What kind of women are men's wives in reality

They say that it is impossible to understand women. Men, they say, are more predictable and logical in their actions. Nevertheless, we still can not pinpoint which women women choose to marry. And what do we really need from the representatives of the stronger sex. Sometimes you look - and a beauty, and the hostess, and not lazy, and is ready to love faithfully to the grave, and especially for some reason they are not in demand. Well, it would seem, what else is necessary? Take this as a wife, you will always have a delicious dinner, a clean bed, ironed fresh shirts and other amenities. Is it logical? Well, of course! But reluctantly take for some reason. And if they take, then they run to the left or are washed out of the house for work or fishing. But around some obstinate, too free lady, for whom household concerns are the fifth thing, swarms contend for the hand and heart. What's happening? After all, it is clear in advance - she will not become a good wife. Let's try to understand?

Who do men want?

So, whom do our men choose to be the companions of life? They argue that in women - candidates for the role of a wife - they appreciate:

Independence. Well, with this, everything is clear. Representatives of the stronger sex do not like to play the role of nannies. It is much easier to live when a wife is able to deal with personal problems by herself, rather than dumping them on her husband. There's a lot of work here! There is no time for men to mess around with women's difficulties. The more so, and the complexity of these, from the male point of view, the real nonsense. It is quite possible not to pay attention to them at all - they themselves will disappear. A helpless wife will roar because of every petty problem and pester - help and help! And we'll have to give up and help. No, it is better to have a spouse as an independent. Such a lady and her tasks can solve, and her husband will get out of an unpleasant situation, if anything;

Intelligence. The statement is doubtful. Probably, the male half of humanity in this case means that the female mental abilities must exceed the mental abilities of the chicken. But not too much. It will be enough to have something to talk about with your wife. Too smart wife usually annoying and annoying. He'll start talking about Fermat's theorem or the Egyptian economy at dinner, and the lunch is gone! So intelligence is intelligence, but everything must have boundaries. Let it be smart, but not very;

External appeal. Well, this is not worth discussing. All men want to see near the enchantress, with whom not ashamed to appear in society. Well, at home to look good, and not shalala from the room to the room shabby and in a washed dressing gown. A woman should always be charming, and a point! However, the charm does not bother us in general. So here it is necessary to listen to the male opinion;

Respect for a man. It means the ability of a woman to respectfully listen to his opinion and not argue, even if it does not like it. Well, and tactful behavior in relations with the faithful and an expression of respect for him in society. That is, we should always be courteous and correct. Even if your worst half changes, it's rude and shambles somewhere all night. No comments;

Unobtrusive and democratic. In other words, a woman should not tell a man what and how much he has, when and where to walk, what to do and so on. With this, perhaps, you can agree. Let them have their own interests and enjoy freedom. But this does not limit our freedom. You think, my wife stayed with her friends all day and did not cook dinner! My husband yesterday also in the casino stuck up to three o'clock in the morning and lost almost all of his salary. Everyone has their own interests. And you can have supper and sandwiches;

Delicacy and wisdom in communicating with a man. It is expressed in the absence of reproaches and inappropriate reminders of duties. There is no need to regularly say to a man that you need to take out the garbage or throw a dirty shirt into the laundry. You should not ask him to call when he is delayed and reproached for having forgotten the anniversary of the wedding. The representatives of the stronger sex have other, global tasks. They are not up to empty calls and remembering all the dates. Did not come on time from work? So, it is so necessary. Did you forget your mother-in-law's birthday? The head is busy with world problems. True, if the road appeared in the morning, and his half wisely and delicately does not ask where this misunderstanding was, he may well be upset, did not the spouse worry? It turns out that she is indifferent to her beloved;

Sexuality. Oh yeah! Sexuality is great. The main thing in this matter is to know exactly what and when a spouse is required. And do not molest in one underwear or without it, when he came tired, ate or watching football. Everything has its time. The most important thing is to forget that the head hurts, even if it actually hurts. And that after a hard working day, running around the shops and preparing a delicious dinner of forces for sex is no more. Wished husband intima? Live in bed! The desires of a man must be satisfied. It will not go in search of the one who does not suffer from headaches;

The ability to get along with the parents of a man and hisfriends. This means that a woman must know how to please her mother-in-law and patiently listen to the stories of the father-in-law about the exploits of youth for the fiftieth time. And my friend's friends are friendly and respectful. Even if he endlessly disappears with them in the sauna or fishing. Men are the same! That's only respect and friendliness should have boundaries. Otherwise, friends can decide that they are tempted and inadvertently tempted. And it's her fault. The woman is the same;

The ability to inspire a man to greataccomplishments. It is that a woman is convinced of the exclusivity of a man and demonstrates this by all her behavior. Well, let him lazy and does not like to show initiative in anything. Exclusive, and that's it. Give him an incentive - the mountains will turn! "Stimulus" should be submitted by the wife silently, without reproaches, with one enthusiastic appearance. And then the road will cease to carry the mountains and again collapses on the sofa.

That's roughly the basic requirements look likemost of the men to their future wives. Actually, there is nothing supernatural in them. And many of the fairer sex would easily develop in themselves the qualities necessary for a happy marriage. Since a woman chooses a man for the comfort of the whole future family, and not just for herself. And I'm ready to change for this as much as possible. If only it was exactly as men say. In reality, for those who are alone and unhappy, for some reason, there are those who most closely correspond to most of the above requirements. The only exception is sexuality and independence. And then in certain limits. Because an overly sexual wife can tire or cause suspicion of infidelity, and too independent - to enrage her independence in decisions. In women's society there is an opinion that long-term relationships for men are formed either with angels or with bitch. But who are the angels? These are submissive household wives, able to lay down their bones, if only the faithful were well. They are predictable, reliable, kind, affectionate and affectionate. However, they usually forget about themselves and their development. The result - most men with angels just get bored, and they change the faithful without a twinge of conscience. As for the bitch, then they are boredom - things are incompatible. Extremely independent, mysterious, self-confident, sexy, they battle the representatives of the stronger sex on the spot. Experienced manipulators and excellent psychologists, true bitch easily manage men, playing on their instincts. Their credo is a cold selfish calculation and own benefit. Why do men, even realizing this, still lose their heads because of the bastards and are ready to put at their feet the whole world? Because relations with them differ in brightness, versatility and unpredictability. You never know what a bitch throws out, so you do not get bored with her. Nevertheless, the bitch is thrown at least as often as the angels. One day, men begin to see and realize that you will not feel warmhearted here, but there is no sincere feeling. Also will not be. A real bitch can not give anything away. She can only take, satisfying her own needs. Spending a lifetime next to such a woman means willingly to sentence yourself to eternal hard labor. Make someone really happy she can not. Bitch can awaken passion, an irresistible sexual desire, but only. So what kind of women are chosen by the women confidently and willingly? With whom do they dream to bind fate to the end of the days? With those who are able to love, subtly feel and, long without meditating, come to the rescue. Who rejoices in life and does not believe that giving up himself is the fate of any wife. She is a charming and positive woman, endowed with natural wisdom. She is playful, flirtatious, mysterious, sexy, but not immoral. Such a woman, like a star, shines with inner light. Next to her, everyone becomes warmer and calmer. Next to her, the man is always interesting and does not want to kill time in the casino or behind the bottle. He does not have the desire to hang out late at work and go to bed with another lady. Such women are not abandoned, because they generously give happiness. The most interesting thing is that there are similar qualities in each of us. And to develop them is our main task. Otherwise, family happiness can not be seen. We advise you to read: