What to do if a child is hurt in a kindergarten or school

Psychologists admit: By nature, babies are destined to fool around and run, and fight for leadership. And parents and teachers still prefer children who can not be heard or seen. But in any children's institution there will certainly be at least one "terrible child", which does not give rest to the teachers or their friends. And to calm him even in adults does not always work.Raul (the name is changed .- WDay Note) goes to an ordinary garden in St. Petersburg. His mother works here as an assistant educator, and his father is a military man. It would seem that a boy should know what discipline is, but not: that Raoul is "unmanageable" knows the whole region. The child managed to annoy everyone who can only, and especially - classmates in the kindergarten.A photo: GettyImages One of the girls complained to my mother: - Raoul does not sleep at anyone in a "quiet time"! He curses, fights and even bites! "The girl's mother, Karina, was horrified: what if this Raoul offended her daughter?" "Yes, the boy is hyperactive and overly emotional," the educators admit. "But he's clever and inquisitive! He just needs an individual approach. But Karin's mother did not like the situation. She appealed for protection from an aggressive boy to Svetlana Agapitova, the Commissioner for Children's Rights in St. Petersburg: "I ask to protect my daughter's rights to maintain physical and mental health and to check the conditions of Raul B's upbringing." - We, unfortunately, have many complaints with complaints about children's behavior, "acknowledges the children's ombudsman. - Some parents even believe that in such situations, the rights of fighters are always protected, and the interests of other children are not taken into account. But this is not entirely true - the kindergartens simply can not transfer the child to another group after each signal. After all, there may be dissatisfied, and how to be then? The situation is typical: the child must learn to live in a team, but what if the collective moans from him? To what extent is it necessary to respect the rights of hyperactive children who, by their behavior, infringe on the freedom of children of the ordinary? Where are the limits of patience and tolerance? It seems that this problem is becoming more acute in society, and this story is a confirmation. Raoul's parents do not deny that there are problems in Raoul's behavior, and they agreed to show the son to a child psychiatrist. Now the boy is engaged with the teacher-psychologist, goes to family counseling sessions, visits diagnostic centers. The children even decided to make an individual schedule for the child and hope that he will still learn to control himself. Raul is not going to be expelled from the kindergarten. "Our task is to work with all children: obedient and not very quiet and emotional, calm and mobile," the teachers say. - We must find an approach to every child, taking into account their individual characteristics. As soon as the process of adaptation to the new team is over, Raoul will behave better. "Educators are right: one can not ignore children with peculiarities, because they have the right to education and socialization, just like everyone else," says Svetlana Agapitova. Karine's garden was offered to transfer her daughter to another group, away from Raul. But the girl's mother refused, threatening to continue the struggle to get rid of the "uncomfortable child" in other instances. Can unruly children learn together with ordinary children?

Of course, because otherwise they will not get used to life in society
In no case. This can be dangerous for ordinary children
Why not? Only for each such child should always be supervised by a specialist
I will leave it in the comments

Have voted: 245 Is it possible for unruly children to study together with ordinary children?

Of course, because otherwise they will not get used to life in society20,4%
In no case. This can be dangerous for ordinary children20.8%
Why not? Only for each such child constantly should look after a specialist57,6%
I leave my version in the comments 1,2%

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