For some reason, it is believed that flowers are used asgifts are suitable only for women. But remember the luxurious bouquets that are given to artists at concerts and performances. Or the awards ceremonies for athletes, when along with a medal they also receive a bouquet of flowers. Or honoring veterans with the presentation of flowers and gifts. Everyone loves flowers. Therefore, they can (and should) be given to everyone: women, children, and men. The question is how to do it. No one ever has problems choosing flowers for a woman. But the question of what flowers to give a man baffles many. Let's find out what rules and traditions should be followed when choosing flowers for men.
What do the rules of etiquette say?
According to the rules of classical etiquette, a woman should notshould give flowers to men who are younger than her. And these rules also say that a woman can give flowers only to the man who is the hero of the occasion. Modern etiquette does not set such restrictions. So give flowers to young and mature men, loved and respected, with or without a reason. But still, follow the generally accepted rules.
With very close men (lovers, relatives, friends) you can not follow all these rules and behave quite freely and naturally.
On what occasion can you give flowers to a man?
The holiday of February 23 is not the only reason forPresentation of a bouquet. Male managers are given flowers on professional holidays and anniversaries. In addition, a bouquet can be presented in the event of successful completion of any projects, significant corporate events. Flowers will be an excellent gift for a triumphant man. This way you can celebrate his personal successes or any achievements in studies, in sports, in work, in creativity. A man celebrating an anniversary also cannot be left without flowers. However, a bouquet can be given to a man on any birthday, without waiting for a round date. And if we are talking about beloved men, then there is no need to look for a reason. Give them flowers when you want it. And, of course, on Valentine's Day, on Spouse's Day, as well as on a wedding anniversary or the beginning of a romantic relationship. When it comes to loved and dear people, then what flower to give a man, and on what occasion will tell you your heart. And in other cases (or if the heart is silent) it is worth being guided by established traditions.
Which flowers to choose?
Let's figure out what flowers can be givena man, and which ones are better not to give? When choosing flowers, consider the personality traits of the recipient of the bouquet. Do not ignore his age, temperament, profession and hobbies. Such a bouquet will emphasize the individuality of a man and, for sure, will be accepted with special gratitude. What do florists say about flowers for men? A man's flower is a bright and flashy flower. Therefore, refuse flowers of delicate colors (except white). Blue, burgundy, purple, red, orange flowers are suitable for men. When choosing flowers of a certain color, also focus on the individual characteristics of the man. Expressive and energetic representatives of the stronger sex will suit bouquets of red or burgundy flowers. For reserved and judicious ones - calmer colors: blue, dark pink, dark orange. A man's flower should be a symbol of strength, confidence, fortitude and power. Callas, gladioli, roses, tulips, carnations, dahlias, chrysanthemums, gerberas, orchids, anthuriums, and lilies are considered to be male flowers. However, there are some peculiarities here too. Young men are not given such conservative flowers as roses and carnations. These flowers are more suitable for respectable and mature men. They will also appreciate bouquets of gladioli, chrysanthemums, and dahlias. For young people, it is worth choosing tulips, irises, and gerberas. For a gift to a boss, colleague, or business partner, it is advisable to choose exotic flowers: anthuriums, strelitzias, leucodendrons, banksias. You can also focus on the color of the bouquet. The symbol of activity is red and crimson colors. Gold symbolizes prosperity, and yellow symbolizes cheerfulness. You shouldn't give men small flowers on short stems - lilies of the valley, violets, hyacinths. Such a gift will make a man feel like a muslin young lady, which is unlikely to cause him any particular delight. If you are going to present one flower as a gift, choose a flower with a long stem. A large chrysanthemum or rose, gladiolus or calla will look good in a single composition. If you want to give a bouquet, remember that the shape of a flower bouquet for a man is also chosen according to certain rules.
If a bouquet, then what?
First, give up the belief that a bouquetfor a man should be discreet and modest. On the contrary, let it be bright and original, pleasing to the eye and soul. At the same time, a man's bouquet should look restrained and stylish. Let it be contrasting and multi-tiered, with bright flowers and thick greenery. But it is inappropriate to have many small details in it: bows, ribbons, butterflies, curls. It is better to use dried flowers, reeds, cane as a decorative addition. The shape of the bouquet should have strict lines, be elongated, square or triangular. It is better if the bouquet consists of flowers of the same type and color (monobouquet). However, you can also give a man a flower arrangement of several types of flowers. A flower basket will also be a good gift. It will be appropriate to add a beautiful bottle of good cognac (whiskey, wine) or fruit to such a basket in addition to flowers. A thematic flower arrangement will not leave a man indifferent. Especially if it is related to his hobbies or habits. This could be, for example, a bouquet in the shape of a football, a car, a sailboat or a weight. Men are not spoiled by bouquets at all. Although, according to sociologists, most of them would really like to receive flowers as a gift. So, try to correct this injustice by knowing what flowers to give to men. And you will see that it is not difficult to touch a man's heart. Flowers can say a lot, they help express feelings and fill life with the aroma of love and sincerity. We recommend reading:
