The story began corny. I accidentally read the comments under the post in LJ of the famous bloggers. She cried young mothers for depriving their husbands of intimacy, putting the babies to sleep in a common bed. This time I completely shared the opinion of the popular lady. It seems that everything is logical. A small child must sleep in his crib. First, in a dream, anything can happen: I or my husband accidentally turn around, the baby will suffer. Secondly, it's not hygienic, and though you're in the shower, you still have nothing to do in the parent's bed. Thirdly, what kind of dream is there, if I go through the whole night, suddenly I'll do it. Okay, about the sex point missed, the temperament is different, but just keep in mind that the baby in the bed interferes with the relationship. In the comments, the blogger was accused of heartlessness and childlessness. Like, here you are, you will drag the baby to bed yourself. Mom, and for what invented baby cots? You want a cradle, you want with a removable side, which you can put back to the matrimonial box.
Photo:GettyImage The argument "it's more convenient to feed" doesn't work either. “You can even sleep while the baby is eating” - mothers, are you out of your mind? And if something goes wrong, and you just fall asleep? But for any comment against co-sleeping and nightly uncontrolled feedings, moms band together and attack critics. They say that the baby should, but simply must, be close to his parents. So he will feel protected, warmed by the warmth of your bodies and will definitely grow up as a genius. And those that went to their own cots and cradles will at least lag behind in development, and at the most, they will develop mental illness. Be silent! Be silent, otherwise you will be inundated with judgmental comments. No milk? What nonsense, because they had it and still have it. You are just a lazy mother who wants to kill her baby. Or doom him to a life without immunity. Now I look at my mother with suspicion, but does she really love me? Grown up on cow's milk with the addition of oatmeal. In space, I seem to be guided, I graduated from school with a gold medal, I work, I can distinguish Monet from Manet. And yet a worm of doubt gnaws at me, if my mother could establish breastfeeding as easily and naturally as they describe on the forums, the Nobel Prize would already be in my pocket. Have you bought a pacifier for your baby? On the forums, people like you are recommended to be shot at the exit from the store. Because again the threat of mental disability, coupled with a disgusting bite. In general, if you do something wrong, according to the regulars of mothers' forums, then in any case your child will grow up defective - I realized this on the third day of viewing numerous topics in an online chat room. Throw away the recipe. Bad blood test, pathology on ultrasound? The laboratory was wrong, the doctor was a fool, but a friend of a friend had a healthy baby. Have you bought a new-fangled stroller? Yes, you are a monster, so you can leave the baby without a spine, because the wheels must be giant, inflatable, the cradle is also preferably gigantic and weighing thirty kilograms. Can't drag you home? And who is easy now. You are a mother and you must endure hardship. There was already a joint dream. This is also terrible. I was in a state of expectation, I thought that having a baby was not a reason to bury myself in diapers. But on the forums they explained that otherwise I would be a bad mother and nothing good would come of my child.
