start this wonderful tradition. Indeed, thanks to such a sweet and symbolic holiday your union will become even stronger. On this day, forget about business, set aside free time (for example, in the evening after work), focus only on each other: arrange a romantic dinner, watch a movie, talk about love, remember a happy past and dream of a joint future. Such moments always bring together!
Surprise the lover: options for unexpected surprises
So, we have already decided that a gift forthe anniversary of relations should not be standard and usual, so leave thoughts about buying a shaving set, a bottle of cheap cologne or a new pair of socks for a boyfriend for another occasion. Surprise your lover with your unpredictability and wild imagination. If you have a close trusting relationship, give the young man unusual underwear. Some men look in strings very appetizing! However, if your boyfriend is serious and takes a joke like a personal insult, then it is better to use another method - put the lace on yourself. To make the surprise even more impressive, take a few weeks before the holiday event for a striptease lesson. A professional coach will teach you how to move properly and beautifully in time with the music, so that you can perform a great private dance for your boyfriend. On the day of your anniversary, decorate the apartment, create a romantic atmosphere, buy a bottle of champagne, strawberries, fruit, chocolate, put on beautiful underwear, tie your favorite eyes, make yourself comfortable and start the show. No man will remain indifferent when he sees his girlfriend in such an erotic role! In addition, such active dances not only warm up love and even more "tie" the boyfriend, but also significantly improve your figure, help get rid of extra pounds. Stripplastic exercises require a lot of effort and energy. For fans of thrill there is a special category of gifts - extreme surprises. If your guy is delighted with watching the programs about Biar Grylls, then he surely will gladly agree to jump with a parachute or do jumping (a sport that is a jumping from a bridge with a rope). So why not give him a pleasant moment and a storm of emotions? Study the proposals of companies specializing in the provision of such services, learn about the possible risks and pay for the lessons. A young man will be especially pleased if you share the moment of extreme with him, so do it, of course, if you are not afraid. The anniversary of relations can be noted by one more original way - to ride a quad bike or play paintball. Invite your friends, have fun, and then enjoy a picnic in nature. Such a non-standard approach to the organization of the holiday will please your young man, because most men, just like women, are waiting for surprises and are happy with them, like children. Romantic nature to this kind of extreme concern with caution, so in their case, think of something more calm. For example, invite a lover to a movie (you can even order a VIP room), an opera or a theatrical production. Then sit in a cafe, have a drink and relax. A wonderful gift will be a trip to the dolphinarium or a planetarium. If your boyfriend pays much attention to his appearance, buy a subscription to the spa for two. So you in one fell swoop kill two birds with one stone and improve health, and make an excellent gift to your beloved. We offer one more way to "light" your love - go to fire-show. Dancing artists with fiery swords will surely give you a lot of positive emotions. An excellent gift will be a joint trip to warm countries or to a ski resort where you can ski during the day, and you can warm yourself by the fireplace in the cold evenings, sipping a fragrant mulled wine. Of course, such a gift will not result in one hundred dollars, but if there is such an opportunity, why not surprise your loved one? The main thing is to find out in advance about his plans: if he can leave for a few days from work, book a hotel, buy tickets and pack suitcases! With the passage of time, each couple's passion gradually fades away, feelings become less vivid than in the first months of acquaintance, but more trusting and intimate. To be afraid of such changes it is not necessary, in fact it at all does not mean, that your love passes or takes place, she simply becomes stronger and more adult. Is not it beautiful? Do not forget to remind your boyfriend periodically of how precious it is to you, how wonderful it is, that you have the best one. Start a tradition to celebrate the anniversary of relations, exchange gifts. This will become a kind of symbol of the durability and strength of your union. We advise you to read: