You can often hear phrases about the fact thatit is more difficult to raise boys than girls. That they are naturally more energetic, more aggressive, more independent and therefore it is much more difficult to manage their behavior. Of course, it is impossible to say for sure, but boys are indeed, as a rule, more active, it is more difficult for them to learn to calm down, concentrate, listen. On the one hand, of course, a child needs discipline and the ability to behave correctly in a group, but on the other hand, excessive care from parents, unnecessary restrictions create the risk of killing the personality in the baby, raising an infantile mama's boy incapable of making decisions independently. Of course, we all want only the best for our children, all these
, expensive toys, books, trainings, everythingis aimed at raising a Personality with a capital letter. It is important not to forget that, for example, aggression is inherent in absolutely all people and it is important not only to suppress it in a small boy, but to teach him to direct it into a peaceful channel. As psychologists say, you cannot scold boys for displays of aggression. This process is uncontrollable and you just need to learn to overcome and control these emissions together with the baby. You do not need to teach your son that a man does not cry, that he keeps his emotions inside - you do not want to raise a tense, complexed person! It is better to help the baby find civilized ways to express aggression. Thus, psychologists consider buying a punching bag to be an excellent solution. You can direct emotions to creativity: during bouts of anger, tear colored paper into small pieces, and then fold applications from it. An excellent option is to have a special children's "bag for anger" at home. At the right moment, you can shout out, exhale your aggression into this bag, and then tie it up and just throw it away! The main thing is to listen to your son, observe his behavior and, if necessary, consult a neurologist. Do not blindly follow all the advice found on the Internet: it is one thing to buy a digital thermometer that you liked from reviews, and another to choose methods of raising a small person! We recommend reading:
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