For a child, regardless of age, a holiday -an event of astronomical scale, an extravaganza of emotions and moments of pure happiness. After all, children perceive the reality surrounding them more sharply and naively, and any holiday for them is a miracle, long-awaited and amazing. And every loving parent asks himself how to arrange a party for children, making it unforgettable. Christmas, New Year, birthday - if you think about it and count, there really will not be really many children's holidays. And so you want that in the life of a little man they were as much as possible! So why not arrange a holiday for a child, without waiting for the next date? To dilute a string of familiar everyday life with something special, for example, to organize the Holiday of Soap Bubbles. All that can be needed is a liquid soap, the ability to blow bubbles and a good mood. But sincere joy in the eyes of the child will be an invaluable reward. Or on a cloudy day, celebrate the day of the Sun. The script is simple: put the sheets of Whatman on the walls of the apartment and paint them together with the child with paints, pencils, brushes, fingers, colored crayons. Let every bright corner of the house look at you bright and cheerful sun! Jointly bake cookies in the form of small suns and treat them to family members. All these are family holidays, but do not forget that fun in the company of friends can deliver your child much more joy. Of course, you can organize such a holiday with the help of professionals. But so you deprive yourself and your child of the lion's share of the pleasure from the coming triumph. After all, when the kid takes a direct part in the preparation for this event, he will have another reason to be proud of himself and his contribution to the life of the family. So give him that opportunity! So, you decided to cope on your own? Then the first thing you need to start with is to write a script for the holiday and paint it according to the points.

Idea and design

Here the script depends on the age and gender of yourchild. For the boy suitable theme parties in the style of cowboys of the wild west, space or pirate scenarios. You can beat the scenes of a knight tournament or arrange funny starts. But the girls are more suitable for a fairy ball, a flower festival, a masquerade ball or a ball of princesses. And, of course, depending on the idea, the other thematic elements of the holiday will change. That's where your child's imagination will get a place to fly! Do not abandon his ideas in any case. Take as many of them as possible. Think about every little thing with it. This will help your child understand that you are listening to his opinion, and will contribute to the development of his taste. The chosen premises can be decorated with balls, lights, various handicrafts corresponding to the theme of the holiday, to make inscriptions on posters, to draw drawings.

Costumes

If you have clearly defined the theme of the holiday,then the costumes should be taken care of in advance. Children, regardless of age, are very fond of dressing, trying on various interesting images, getting used to them. Dream with the child over his new way. Let him draw some detail of the costume, and then help you in creating it. Try to use every moment of this joint creativity to get closer to your child, to teach him something new and, possibly, learn new things from him. It is not surprising, if in the process of writing a costume you will better understand your child, his desires and dreams.

Invitations and guest list

The next stage will be the compilation of the list of guests. Allow the child to choose on his own those whom he wants to see on his holiday. With whom he is pleased, it will be easy and fun to communicate. After all, this is his personal feast. And then, together with him, think over the design of invitations. If, for example, you stayed at a knight's party, then make thematic invitations, for example, a postcard in the form of an old tower or shield with a coat of arms. And the invitation to the ball-masquerade can be made in the form of a mask, fan or cracker. By the way, arrange delivery of invitations better in advance. After all, if it's a costume festival, then the guests should also prepare for it. It is possible that one of the parents of your guests will want to contribute to the preparation and add interesting details to your script. Do not give up, fresh ideas will not be superfluous.

Music, games and gifts

The most important and probably the most creative partholiday will be interesting games and properly selected music. It is a mistake to believe that simple games for a long time will keep children's attention. They will rather get tired than rest and enjoy the holiday. It is very difficult to detain a child's attention for a long time on anything. Therefore, you need to offer as much entertainment as possible, alternating between moving games, intellectual and creative tasks. The program of the holiday should be saturated not tedious-prolonged and appropriate to the age of children. Make a script and prepare the props in advance so that there are no hiccups and sagging in the program you prepared. Arrange yourself and the forces of participating children a small idea. It can be a home puppet theater or a mini-play. You can learn a few simple tricks with the child and give him the opportunity to flash on the home stage. To give children the opportunity to express themselves in the creative work, invite them to paint, polish or cut out thematic pictures that correspond to the idea of ​​the holiday. And then you can arrange an auction of children's crafts and drawings for parents, thereby involving them in general fun. Intellectual games can directly reflect the holiday scenario. So, at the ball of flowers to the place will have a flower quiz, participating in which children will have to name as many flowers and flowering plants as possible. And at the space party will be interesting quiz about the planets, constellations and aircraft. At a pirate party, you can arrange a treasure hunt. Hide the chest with sweets in a secluded place and draw a card with scrap-notes and puzzles about how to get to the goal. And when the treasure is found, everyone who participated in the search will receive their share of sweet "treasures." By the way, it is worth remembering that in selected or invented games you should not have a clear winner. Children react very keenly to any loss. Why spoil a holiday for a child? Therefore, let each child on your holiday receive a gift as a gift. Even the smallest trifle can lift a mood to a little person, light a happy light in your eyes and become his personal "treasure." And for what else to hold a children's party, if not to see the sincere joy of the child?

Treat

Well, what holiday can do without food? Moreover, games and dances will undoubtedly "wake up" the children's appetite. Therefore, take care of the menu in advance. Do not plan anything grandiose. Interesting sandwiches and unusual canapés, fruit assortments, bright cakes and beautifully decorated desserts will please the child much more than a "complex dinner" with hot and compote. Although, if you expect that the holiday will last more than five hours, it's still worth thinking about hot. But in the festive table, you can add a touch of creativity with your child. Let it help you to come up with names for dishes or invent an unusual form and cut out the cookies yourself, or maybe invent a new kind of sandwiches. The food on the table should be bright to attract the attention of children. You can decorate them according to the theme of your holiday. Canapes in the form of piastres or stars, rolls in the form of space rockets. The list is limited only by your imagination and your child's imagination.

Photo for memory and the final of the holiday

Every moment of the children's holiday is impregnatedsmiles and joy. Your children change and so, like at that moment, you will not see them again. To the holiday was not only in the memories, it is best to capture it in a photo or video camera. In any holiday, not only its beginning is important, the final is also important. It should be bright and memorable. You can arrange fireworks or launch balls into the sky and blow up firecrackers if the party is held outdoors. Or solemnly cut the birthday cake. You can choose the king and queen of the ball or parties that will give out awards or prizes to their subjects in the final of the holiday. All this, of course, will delight the children and the adults accompanying them. Perhaps you will find that it is difficult and impossible to come up with interesting scenarios and organize a children's holiday for them. Believe me - this is not so! After all, every smile and spark of sincere joy in the eyes of the child are worth the effort. And that mutual understanding which you will find in joint creativity, will become the greatest reward for loving parents. Therefore, in a series of everyday activities and everyday life, make yourself a gift - arrange an unforgettable holiday for children! We advise you to read:

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