"We have a cafe, not a day nursery," - with these wordsThe woman, in whose arms the baby was crying incessantly, was asked a few minutes to step out the door. Like, maybe on the street the baby will calm down faster. According to the café administrator, he had to do so - customers complained that his institution was getting too noisy, and while having a cup of tea and cake, I still wanted to relax and not sit, holding my ears. "We very politely asked her to calm the child, but then come back and continue drinking tea. But the woman chose to leave at all, ”says the owner of the cafe.
A photo: GettyImagesIn social networks, he immediately harassed: for surely the mother with the child felt humiliated when she was exposed to frost. But local custodian Kelly Bradford stood to protect the owner of the cafe. "It's simply unethical for mums to force people to sacrifice their comfort. They are forced to sit and hear these cries simply because the mother is unable to distract from the phone. I often saw such situations: a woman pushes a baby carriage with one hand, in which a baby sings, and another photographs her cake and puts it on Instagram, ”she said. However, nobody even listened to her. She was instantly called a “very unpleasant person”, a supporter of babysitting, and was advised to work on herself in order to show a little bit of sympathy and participation to young mothers who are already having a hard time. After all, they are not willingly taking children with them - leaving the baby more often than not with anyone, sitting at home all the time is unbearable. And if the mother was forced to run around with the child in her arms, and suddenly they wanted to eat / drink / they froze? It is difficult to judge who is right in this situation, who is to blame. On the one hand, people are not obliged to treat others screaming children with sympathy. On the other hand, why not really show some compassion. After all, we all were once children. And what would you do if you were in a cafe with a roaring baby?
- I would try to finish my coffee as soon as possible and leave.
- Such tiny children should not be taken to cafes at all. Or to places where there are children's rooms.
- Never mind. I'll plug my ears with headphones and listen to music.
- As long as they don’t change the diaper right at the table, the screams don’t bother me.
- He'll scream and then stop. Sometimes it's really hard to calm children down.
Voted: 301And what would you do if you were in a cafe with a roaring baby?
- I would try to finish my coffee as soon as possible and leave. 9.6%
- Such tiny children do not need to take in a cafe. Or go to where there are children's rooms. 60.8%
- Nothing. I plug my ears with headphones and listen to music. 2.0%
- Yes, if only the diaper right at the table did not change, the cries do not bother me. 3.7%
- He will scream and stop. Children are sometimes very difficult to calm. 23.9%
Voted: 301
