If you are a single woman, you probably carethe question: how to find your one and only? Men with whom you have tried to build relationships, are not the ones you need. If all your relationships did not lead to anything good - one drinks too much, the other does not miss a skirt by himself, the third does not shine with the mind at all - everything is simple: you should take the initiative in your own hands and go in search of your long-awaited half. But where to get acquainted with a man?
How to look and behave when meeting
Focus your attention on choosing clothes, it is notshould be too catchy, but not too simple. Also, it must correspond to the place where you are going to meet, i.e. Do not go to the library in the evening dress. With her choice, be guided by the fact that most men prefer softer, pastel, restrained tones. Playing bright colors in clothes can cause an ambiguous reaction, and in fact the first impression about you should remain positive. When choosing the toilet water, stop at lighter, unobtrusive, perhaps, mysterious, but at the same time soft fragrances. Your scent should attract a man, and not repel. Men do not like sloppy, so your hair and nails should be in perfect order. Hairstyle should look more natural, avoid experiments with a wave, a man may not be delighted. Nails should not be painted in bright colors, the best choice is a neat French manicure. Your behavior at the meeting should be natural and relaxed. Do not flirt with a man, if you are given this is not so simple - it will look ridiculous. Try to smile as often as possible and joke whenever possible. Do not act too aggressively. On many this kind of dating makes a bad impression, and a man is unlikely to want to continue talking with you. You need to interest the man and turn everything around so that he thinks that he met you, and not you with him. Show your creativity and come up with a more original way to get acquainted - this will make a good impression on a man, and he will be interested in a new acquaintance. To begin with, you need to know exactly what kind of man you need. This is done in order to narrow the alleged search for a partner.
Where to meet a man
- Fitness club
Every self-respecting man seeks to becomestronger, watching his appearance. Sports people, as a rule, do not smoke, do not drink, lead an active lifestyle, are full of energy. If you need just such a man, rather buy a subscription to a fitness club. To interest an athletic guy, you do not necessarily become a master of sports. you can approach with the request to show how correctly to carry out any exercise. In this case, the man imagines himself a "guru" and will gladly show you everything you asked for. And so, word by word, develop the conversation, ask if he is engaged for a long time, praise his achievements - thereby you will awaken interest in yourself, as it is nice to receive praise from a hardly familiar person. If in the first month you have not met the man of your dreams, do not despair, at least for the time spent in the hall, you will improve your figure and improve your health, and there the guys will start to contact you for advice.
- Bookstores, libraries
If you want to see next to a well-read,intelligent man who knows the answers to all questions, welcome to the world of books. Where, how not here, to search for a man with convolutions? The reason for the conversation can serve as general preferences in the literature. You can simply take a book and ask if he has read it and whether to buy it. Start developing the conversation by asking about his preferences in literature, which is his favorite book. If you have at least one work read, start discussing it on its topic. you can make him a compliment about his mind and reading. It will be nice to the man, and it will be interesting for him to continue the conversation with you.
- Theaters, museums, exhibitions
If you are an art connoisseur and would like to seenext to a similarly refined nature, to seek dating is also in places not so remote. Start the conversation by asking, for example: "Have you seen the author's earlier works?" You can also just start discussing the existing works in the hall, if this is an exhibition. But I'm afraid to upset you that single men here do not meet very often, but there are also such.
A great opportunity to meet a man -attend English language courses. In our time, most developing people tend to learn new languages, and since English is the most popular language, the choice is obvious.
- Clubs of interest
If you have any interests, usethem for dating a man. Interests can be absolutely anything, from collecting stamps and ending with fine art. In addition, it is much easier to develop a conversation when people share a favorite business.
- A restaurant
One of the most popular places for dating. It is not necessary to visit the most expensive restaurants to get acquainted with a decent man, unless, of course, you do not want yourself a rich sponsor. You can start a conversation with a request to suggest some tasty dish.
- Cultural rest places
Parks of entertainment and recreation, recreation centers, playgrounds, where open concerts and mass recreation events take place.
Where it is not necessary to get acquainted with men
- Night clubs
This is not a place to look for seriousrelations. Men who visit these establishments, as a rule, are lovers of "withdrawal", i.e. relationship for one night. But if you need such a relationship, welcome.
- Social networks
Many people, having got acquainted in social networks,literally fall in love, but after the first meeting in real life, they suffer a great disappointment. The one with whom you are acquainted in a virtual life, in real life may be a completely different person. In virtual life you do not hear his voice, do not smell, do not know how he will behave in this or that situation. Rarely network acquaintances turn into long, serious relationships.
- Motor shows
Most women in searcha wealthy man, gets acquainted in car dealerships. But if a man came to a car dealership for a car, this does not mean that he immediately pays all of his cost. Perhaps he will take her on credit and by starting to build relationships with him, you will be bogged down in debt together.